Only The Lonely: Dating Profile Headline of the Day
Your interaction with the world
Think about that for a minute. If you’re happily laying in a green field gazing at a butterfly as it wafts across your field of view, you’re still alone. But you can accept and rejoice in the complexity of nature and the world around you.
At that moment you may be alone, but not lonely.
You’re surfing through your favorite dating services, browing the hundreds of single’s profiles and if you come across a profile that catches your attention, you’re still alone, but not lonely.
It’s your interaction with the world around you that determines your feelings of being alone versus being lonely, and, against all odds, of being happy where you are at that moment, and the next.
You are your own happiness gauge, work on moving the indicator higher.
For your personal ad headline, give this a try:
“I’m ready!”
Have a great day!
Dating Profile Headline of the Day: An Exciting Date
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My favourite team, the BC Lions, won the Grey Cup (the Canadian version of the NFL’s Superbowl, BC Lions won 34-23 over the Winnipeg Blue Bombers) and there’s no stopping me now! (Health issues aside. Yup, still healing from an emergency appendix surgery but I’m feeling the positive energy, people!)
Great moods are 90% based on your outlook on life and 10% based on the luck of what happens in your life outside of your control and how you deal with your own current events versus the world.
You can win!
I firmly believe that we are all WINNERS,
we just haven’t found the right game rules to play yet, and maybe for right now it’s not dating.
Unless you have confidence in the things you love to do the most, how in hell should you be expected to have confidence when you’re putting yourself “out there”, emotionally and physically, on the dating line in the department of romance?
Consider that if things haven’t been going so well for you maybe it’s time to read some articles about dating and relationships, maybe also an ebook or two to download and read in privacy and take what you’re learning to pump up your dating game.
For today I hope that you’ll start stepping up your dating game right now with this headline for your online personal ad:
“You could be the reason why I stop online dating… You can be The One!”
Have a great day!
Personal Ad Headline of the Day: Self Promotion
“The truth will set you free.”
What a load of crap!
I mean, there are certain things you need to be truthful about and certain people you need to be truthful with but I don’t see that each group needs 100% of the same truths all the time.
Sometimes it is within generally agreed upon interpersonal manners to offer a little white lie to spare someone unnecessarily hurt feelings.
Online dating is often filled with all kinds of little white lies and has been the subject of countless surveys determining what will most likely be lied about.
For the ladies:
- age
- weight
For the men:
- height
- job
All that being said there’s nothing wrong with a little self promotion, after all, what is a dating profile if not a way to seek the attention of someone?
The trick to the method is saying enough to offer someone a little insight into your professional and personal life without giving away the store and having nothing to talk about when you finally get together face to face.
Remember to be:
Gratious
Real
Endearing
Animated
Truthful
And the both of you will have a GREAT date.
For your dating profile headline why not give this honest headline a try:
“Five Star Date at a One Star Diner.”
Have a great day!
Dating Profile Headline of the Day: Greatest Crisis
What I believe to be the greatest crisis of our time, something that affects the majority of us, is the incapability to just slow down.
Getting something - anything - faster than the next guy (or the last time) seems to be a driving force in most people’s lives.
Fast food wasn’t fast enough so now it’s a drive-thru that gets us fed faster.
Cooking a regular family dinner and having pride in what you feed your family has been transformed into a feeding frenzy centered around the microwave only regulated by what heats up faster and is more appealing on the front of the package than the actual taste and bonding that was the center of the family meal.
And as a single person, never mind the experience of being invited to a friend “that has a family” dinner disaster, you can also create your own mealtime ruination by simlpy eating similarly to a convict receiving his last meal.
Stop treating the events in your life as though the time involved may never be regained and also, that the time is a waste as the date/meeting occurried.
I challenge you to find in the next 2 days to find three activities that are not time dependant (but you treat them as if they were) and can be handled without a set time limit.
I’ll give you an example:
- when you go grocery shopping (in past posts I have encouraged you to take with youm a shopping list to help you purchase what you need not what you want) do you rush through missing on the real needs of your kitchen then find yourself at home having forgotten to pick up needed items because you ran out of time?
