Life Lessons: Dating Profile Headline of the Day
You cannot learn for someone else.
You can learn with others, think of a classroom. That is learning with someone.
You can learn by example, think of parables and historical stories. That is learning from someone.
But someone else cannot learn something and, through osmosis or some other mystical transformation system, have that knowledge passed to you without effort, without the benefit of doing something yourself you will always know what you know and nothing more. Star Trek’s Spock might, humans cannot.
Everybody has to learn the lessons of life on their own. Everybody is responsible for making their own mistakes and hopefully, by taking their life lessons to heart and realizing the new proper path as their new life lessons has shown them what to do next that is right and can now also safely and with confidence in their new found future they can move their life forward.
Whew! A real mouthful that was.
But really, what you learn is all on your own with a minimal amount of interference from well-meaning friends and family members.
Notice that I haven’t stated what the personal crisis is… because it doesn’t really matter. Life lessons come by without warning. They often take your life on a violent turn through experience or a lifting of the blinders on your eyes.
Life is like that, as long as you know that you are the only one that can learn something for yourself then you will.
For your personal ad headline today tempt the other attractive singles with this:
“There Is Love With A Few Simple Words Here.”
Have a great day!
Give You Anything: Dating Profile Headline of the Day
Thursday
I can give you anything you want, but only one thing at a time. When the next thing comes along you lose the current one. In what order do you choose fame, fortune, love, friendship and romance?
I don’t think there is a right or wrong answer but I know that I would rather endure years of romance and then love above the other choices.
And we do have these choices to make every day. They may not be exclusive of each other but the choice has to be made. Work harder and love less for fortune? Chase romance and lose friendships?
Just something for you to consider.
For your dating profile headline try this one:
“I can’t wait much longer to meet you.”
Have a great day!
Dating Profile Headline of the Day
Thursday
If you knew of nothing but the smiling sun shining on your face how would you ever know the pain of rain?
If you had it all and never went without how would you know the simple joy of the unexpected gift?
The world can be at your feet when you decide to make this happen. Most of us know the disappointment of rain on a planned day that suddenly is washed out.
The world can be at your feet when you appreciate the small gestures that can take you to a level of happiness not usually found.
Today, think of the small achievements that are yours and yours alone and let the memory drive you to an even higher personal level of satisfaction.
It has been written that no person can understand joy without sorrow but turning the event into a learning experience can bring new happiness others may never know.
For your headline on your dating profile today, try this headline out:
“I have felt pain and now I want to share joy.”
Have a great day!
Dating Experience: Dating Profile Headline of the Day
Thursday
Does your experience with dating matter?
I mean, the more dates you go on with different individuals does that make you more experienced with dating, for the better or for the worse?
I can never figure that one out, no matter how many people ask me questions about the subject.
I think that maybe dating experience can help you with learning how not to judge people.
I mean, it’s suggested that people take about 0.8 seconds to instinctively decide what type of person someone is with their “fight or flight” instinct. That’s pretty close to an immediate judgement about how someone thinks you’re a danger or not.
Eventually, if you have dated a lot of different people, you might be able to read their reaction to you and decide on your next moves.
That’s the experience part.
The instinct part keeps you safe but also keeps you wary and when that wariness lowers is when you have decided that, on some level, that the other person is not your enemy, and not a threat, so you loosen up a bit and display more of your real personality. This could happen all during the first date or over the first few dates.
Then the dating part comes in and you have to decide if this person is “The One” or at least the best opportunity for a sincere, long term relationship with someone or else it’s back to the dating pool.
Life is hard but you hold the hammer.
Today’s headline suggestion for your online personal ad is this:
“How many dates does it take?”
Have a great day!
Dating Profile Headline of the Day
Thursday
Once you’ve decided to begin your online dating adventure, you need three things to have on your side to be prepared:
1 - A “head and shoulders picture” so you have a good picture to post as your main profile picture;
2 - A willingness to read some reviews of the more popular dating services so you can choose a suitable dating service that will fulfill your needs;
3 - A friend or family member to critique your completed online dating profile. By having someone that knows you well read your profile before you post it you can be more certain that the right message is being made.
