Personal Ad Headline of the Day: Positive Thinking
Positive Thinking
Don’t you just love people that say to you “If you think positively then you’ll feel better,” or some such related nonsense?
I’d answer them that if you always think positively how would you know it? Without a negative thought to counter all that positivity how would you know it?
And a change in mood can be a good thing. It can relieve stress as well as help you to find true happiness, even true love. And sadness is a part of that, don’t you think?
For your personal ad headline today try this:
“I am a positive thinker, I think.”
And let them figure it out.
Have a great day!
Dating Profile Headline of the Day
The over/under age for what men want in a relationship is 40.
Under 40 and men want sex the most, over 40 and men want to cuddle more. Honest, I’m not making this up.
But I’m not saying which side of the curve, if either, I’m on.
The “Mutually beneficial relationship” seems to be the key words of any description of people getting together.
And that’s a description you can’t argue against, whether it’s love, money, something else or a combination of the three that brings together what each partner of the relationship is needing from the other.
For your personal headline today try this:
“Let’s talk and see if we have what each other wants in life and love.”
Have a great day!
Start With Local: Dating Profile Headline of the Day
A bicycle built for two.
This amount of people is either very good for you or very bad for you.
I’d like to be encouraging but let’s be serious about such huge numbers: they pale in contrast to the overall number of monthly internet users worldwide (estimated to be almost one third of the world’s population) and doesn’t mean conclusively that you will find your life-partner using an online dating service.
But as my grandfather was fond of saying “If you don’t try you lose 100% of the time”.If you want to be a shining example of the successfulness of online dating I suggest you start searching for your perfect match in your local area. You’re certain to not find a match if you’re looking in the wrong state or country, unless you’re looking for a foreign bride.
To be certain you’re best off to join a top ten dating service for the most exposure of your personal ad and profile and limit your searches to an area that you’d actually travel to for a first meeting or date.
You also might want to test out today’s personal ad headline suggestion:
“Just me and you and a bicycle built for two.”
Have a great day!
One Less Woman Driver: Dating Profile Headline of the Day
I’m not sexist, at least I think I’m not. (I haven’t been surveyed by friends about this so who knows what others think.)
Even women drivers hate women drivers. I mean, when you’re cut off, almost in an accident and raced alongside on a quiet stretch of road you’re going to see a female at the wheel of that other car.
So when a guy takes a woman on a date he should drive, that way they’re both safe.
Of course I’m leaving out some personal history of my own driving… Let’s just say I might be the exception to this dating and driving rule.
To enhance your online dating profile try this headline:
“I believe in equality except for… (add here something odd like “shoe sizes”)”.
Have a great day!
Fantasy Love: Dating Profile Headline of the Day
In a general sort of way we all like to be scared, to find that adrenaline rush and inner strength rush awake inside us.
That’s why horror movies are so popular, feeling fear and ultimately coming out a hero, saving the damsel, the town, the children.
There is also the “romantic love” drama movies that awaken inside up the compassion and heartfelt love we seek in the real world.
I know you know what I’m talking about.
It is this need for stimulation that keeps us scaring ourselves and searching out love, whether real or entertainment.
Know that you can recognize these differing experiences you can work on the ones that you prefer, like real-world love.
For your dating profile headline try this one today:
“Let’s step out of fantasy and meet in the real world soon!”
Have a great day!
Where Are The Single Ladies?: Dating Profile Headline of the Day
One of the most often questions I get from men is “Where are the single ladies?”
The honest answer is “Not where you’re looking” because the guys are expecting the women to jump out, hit them on the head and jump into bed. It’s just not going to happen, is it ladies?
And so go the free dating sites, right again ladies? More guys waiting to lunge on you than “Ladies night” at the local caberet.
Guys, women are everywhere. Women are roughly 50% of the population, open your eyes and look. Waiting for a “ten”? Looks fade but love lasts forever, so stop using that mountaintop rating system and peer inside once in a while, maybe you’re not that great of a catch after all, except for someone that will love you for who you are, where you are.
My suggestion for your dating profile headline today is:
“Not a lifetime of memories but a lifetime!”
Have a great day!
Keys to the Mansion: Dating Profile Headline of the Day
So you’ve been dating for a while now, how’s it been going for you?
Not good? So sorry to hear that.
Do you think there’s anything you could do differently to make dating a more enjoyable event in your life? And I mean in the real world of dating, whether you meet potential dating partners online or offline, not in some fantasy world where you’ve been handed a million dollars and the keys to the mansion. And I mean one thing, not dozens of things. LOL.
Consider your last date, if you can remember back that far, versus your last online chat. Why is there success in one place and not the other?
Simple… when you’re chatting online you’ve got time to think about your reply, when the date is in the RW (Real World) it’s the real you without a backstop or wingman, or almost unlimited time. Imagine how bad your chats would be if you used Skype video instead of just a simple instant messenger service. U-g-l-y!