When you relieve yourself of time limits you allow yourself to be free of the restraints that hold you back.
Freedom from time gives you back your life.
For your online dating profile headline today try this:
“I have all the time in the world to meet you but I’d prefer to do it soon!”
Have a great day!
Dating Profile Headline of the Day: Life is Short
Monday is over, thank goodness.
Needless to say I had a very rough Monday and I hope that the events of Monday will not be repeated again within my lifetime. It wasn’t the “trick or treaters” banging on my door to exchange tricks for treats. I saw no tricks but gave out a lot of treats.
No, I’m not speaking about the fluctuations of currency or the fall of the stock markets. I don’t travel and my investments are so small (and have lost so much of their value) that if I sold them I’d owe my broker more for the transaction fees than I’d get for the sale overall. Ugh.
“Life is short, I just want to make you happy.”
Have a great day!
Personal Ad Headline of the Day: Doing Without
“It’s the foaming action that makes it different.”
Don’t you just love toothpaste marketing? Or was it personal lubrication?
I’m not really sure. All I caught was foaming and “new can… touch”, it could have been anything I guess.
The commercialization of our lives really is a form of envy and trickery. The majority of us have life well enough that we could do without shopping for a week and still make it through without too much inconvenience.
Think about your day tomorrow and how much you’d normally be spending and on what. maybe for a day or two you can do without.
For your personal ad headline try this:
“I can do without a lot of things, but not love.”
Have a great day!
First One Down: Dating Profile Headline of the Day
Match.com
On that day you lost a friend and you gained a “married couple”. Or so we were told.
I remember losing a friend and getting in return a two-headed monster and one that wouldn’t come out to play to boot.
Then more friends got married, others “played house” and were also otherwise occupied when poker night came around.
You start with single being fun and after a while it becomes a disease.
Life offers you many turns over time. Keep that in mind as you continue on your path.
For your dating ad try this headline today:
“Do you agree that we cannot go on like this?”
Have a great day!
I Wonder: Dating Profile Headline of the Day
This is something to wonder about.
Love is contagious but if you aim this “love virus” at someone who is otherwise immune you not only end up with wasted effort but the “contagion” you had will have to rebuild its strength before it has the strength to strike again.
We each have personal experiences with rejected love. Whether we are eventually off-putted with a standard refusal of our advances and obsession or were ridiculed and rejected in a humiliating way, love was lost and our wounds were opened up and raw for a long time afterwards.
Some people attempt to immunize themselves against the love virus, refusing to become either a target for love or an arrow on the bow of Cupid. Their existence becomes robotic, cold and as predictable as a sunny day. But even sunny days can bring rain and when love strikes these people they can be so overwhelmed that they find new life shattering their solitary existence becoming forever changed.
I urge you to not hide from the effects of love but I wonder if anyone reading this will heed my warning.
For your personal ad headline try this today:
“Love may be eternal but love is also scarce, will you share yours with me?”
Have a great day!
‘Love Hurts’ by Nazareth (circa 1976)
Life can Be Good: Dating Profile Headline of the Day
Life can be good.
It comes as no surprise that people can make life harder than it needs to be.
Dating is one of these situations that fear can overtake the natural instinct to be social. But you don’t have to be alone when you don’t want to be alone if you can take dating slowly enough that you become comfortable going out alone, meet people, and have a good time without fear or heightened (and often unreasonable) expectations that you force on yourself.
The one piece of advice I can offer you about being alone and dating is this:
Allow yourself to have an “escape plan”. Often if you have a way to excuse yourself from a social environment when you become uncomfortable, this knowledge makes the social encounter easier to deal with.
Knowing that you can reasonably leave allows you to have the freedom from expectations that gives you the confidence to, at the very least, test the social waters and build upon these experiences.
For your dating profile headline try this one today:
“Life should be fun, let’s have fun together!”
Have a great day!
Living the life of romantic love: Dating Profile Headline of the Day
Living the life of romantic love.