With these items in your dating arsenal all you need now is a great headline to post with your now-completed dating profile. I suggest this:
“I am not the last chance you have to meet someone sincere here, I am the last person you will want to meet here (in a good way).”
Have a great day!
A Happy Duck: Dating Profile Headline of the Day
Have you met my duck?
You have to be amazed that government can do anything it deems to be “The Law” yet when they can’t get their act together hundreds of thousands of ordinary people will be out of work, not getting a paycheck, being kicked out of parks and public spaces, those same that are the Government still get paid. Maybe they should be forfeiting their pay to a charitable cause. That should be a law. Either the Government is an essential service or it isn’t. Why do politicians always get things both ways?
Special treatment for “special people”, am I right?
We shouldn’t really be surprised, the world is full of special people, those that believe that the normal rules of life don’t apply to them.
We can see them at red lights in any traffic stop, in lineups waiting for something, in restaurants demanding special treatment. I could go on but we all know of those I am talking about.
When you’re dating you walk a fine line of being a special person for someone you like and a normal person for everyone else. tripping up in the distinction of the two usually ends in disaster.
My dating profile headline suggestion for you today is a funny headline that’s sure to get you noticed:
“Have you ever met a duck you didn’t like?”
Have a great day!
Payday!: Dating Profile Headline of the Day
Time to save?
I am so glad this day has arrived. Payday.
I’ve been struggling to make it to the end of the month and trying hard to not use my credit cards as a bridge. And I made it.
What made this month tough was a few unpaid sick days, that really cuts into the take-home pay.
How are you financially? If you’re past being a first-time dater and are old enough to know better, do you? It’s hard to grasp a hold of your finances sometimes but you should be working to manage a sound grip on the bills and obligations you have.
I’ve heard that you need at least $1.3 million in cash, investments and properties to be able to retire comfortably these days. Mostly because you’re going to live so long.
You don’t want to outlive your money do you?
When the bills are taken care of your stress level lowers and you can have fun in your life without the worry.
Match this with today’s headline suggestion:
“Not rich but in comfortable comfort.”
Have a great day!
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Looking Forward: Dating Profile Headline of the Day
I was a dishwasher way back when.
Do you spend a lot of time looking back?
I mean, not looking over your shoulder for the ones that stab you in the back, those gossip-mongers at work and other aspects of a bad social/proffessional workplace.
I mean looking back where you were one year ago, five ten years even.
Can you list your accomplishments easily, or do your failures and mistakes overshadow your personal history?
I ask you now to write down those failures and mistakes on a piece of paper. Seal that paper in an envelope and write today’s date on it. Address the envelope to yourself, add a stamp and drop it in a mailbox. When the letter shows up again, don’t open it, just put it away somewhere safe, where it won’t get forgotten (under your socks in your sock drawer is a good place).
Now that all that is done I want you to take that first accomplishment of yours and use it as your headline for today’s headline profile update. It could look like this:
“My first real job was washing dishes. I’ve come a long way!”
Have a great day!
Are You There?: Dating Profile Headline of the Day
The Japan tsunami disaster
Are we soon to witness a nuclear meltdown in Japan? More than one?
In times of great distress, where everything you had is gone in a flash, as is being experienced by hundreds of thousands of Japanese people, that love is the only thing that wil carry you through the ordeal.
Knowing that the people you hold most dear are alive and safe is more important than possessions and money. It is love that gives our lives real meaning.
If you’re rich your money may have had made life more comfortable before the disaster and may make rescue of family and loved ones a higher priority after the disaster (because you’d have the financial resources to attempt a rescue more feasible), but Mother Nature doesn’t care about bank accounts or social status. We are all susceptible to the same level of destruction as our neighbor is in the moment of disaster. It is love that carries us from the worst that could happen to the joy of knowing the people we hold most dear are alive and safe.
We see this joy over and over replayed in the news.
If you are alone, if you have no one, who will you share the joy of living with? Who will look for you if disaster strikes?
Hell, what happens if you have the flu or a simple cold?