Now, except for a couple of you I do know, I don’t know you well enough to give you a deeply personal suggestion to date better but I can give you a general answer that applies well: think of your favorite movie character and how they would approach the date situations you’ve been in the past. The movie character is memorable to you because you find similarities in your own life. If you can think how that character would handle a dating situation then you can display a part of your own character to someone else along the same vein, using your own interpretation as a response.
And then you’ll date great!
For my dating headline suggestion for you, think of this:
“Life is all about taste and make, meet me in the kitchen?”
Have a great day!
Live Your Life: Dating Profile Headline of the Day
I like to think that I’m able to understand people, to sense their aims and meanings. But sometimes life doesn’t give you clues.
When all you have to go on is the possibility that you’re more likely right than wrong about someone you have to take the chance that you are.
It’s the people that don’t take that chance that live their life in regret ,and unhappiness follows them like the dark cloud of doom seen so often above cartoon characters.
I urge you to take the chance that the chance is worth taking. Love will not find you hiding under a rock or trembling in your cave.
My suggestion for you to use as your online dating ad headline is this:
“I am here to share the sunshine with you.”
Have a great day!
Willing To Learn: Dating Profile Headline of the Day
Have you ever been close to having a dating relationship with someone you liked but never quite got the words out of your mouth to “formally” ask them out?
I have spoken with many guys that try to date a girl without actually asking her to go out with them on a date, but rather they ask the girl to just “hang out” or “hook up” instead of dating because if they don’t ask they can’t be rejected, right?
Not right, this is very wrong to be how guys spend time with girls they like, it’s almost trickery.
Fear is a powerful motivator and there are a lot of guys that are so afraid of rejection from a woman they’d rather stay single and rant against the unfairness of it all than make the changes needed to ask a girl on a date. [Read: http://hubpages.com/hub/Why_Cant_I_Get_A_Girlfriend]
Guys, I have to tell you plainly, the “afraid of women” thing can work to get you dates, if you play shy but willing to learn. Think about it.
And that gives us our personal ad headline for today:
“I am shy but willing to learn.”
Have a great day!
When the Honeymoon Ends: Dating Profile Headline of the Day
Wednesday
So I was watching TMZ the other day and the subject of honeymoons came up, more specifically, when is the honeymoon period over.
One of the guys in the staff said it was when the first year has passed, that’s when the honeymoon is over.
I know that isn’t true, because it’sa 10 years later and I still feel giddy when my wife snuggles up to me. But, of course, there have been signs that the honeymoon could be over and I’ll share some of them with you now:
- When she farts in the same room as you. Seriously, love on one hand, fart on the other, it just doesn’t work.
- When sharing food ends. It’s all cute and lovey-dovey to eat off of each other’s plate but when it’s the last slice of yesterday’s pizza, look out.
- When you start finishing each other’s sentences with “I told you so”.
- When the question “Are you coming to bed?” is no longer an invitation for sex.
- When she sits down and watches sports with you but always picks the opposing team.
Well, I’m likely in enough trouble now as ever, so I’ll finish up with my suggestion for your dating profile headline:
“Dating is only fun when you find the right one!”
Have a great day!
Superhero: Dating Profile Headline of the Day
Remember when you were super...
Wasn’t it greaty when you were young and you just knew that you had a superhero power waiting to be revealed?
Then you got older and the dreams of youth faded, in time, to the realities of life.
But, I offer to you, aren’t the realities of life imposed by society and popular culture? Do we really lose our innocence, our superhero powers, to time?
I give you this day to again believe in your personal dream of having a superhero power. For today you can call me “Time King”, a superhero that can stop time and change the outcome of any event for the better.
It’s only adream if we keep it there.
For your dating profile headline today I suggest this:
“My dreams have not outlived me.”
Have a great day!
Dating Profile Headline of the Day
Do you seek the future?
The world is at your feet so where do you want to be?
You have complete power over your future, what will you choose?
If I give you immense riches who will you help?
We all seek control over our destiny but refuse to move forward with the right choices for a better life.
You want more money then get a better job. Nothing in your career track, then get more education.
Want a girlfriend or boyfriend? What are you willing to do to improve yourself?
You carry your life on your shulders, is it a blessing or a curse?
Today’s headline should give anyone pause when they read it, making you stand out above the crowd, good luck!
“If I could be anyone who would I be?”
Have a great day!
Headlines: Dating Profile Headline of the Day
Wednesday
I’ve been hanging out a lot at www.Perfectmatch.com to see what changes, if any, they’ve made since my last really good look at the service.
I have to admit, with one exception, I do like what I see there.
The drawback I find is that they actually don’t have a headline to lead off your dating profile. In the thousands of online dating services that I have visited (some removed, many just avoided speaking ill of) I can’t ever think of one that didn’t put your headline front and center.
At Perfectmatch.com your headline is hidden on a tab called “In my own words”, so if you’re looking for a place to write in one of my headline suggestions, then that’s the place.
My dating profile headline suggestion for you, in my own words, is this:
” I’ll be here, will you be joining me? “
Have a great day!