Then why aren’t you living the life of romantic love, surrounded by puppies and rose petals?
Because (the answer to both questions is:) you live in the real world, just like I do and it’s a cold loveless world out there unless you’re either desperate or a fool.
But love can be found and being alone doesn’t have to be a permanent way of life.
Just follow this on rule to find love: Don’t give up.
As long as you believe that you will find love, love can find you. It’s when you give up belief that that you close off that part of yourself to the opportunities of finding love.
Holding onto this train of thought brings us to your dating profile headline of the day suggestion:
“It’s been a while but I still believe love will find me!”
Have a great day!
Time To Start Dating Again: Dating Profile Headline of the Day
When is the time right to date other people after a relationship breakup?
Why would I write this post when, clearly, you’re dating now and have moved on from your past indulgences (me)? For some people the answer to the above question = a few weeks to a month.
All the more power to you, but are you really setting your previous partner free? Have the feelings you once had entered their own ice age?
To be certain that you’re free and clear of your past relationships, keep away for a couple of weeks, maybe more. Including no emails, texts and phone calls.
After 14 to 28 days you can decide to send an email for them to answer or not, or simply take the next step and ask for a restraining order if you have not been likewise left alone. Did I say keep all copies of they’re emails and texts and voicemail messages?
If you receive texts and emails and voicemails from that person, it shows how much they still need you in their life, even if any type of help will be thrown back into your face. Do yourself a favor and ignore them all.
I’m sure you’ve done all you can. You’ve bit down on the bullets, you’ve drained your bank accounts, and nothing ever was good enough. When the pot of gold empties, some types move on.
But some pass the test. Hey, embrace the challenge and allow for no one else to take the blame for your own current circumstances.
This, basically, is the type of person you want to date.
Your new date should be unencumbered by previous responsibilities and waiting in awe as their new world unfolds before them with you by their side.
Tread carefully and enjoy your new freedoms. My profile headline suggestion for you today to us is:
“I have followed the rainbow and am ready to share the gold I found.”
Have a great day!
Reality Check Tuesday: Dating Profile Headline of the Day
Today is “Reality Check Tuesday”.
How often do you check your life’s plan, dust off your dating life and brace yourself for some drastic changes to upscale your love life?
Experts generally agree that your career should have a 5 year plan, setting goals, both long range and short.
I believe that your dating life should have a reality check every 6 months.
Are you dating the right types of people? Are you happy with the “involvement level” of your more intimate relationships?
“Yes” is your goal and the more yeses the better you’ll feel because your dating life infects the satisfaction of all other parts of your life, personal and professional.
For your personal ad upgrade today try using this headline:
“This is when life gets interesting.”
Have a great day!
Informed Choice: Dating Profile Headline of the Day
I just saw a tv ad for “chocolate cheerios”. Luckily for them the ad doesn’t say something like “still heart smart” or some such garbage. Scratch that, it does say something like that, must be very “real” chocolate flavor. Ugh.Cereal makers are just like any other product marketing business, reach for the stars but aim for the lowest denominator.
That’s why I review online dating services, to help you make an informed choice, not just the first website that pops up in a web search and certainly not just any site that shows you models as members.
Where am I going with this? Right to today’s dating profile headline suggestion for you, of course:
“Make an informed choice, read my profile!”
Have a great day!
Remove The Ordinary: Dating Profile Headline of the Day
Your day today will be filled with the routine of life.
Get up. wash, eat (maybe?) go to work or otherwise begin the routine of your day. You don’t even have to make a chore list like you’d do for the weekend, you know what you’re doing today and it varies very little.
You need to date more, don’t you?
[How women can meet their perfect man click here.]
When your day is finished and you finally have a moment to yourself take a hard look at your dating profile and make some small changes that takes the routine, the ordinary, out of your profile.
Make your profile an exciting read, include the out-of-the-ordinary events that have happened to you, whether today or last month/year.
While you’re at it, update your headline (little white lies are ok) to read:
“I found a hundred $ bill on the sidewalk yesterday.”
Have a great day!
