How To Improve Your Profile: Dating Profile Headline of the Day
Don’t stop what you’re doing with your online dating adventure! Small sucesses are what big successes are built on. And missed opportunities allow you to “plug the holes” and create a better online profile.Many dating services provide you with some feedback such as who has visited your profile and when. If you’re not getting messages from these visitors it’s because they’re not certain you’re a good match for them.
Read their profile and try to figure out why. Everyone has some commn traits, but do these visitors get put off by something these saw or read? Don’t immediately dismiss them as not compatible, you have work to do yet.
Put on your detective hat and read their profile carefully, then go back and read your own profile again. Measure the questions you both answered against the answers you both gave. What is it that stands out that would keep the two of you apart? (During this phase of your “investigation” don’t thnk of the other person’s physical appearance, we’re looking deeper than that.)
Read the other person’s “About Me” section carefully, are there any aspects that you like about them? What stands out as a direct conflict in what you wrote in your “About Me” answers?
This will give you a direction of writing style and information to post about yourself to improve your profile as you investigate carefully the people that stopped by to read your profile but didn’t contact you.
Do this with every person that didn’t contact you but stopped by for a look and soon you’ll have fixed up your profile and be a top receiver of messages and more.
For your headline to use in your personal ad, try this today:
“I am a lot deeper than my About Me answers, let’s chat!”
Have a great day!
Doomed Online Dating Experience: Dating Profile Headline of the Day
I have another online dating secret to give you and it’s a mistake that many online daters make:
When you join an online dating service it’s free. For many dating services to make contact with other members, or to use other premium features, you will pay a subscription fee.
So many people will choose the shortest subscription period, commonly one month, to try the dating service and “see how it goes”. While this is all and good, putting a time limit on your online dating experience is usually doomed. Too much is expected in too short a time.
How much browsing, messaging, favoriting and reading profiles can you do in 30 days? And how many real connections, never mind RL (Real Life) dates can you expect in your 30 day timeline? Six dates? Three? One?
What type of pressure do you put yourself under for the $30-50 dollars for the month? Can you make your own dealine to find love online?
You’re right, probably not.
If you’ll spend $100.00 on a date, then consider $100.00 on a dating service. It will do your self-esteem some good.
For your dating profile headline consider this offering:
“Please contact me, I think you’re the one.”
Have a great day!
Dating Profile Headline of the Day
There is a certain type of person we all think we are: lovable.
And there is much truth to that, generally speaking we are lovable. And more.
The real problem is not being, and staying, lovable but how we can show this side of ourselves more often to those we care deeply for.
Online dating offers to you the opportunity to not only date but to grow as an individual too. Experience is great only as long as you learn and improve from the experiences you have. And the experiences you share.
My dating headline suggestion for you today is this:
“Seeking love, experience not required.”
Have a great day!
Too Good To Be True: Dating Profile Headline of the Day
Filling in the blanks
You have to find a balance between what you’ll tell a stranger that finds your profile and what you’d like to share with them on a first date.
If your messages turn to private emails and chatting online, then maybe even phone calls remember this: the person remains a stranger until you meet them in RL (Real Life). My favorite saying is that you don’t know a person until you’ve smelled them.
We are all very good at filling in the blanks with what we would like to believe about a person instead of what is true. And you are very susceptible to filling in the blanks with positive, fantasy-like emotions about someone that you’ve met online and have spent many hours exchanging messages and even speaking with them on the phone.
I want you to ask yourself, continually, this question: Is this person too good to be true?
Follow these suggestions and you’ll be very successful when you date online.
For your profile why not try this headline to encourage people to read your profile:
“Which of my profile pictures do you like better?”
Have a great day!
Ground Control: Dating Profile Headline of the Day
You are “Ground Control”. Hell, you’re even “Major Tom” too.
Anything you do from this moment forward you solely bare the responsibility for what happens next.
You are not being abandoned by my vast resources of guidance, you are simply being reminded (and maybe being told this for the first time) that you are responsible for what happens next, always, in your life.
Playing the “blame game” is moving backward in your life and you always want to be moving forward, not backward, if you want to have success with dating and in your relationships.
Moving forward will also have the benefits of bringing more friends into your life, of financial rewards because you look forward and understand that your financial success (or mess) is also due to the choices you have made. You can become rich, you have all the tools and now is the time to put them to work, effectively, for yourself.