Family, friends and lovers, these are the people that get us through the tough moments that life (and Mother Nature) throws at us.
And when you’re actively looking for love it’s love that you expect to find. Now, I can’t tell you where you’ll find love. It could be at an online dating service, it could be when when you bump into a stranger at the grocery store.
But if you’re actively looking for love you will find it.
For a headstart maybe you want to change the headline of your online dating profile to this:
“Love means never having to ask ‘Are you there?’ “
Have a great day!
Your Future: Dating Profile Headline of the Day
Thursday - In The Month of Love
As “American Idol” picks their Top 24 I can only think of the spectacle of putting your dreams in front of tens of millions of people, then crashing and burning.
It is just entertainment, isn’t it? Of course it isn’t. It’s the car crash you can’t turn away from as you drive down the other side of the road. It’s horrific and irresistible at the same time.
This will speak volumes of our way of life, should it ever be discovered, in some part of our distant future.
We invest our self-interest in our future all the time. It’s called “Looking out for #1″. And this is one of the mistakes we learn from later in life.
Being number one only matters if there is another number one in your life. Without that connection to another person, however special and intimate we allow this connection to get, without it we really are just another animal in the wild, alone, howling at the moon and listening for an answer.
Online dating gives you the answer you seek, that there are others out there, alone, and looking for companionship.
You can start to make that connection to another with the right personal ad headline, maybe a headline like this:
“We may WANT love but we make the CHOICE to… finish this sentence.”
Have a great day!
The Real You: Dating Profile Headline of the Day
Thursday - In The Month of LoveI don’t know what to tell you, I really don’t.
We’ve worked so hard together, tried our best (at least I did my part) to make a success of things… and here we are, going through the same motions, walking the same lines, making the same zero progress.
I want to believe that you want what you say you want, not that you’re lip-synching a line from a favorite song. It’s time to stand up and make your move.
You know what I mean.
Edit your profile one more time and find the type of person that is attracted to the “real you” and not the person you “profess to be” but cannot be proven in real life.
Yes, you know what I mean. Get to it.
To help you out I want to give you a headline that will spur on your online dating efforts. I suggest this headline for you to post to your online profile today:
“This can be our NOW MOMENT if you want it to be.”
Have a great day!
Plan Your Date: Dating Profile Headline of the Day
Thursday - In The Month of Love
Today is “Get ready for your date day”. Now sure, I know what you’re going to say “But Robert, I don’t have a date planned” and I’d answer you “Yet”.
You don’t have a date yet. But that doesn’t mean you can’t prepare for a date yet. You can walk to interesting places, stroll in the parks (if they’re not buried under a mountain of show anymore) and spend some time inside visiting websites, checking out things to do and places to go, even restaurant menus and reviews.
So you might not have a date yet but you can be prepared (sorry though, no merit badge!). And when the time is right you’ll be ready.
I know, what a great idea!
And here’s another great idea, start your online dating adventure here. And if you’re a first time member it’s free for the next 30 days!
Here’s my final great idea, it’s a headline for you to post to your profile:
“Our date is planned. Want to know what we’ll do?”
Have a great day!
Social: Dating Profile Headline of the Day
Thursday
In the wacky world that is our life can you believe some of the events that are grabbing the headlines?
Mark Zuckererg’s Facebook account get’s hacked, and now Facebook is going to sell ads along with your posts and updates. We know that privacy means nothing to this company, and we know we forfeit some of our private lives by openly publishing personal information to our Facebook accounts but come on, let us at least try to openly keep aspects private.
A dog is found encased in a block of ice, on a man’s lawn. Now, I understand the universal stance against animal cruelty but can’t we have such news stories that include arrest info or a way to supply tips towards the apprehension of these grotesque criminals?
Events like these make me want to just shut the doors and windows and wait for the end times (unless this is it now).
When you have an active social and dating life you won’t feel the urge to bolt yourself inside because you’ll have a lot of people to share your concerns and insights with.
Let’s get stated on increasing our social activity with a fun headline that will make people need to meet you, post this:
“Let’s get it started!”
Have a great day!
