Dating Profile Headline of the Day: It’s The Weather
Life is filled with rain or shine moments.
In my part of the world today it’s raining. And it’s going to rain all day long, so says the weatherman.
Bad weather, at least milding unpleasant weather, affects our mood and re-inforces the fact that Mother Nature has the final say over our activities. She receives praise or scorn depending on what we have planned for the day.
Personally, I like the rain, it keeps my thoughts quiet and plans quieter. Rain allows me time to consider renewal and when it’s over the air is fresh and clean again.
For your headline today consider the renewal aspect of your task at hand. Has what you’ve been doing so far working towards a pleasant online dating experience? Can you change what you say in your dating profile, and how you say it, to get better results?
Take a critical eye to your personal ad and see how it stacks up to profiles that are similar to yours. It never hurts to check out the competition.
Try posting this headline to see how it works for you:
“Rain or shine, I’ve traveled here to meet you.”
Have a great day!
Dating Profile Headline of the Day: One More Day
A great day to get started!
One more day as a single person not looking for a partner?
One more day of disliking your loneliness?
You can change all of these things with two small steps:
- a change of confidence, allowing you to better present yourself to others
- the determination to make the first step to approach people, introduce yourself and start a conversation
I didn’t say it would be easy. But today is a great day to decide to make these changes and there’s plenty of advice to be found to help you get started.
Online chats are a great way to begin to get your conversational skills flowing, so why not start here.
For your personal ad headine today give this a try:
“It IS getting better all the time!”
Have a great day!
The Music of Love: Dating Profile Headline of the Day
The Music of Love
One of the richest treasures we have is our own value system. And these values can change due to circumstance, mood and due to events outside of our control.
It’s not uncommon for each of us to have witnessed a life-changing event. Something so awesome, horrific and incredible that our entire existsnce is re-evaluated, the sense of direction our lives should take is changed forever forward.
Of course I speak of true love, and that is my wish for you, moving forward from this point.
For your personal ad today I suggest using this headline as bait to attract the person that will be a part of your life-changing event:
“It’s the Music of Love… Let the dance begin!”
Have a great day!
About Your Life: Dating Profile Headline of the Day
Your life is not an answer to a ‘yes or no’ question.
Life is full of maybes and needs and desires. Also rounded out with plenty of ‘shoulda, woulda, coulda’.
Don’t ever let anyone tell you that you can’t do something (legal and proper) because we all have the power to accomplish something, many great things, in our lives. And to greatly enhance the lives of others, especially those near and dear to us.
Do you want to make someone feel special?
Love them with all you have, with everything you have and in every way that you can. Because what you have might not last and the opportunity to make someone feel the love you have for them could be lost - forever - in a moment.
When you leave this place do so without regret because regret is the one wound that will never heal.
For the headline of your online personal ad try this to capture the heart of someone special:
“What could I share with you to make you feel loved?”
Have a great day!
Personal Ad Headline of the Day
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Today marks the “Factory Clearout” of dating opportunities.
I’m sure you’ve seen the car television ads offering factory clearout pricing. It’s the time of year to clear out the old to make room for the new.
You think they’re talking about cars and trucks and that’s exactly what they seem to be talking about to the uninformed.
But what’s really going on are the subliminal suggestions that you’re running out of time to find a Christmas Sweetheart and a New Year’s date.
You can try it to see that it’s true. The next time you see a car ad on TV mentally switch the make/model names for either “girlfriend” or “boyfriend”. This will freak you out, I’m sure.
So begin your online dating adventure and capture some sweetie’s heart for the crazy holiday season.
For your online dating profile try this headline:
“I am sure glad you’re reading this!”
Have a great day!
Photos and Headlines: Dating Profile Headline of the Day
Have some fun with your photo
I don’t talk too much about the photo aspect of your profile because most dating services have helpful tips that work well with the photo display options that they use.
Generally speaking the first photo you’ll upload to share with your profile will be the photo that the dating service will show along with your headline in the search results as someone browses through the personal ads and member profiles. Many online dating services also allow you to choose a photo from the several you might upload as well, should you have additional photos that you want to share.
Choose one that shows only you, no friends or others in the photo, to be your main photo. Maybe use your photo editing software to touch-up your photo too. Have some fun with your photo but don’t go too far with it, people do want to see your face.
A Singe Man: Dating Profile Headline of the Day
A single man enters a bar
A single man enters a bar, proceeds to a table and waits to be served. As the waitress leaves with his alcohol and food order he scans the room, not quite obviously but slowly enough to look at each face of the 40 or 50 people in the place.
He sees several groups of men huddled together and other groups of women chatting amongst themselves. Most of the women are younger than he is but it’s to be expected for the bar he is in.
There are a handful of couples scattered about the room but not enough to change the thought that this is a place he can hook up with a woman later in the evening, as the crowd increases and the alcohol flows.
I’d like to say this story ends well but what actually happens is the man finishes his food, has a few more drinks, watches earnestly for the pub to get busier. After a few hours he’s drunk and sill sitting alone. Then he leaves for home, again alone.
The scene is played out all over the world because the man lacks certain social skills that stops him from introducing himself and making new friends, even in a room full of people. There is help available and if this sad story reminds you of someone direct them to the advice section of aLoveLinksPlus.com (here) and set them on the road to socialization.
For your personal ad headline try this one:
“I am never alone in a room full of people.”
Have a great day!