My suggestion for your dating profile headline is this:
“Now that our paths have crossed, will you take a moment to say hello to me?”
Have a great day!
When Love Really Happens: Dating Profile Headline of the Day
Sunday
If you love somebody, even if you love them with all your heart, you have to take care of yourself first because if you don’t you might not be around to take care of them at all.
Does that make sense to you?
I mean, don’t take care of yourself selfishly, that’s not love at all, but when you take care of somebody that you love you are sharing your life with them and it’s in this sharing that love really exists.
You are your own love machine and it’s up to you to love with your whole heart so long as you keep your own heart beating.
A deep subject for sure.
For my suggestion of our personal ad headline, try this today:
“I take care of us and you can be a part of us!”
Have a great day!
Life: Dating Profile Headline of the Day
Sunday
Sometimes life brings change and we don’t know which direction we are headed, or why. Maybe the change is unwanted or maybe it’s overdue.
At these times we need to trust our own instincts and find the path using the light of our personal experience. Trust in yourself and you will arrive safely.
For your headline today use this:
“Life should be an unexpected pleasure.”
Have a great day!
Online Dating: Dating Profile Headline of the Day
SundayAnother glorious day, despite the weather forecast, and a million things to not do so I, and you, can have a relaxing day.
Put away the vacuum and bathroom cleaners. Leave the dishes and the dust bunnies to be dealt with another day.
Today is for relaxing and, of course, online dating.
I want you to feel comfortable as you login and enter your online dating adventure. Today is for a quick, but thoughtful, edit of your profile. Maybe add a couple more recent photos of yourself (activity photos are the best just make sure you’re the only person in the pictures).
As you think of new things to write about yourself, I have a question that you can answer in your profile: Which is your favorite season of the year ad why?
As we explore ourselves to find attractive qualities to put into our profile it’s important to remember you need to include the things about yourself that you want to have in common with someone. Concentrate on those things that are joyful and can easily be shared.
If you don’t have a dating service to call your own I invite you to join Perfectmatch.com with an offer that’s easy to swallow: Perfectmatch.com New 3-day Free Trial.
Perfectmatch.com is a dating service of very high quality and does require members to be subscribe to the service to contact others but this free trial will get you started with all features and contact is allowed for the three days.
My suggestion for your personal ad headline to day is:
“I put off my laundry to look for you here.”
Have a great day!
Hello’s: Dating Profile Headline of the Day
Sunday
Deep down we’re all the same, women and men.
We have the same needs, just different ways to communicate those needs.
Sometimes we don’t have the right words to say so we say nothing at all. That is very wrong.
It’s better to mumble a “Hello” and then quickly follow with “Excuse me, I have a toothache, I meant to say ‘Hello’” than to let the opportunity to communicate with someone that attracts you simply pass wordlessly by.
Many online dating service sallow you to send virtual gifts to someone to introduce yourself and I say put this feature to use.
I read a survey a while back that concluded almost 75% of men would like to receive flowers because of the intimacy of the gift and they would appreciate the gesture the same as would most women.
Today use the idea of a gift drive your efforts at meeting someone new online today and use this headline to get started:
“Is a Hello enough to get your attention?”
Have a great day!
The Good Person Inside: Dating Profile Headline of the Day
Give in to meditation today.
We all have a very good person inside of us. Some call it a “sub-conscious referee”, that little voice in our head that tells us right from wrong.
That little voice is what tells us how to properly act and react to the events that swirl around us. Listening to that voice is what keeps us sane.
But do you still hear that little voice? Or is it buried under the everyday lies we tell ourselves?
It’s easy to become uninvolved with our own life, to just let whatever happens happen and blame some universal force for the wrongs in our lives.
But that isn’t healthy and it isn’t real. Taking responsibility for what happens in our lives allows that little voice to speak louder and with greater concern for our well-being.
Today give yourself some time to meditate and listen to that voice of reason, give time to let yourself find harmony with the truth and the right in your world. You’ll have a great week ahead if you allow yourself to listen.
For your dating profile headline today I suggest this:
“Can I find you on the straight and narrow?”
Have a great day!
Attractive Women: Dating Profile Headline of the Day
SundayFor your dating profile you were asked many questions. If one of the answers was that you only want to date “attractive women” I would ask you why you would set your goal on such a personal and subjective answer.
