Should You Call Her The Next Day?

Should You Call Her The Next Day?

There are several rules for guys that are used when you meet a great women, have a fun night together, you really like her and then what do you do?

I prefer that you can call the next day, just to say that you had a great time last night, she looked awesome, can I call later this week so we can get together again? This approach generates more successful second dates that the other dating rules you might know.

Another rule is that you wait three days before calling her to set up another date. This delay tactic is supposed to generate a stronger attraction for you but can often backfire in frustration by your possible date because she has wondered too long about why you didn’t call her. A lot of potential negative reasons go through her mind at by the time you do call her she’s so frustarted by your lack of communication that she’s already given up on you, even if she did feel a strong attraction for you.

The last popular “should you call her rule” is to wait for her to call you. This is not good at all. Even if you preclude the possibilities that she lost your number and a hundred other negative concerns, if you leave the phone call up to her you may never know why she didn’t call you. And, of course, she might have been waiting for you to call her.

Another couple of things to remember:
- don’t text message her, she wants to hear your voice to re-experience the strong attraction she has for you;
- emails are equally bad, they don’t communicate the emotion you both may feel which becomes a negative feeling sooner;
- Don’t have along phone call, it’s too interrupting to the attraction she may feel, plus you may say something stupid or talk about things that she’s not interested about, and again you create a positive attraction into a neutral or negative feeling for you.

The first rule is the best, keep the call short, sweet, to the point, have a plan of a possible next date (but don’t mention it, this will be your next call to her in a daye or two) and know that you’ve done your best to make her attracted to you.

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