Your Time Deficit: Dating Profile Headline of the Day
Combating a time deficit crisis is a daily challenge.
Are you often running a “time deficit”, wishing there were more hours in a day, pushing items on your to-do list from today to tomorrow?
Surprisingly, time management is often overlooked by people who have a lot to do. Even some of us with just a few obligations throughout the day end up feeling rushed and “out of time”.
Combating a time deficit crisis is a daily two-step process, relatively simple to create but very difficult to master.
Step 1: Get yourself a day-timer, journal or notebook that is small enough to carry around with you. In this notebook you’re going to create a list, each morning, of the day’s duties. Add chores throughout the day as needed.
Some of you are going to say you don’t have the five or ten minutes to sit and think of what needs to be done but I ask you “Have you been living your life as a headless chicken, rushing to and fro throughout the day?”
Step 2: At the end of the day take out your journal and check your list of chores and appointments. Cross off the items you completed and, if necessary carry the incomplete items to the next day, or move them to another day in the future. This will also shorten the amount of time you’ll need in the morning to prepare your day. This is most important!
When this is done give yourself 30 minutes of “time out” time to cool-down from the pressures of the day. Meditate, read a book, listen to music (no television watching!), do something restful for yourself. This should be the last chore of your day, then go to bed.
Managing your time deficit gives you time back to live your day. Starting the day knowing what you need to do and ending your day by marking your accomplishments and providing a cool-down period de-stresses yourself and ends the day on a positive note.
You owe yourself a time management regimen to better manage stress and life. Start today!
For your dating profile headline give this one a try:
“I have the time if you have the place.”
Have a great day!
Sex Fantasies: Dating Profile Headline of the Day
In my mind, my best advice to you and your online dating adventure is this: Until you’re close enough to smell the person do not open up and offer the other person free access to your life and love.We’ve all heard about, or read in the news, how an online affair ended badly for someone.
When we are looking for love online it’s very easy to fall in love with a person’s profile, picture and wordsmithery.
When reading messages from that person that has entered our online life it’s important to remember that you’re receiving only a one-dimensional picture of that person. It’s easy to forget that your online sex fantasy with that person is just that, a fantasy.
Until you meet face-to-face and have the opportunity to view for yourself that person’s personal hygiene and mannerisms does the reality of the online affair become alive. And it may have been a one-way affair with the other person just trying to gain your trust enough to ask for money, travel, or something else that could cost you dearly.
First meetings with your online lover often end up in bed just because of your attempt to make your sex fantasy real. And more often than not the reality is a disappointment and you’ve been taken advantage of before you’re fully aware of what happened.
I urge you to use a high level of caution with your acceptance of others into your life that you only know online. Love, as well as danger, lurks everywhere.
For your dating profile headline today why not try this one to get more people visiting your profile page:
“Saying hello only takes a minute, not saying hello lasts a lifetime.”
Have a great day!
Three Rules of Giving Compliments: Dating Profile Headline of the Day
Give A Winning Compliment
The first rule of a great compliment is to make certain it’s a real compliment. If the compliment isn’t believable you’ll come across as either a groupie or a liar. If she has great eyes, you might say so. If her eyes are hidden behind thick glasses (and she never takes them off) her eyes might be a bit of a touchy subject for a true compliment.
Generally safe topics for compliments for a woman are: smile, hair, eyes, shoes, nails, dress/fashion sense and finally body (unless she’s in a bikini then her body is number one!).
Men appreciate compliments on: hair, eyes, smile, dress/fashion and sexiness.
The second rule of giving someone a great compliment is to not overdue it. If you’re dating and you give her a compliment every time you see her, you’ll soon start repeating yourself and seem to her to be not a sincere person in your compliment giving. The best compliment givers are stingy with their warming words. Unless she (or he) is really into themselves, giving a compliment should be separated by 3 or 4 dates, maybe even a few weeks or more. But just don’t test the waters by overdoing your complimentary niceness.
The third rule about giving a compliment is to do it privately. Lean in and whisper your compliment, this creates a certain receptive mood of something special being said and it won’t insult or show up other people as if you were to announce the compliment in a group. Women, and men, do compare themselves to others and saying your compliment aloud in a group can be insulting to others and change the mood from friendly and fun to antagonistic and unfun.
For your profile headline today try this one out for size:
“You have a very nice profile page, are you really so (*compliment here*)?”
Have a great day!
Normal: Dating Profile Headline of the Day
I like to think that “some” of the small things in life actually give us an open window into our own future.
As your life (spins) into a free-falling state and you’re grabbing onto any small thing that can “return normal” for you, normalcy will return to your life and, by using the right guides, control over your life becomes second nature.
What we percieve to be normal (each in our own unique way) can only be our normal. The main people-varient to normal is whether others see normal the same way we do. And this brings with it plenty of room to guess and get things wrong about other people.
Hopefully they’re not making the same mistakes about us too. And this leads us to today’s personal ad headline that I strongly suggest you use for the next couple of days.
Your next date should be with someone that accepts your invitation with the time that they’re available and having brunch with you is already in mind. Good stuff!
None of that awkwardness surrounding the question you’d otherwise be dying to ask “Do you want to go out for a meal with the?” and fretting for the answer minutes, maybe even days later, because your profile headline has done most of the work for you, in advance.
Post this headline and watch the messages you receive plough into your inbox:
“When is the best time to invite you to a Sunday brunch?”
Have a great day!