After all, what is beautiful to one person may not be to another. She may be a “ten” from the neck down but be a “six” from the neck up, how would that affect your choice of simply emailing her or not?
I don’t need to remind you that real beauty is on the inside but I will tell you that looks are only skin deep and you never really know someone until you’re close enough to smell them.
Judgements of looks, beauty and personality should not be made hastily. That is one issue I have with online dating is that you have so many “potential dates” that you might just skip over the women (or men) that really will be a lot of fun and a lot more compatible that someone you judge to be “good enough to date” based on a photo or two.
Today I want you to go a little slower as you view the members of your dating service seeking dates. If you come across a profile of someone that is one you’d usually just skip over, take the 2 minutes you’ll need to visit the profile and do some reading. I can promise you that you’ll be surprising yourself with what you find.
For your personal ad headline today I suggest using this:
“Has Spring added some bounce to your step?”
Have a great day!
Dating Safety Rules: Dating Profile Headline of the Day
Keep an eye on your drink!
There has been a lot of noise over the past two weeks with Match.com deciding to check member profiles against a national (USA) sex offender registry.
While I do agree with any additional safety feature that any online service can offer as a way to better protect their members, I think that ultimately the safety of the person is the responsibility of the person.
Think of it this way, if you buy something online and use your credit card, a host of information now has to be secured by the merchant company to be able to not only process your order but also to maintain that personal information you had to agree to provide to complete the order.
You assume that the company will protect your information, use it only with your consent, and store it safely.
Ultimately, however, it is up to you to watch where you make a purchase and see that the online shop uses very good security of a provable service. And even the product you buy you might have done a little bit of research into.
With online dating not only should you use caution when selecting a dating service to use (that’s why we have reviewed more than 500 for you) you should do some simple search engine searches (google him/her) and maybe even check out their profile on social networking sites.
Finding out this type of information should be a basic part of your online dating adventure but remember, doing these steps to check out someone’s background is up to you. I suggest you do them, just to be a little more certain of your personal safety.
You may even want to open an account at “Net Detective” so you can run even more background and criminal checks against someone you might be interested in dating and know a little more about them without having to ask those uncomfortable questions.
And the biggest rule of dating online is this:
Tell a friend where and when you are going and when you will be returning and who you are going to meet. It would be best for you to have a friend “follow you” in a type of undercover security role.
Limit the meeting to a very public place in daylight and set a predetermined time for this date to end.
Never lose sight of your drinks and food. If you have an emergency trip to the bathroom, and you’ve left your food or drink on the table, when you return just order something different saying the food doesn’t agree with your stomach, or something similar.
And call someone when you get home safely. And if at any time you feel uncomfortable, make up an excuse and leave. And call your “security person” that you are headed home before then end of the date.
These rules should cover you for your first three dates, at a minimum.
For the headline of your online dating profile, try this:
“I’m not crazy my mother had me tested.”
Have a great day!
Favorite: Dating Profile Headline of the Day
Sunday
Take the day as easy as it comes and be relaxed for when you log in to your favorite online dating service.
And maybe you’ll like to use this as your dating profile headline today:
“As certain as the sun will rise I am waiting for your message.”
Have a great day!
A Woman’s Honor: Dating Profile Headline of the Day
Sunday
Have you ever found yourself in a fight for a woman’s honor.
At some point in life this is a challenge that every man will face. Whether it’s a big asshole a few bar stools away or simply a loud-mouthed jerk, her honor will be valued on your reaction and by making the right response you’ll either end the evening with sex, a trip to the “emergency room” or returning to the never ending line of men that are “single and looking”.
I had such a thing happen to me. My date and I were in a club and a bunch of loud-mouth knuckle draggers were seated in the booth across from us. Eventually the ignoramuses had upset my date and it was time to take matters into my own hands.
I sized them up (all 140lbs on my 5’10″ frame), calmly walked over and said “please keep your smart-aleck remarks to yourselves and maybe one day you’ll meet a girl that will like you for who you are and not how you talk. They really didn’t know how to respond and rather soon after they left.
It’s only a fight if two people throw punches. It’s only an insult if you accept it as that. Life is too short for these types of drama, don’t you think?
For today’s headline, following on your favorite book yesterday, maybe your favorite character in that book will make a good headline:
“Lev Kovalensky loved Kira, it just wasn’t enough considering the times. Things are better now, right?”
Have a great day!
