The 20 Words to Use in Your Profile to Be More Attractive
Eharmony.co.uk has released a survey by scientists that reveal the top 20 words that you should use in your profile answers to be more attractive to the opposite sex.
While the words in and of themselves don’t change your match worthiness, they certainly add to the attraction factor that will help you receive more responses to your profile.
Using these “date factor” words will help you to be more attractive, even beyond your profile picture, although you till need to follow the rules for proper, effective profile pictures.
Women that use these words get better responses:
Sweet +46%
Ambitious +39%
Thoughtful +30%
Spontaneous +30%
Physically fit +22%
Funny +21%
Outgoing +19%
Optimistic +17%
Hard working +17%
Passionate +16%
Men that use these words get better responses:
Physically fit +69%
Ambitious +64%
Perceptive +63%
Passionate +53%
Optimistic +44%
Funny +38%
Spontaneous +33%
Thoughtful +21%
Affectionate +17%
Outgoing + 17%
Just keep in mind, it’s not enough to “say it”, you have to “be it”.
Someone visited your profile: The Next Step
So someone finally visited your profile… that’s great news.
But they didn’t message you… are you not worthy or were they not interested?
Or maybe they just don’t want to speak first.
That happens a lot, more than you’d think.
It doesn’t hurt to be the one to send the first message.
But what do you say?
I’ll make it easy for you, say this (feel free to copy and paste it as is):
Hi, I noticed that you stopped by for a peak at my profile but didn’t send me a message. Just in case you’re shy I thought I’d send you a friendly hello and get the ball rolling.
Hello!
That was easy and painless…. honest.
I’m sure we share enough in common to at last hold a conversation for a while and I hope you’ll message me back soon.
Hope to hear from you soon.
You can just copy and paste the whole message above and use it as is, or change it up a bit to me more your own style.
The key is to send the message, without commitment or clinginess.
Who knows, this person could become a great friend or the next true love of your life!
Good luck.
Dating Profile Headline of the Day: Are You Doing Enough?
A flood of messages expected for new members
Are you caught in a whirlwind of chat requests, winks and messages? Do you try to return contact with everyone that messages you?
You should be certain to check out the profiles of those that send you a contact request before you reply so you can better manage your online dating adventure.
When you join a new dating service it’s important to steel yourself against the flood of messages new members can expect. Some will be good, some weird and others just creepy. You need to remember that you are the one making the choices, not those that are coming straight at you.
Or quite possible the flood will overwhelm you and the experience will be tainted.
For your headline today try this:
“Are you a real person with honest intentions?”
Have a great day!
Restart Dating: Dating Profile Headline of the Day
Do you flip a coin?
Can you remember when you last had a “date” as a single person? (You don’t get to count those long ago “date nights” as dates anymore!)
Luckily the Internet offers a lot of potential singles to meet, of every type and size. Choose your online dating service carefully and you’ll do well. Do not turn your online dating experience into a “shopping cart” style of dating opportunity.
If you give people the chnage they can amaze you, so a match of better than 50% might just be the right fit for you. That is, if you feel that a polar opposite ins’t what you’re looking for, even if “opposites do attract”.
For your online personal ad headline give this one a try:
“Better than flipping a coin, right?”
Have a great day!
The Music of Love: Dating Profile Headline of the Day
The Music of Love
One of the richest treasures we have is our own value system. And these values can change due to circumstance, mood and due to events outside of our control.
It’s not uncommon for each of us to have witnessed a life-changing event. Something so awesome, horrific and incredible that our entire existsnce is re-evaluated, the sense of direction our lives should take is changed forever forward.
Of course I speak of true love, and that is my wish for you, moving forward from this point.
For your personal ad today I suggest using this headline as bait to attract the person that will be a part of your life-changing event:
“It’s the Music of Love… Let the dance begin!”
Have a great day!
Chore Day: Dating Profile Headline of the Day
It’s Saturday… and if you’re like me (single) then you have no one to do the chores except yourself (if you’re living with Mother then it’s still not cool to let her do it… not very sexy either!)
So race through those chores and you will have time for some online dating later.
To get started with success at your favorite online dating service update your profile with this headline:
“Message me now and I’ll reply once my chores are done!”
Have a great day!
One Quick Minute: Dating Profile Headline of the Day
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And anything could happen:
- You’re hit by a car
- You catch a cold
- You fall in love
If you broke your life down into minutes, you’d find parts of time that reflected work periods, rest periods, entertainment activities, etc., you’re likely to spend less than 60 minutes of your life time actually falling in love.
Sure, the “Extreme Love Period”, when everything is as good as it gets lasts a lot longer, but the minute of realization that brightens your world, of the realization you are in love, is time spend rarely and quickly.
Your job, as a woman is to make that moment last forever; and as a man your job is to provide everything the woman needs to fulfill her part. (It’s called loving, respectful love - try it the next time you’re world is aglow with romantic possibilities.)
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For your dating profile headline give this one a try:
“This is your best chance to end your search for love today. Email me!”
Have a great day!
Fun: Dating Profile Headline of the Day
Get some rest!
So why are so many people terrified of making that first step, of taking that first chance to say hello or offering a helping hand… something that could, possibly, lead to something very special?
I don’t know either… But I do know that if you feel confident you will have confidence. And a tip to get yourself started in the right direction is… sleep.
That’s right. The number one reason people aren’t confident (in my book) is that they are under-rested. Tired is as tired does.
So get that 8 hours, take that nap. You’ll feel better and do more. You might even surprise yourself!
For your dating profile headline today give this one a whirl:
“It’s almost been a month, which are you now “Naughty or Nice”?”
Have a great day!
Right in the Kisser: Dating Profile Headline of the Day
Have you ever been hit really hard in the face?
I am speaking metaphorically, of course.
You know, you miss something that should have been quite obvious, it was so much in your face.
And, whether on purpose or accidentally, you’ve been taken as a fool. And it hurts.
I’ve spoken of dating scammers but there is also another important villain to consider: someone that is just plain evil and looking to disturb someone’s otherwise tranquil and safe life.
I speak of, of course, “The Imposter”.
One of my favorite comparisons is the online game “World of Warcraft”. It’s a fun way to waste some time and accomplish something in the ether of the internet. And if you’re a busty woman questing your way through Azeroth you can be certain to have a lot of other players willing to help you along. But you don’t have to be female to be a woman character, do you? And the guys will let their imaginations run wild if you let them. (Yup, just a bit icky!)
That’s right, anyone can be anyone (anything!).
Online is not your neighborhood bar, people are not sitting beside you. safety for you may not be what the person you’re chatting with.
Of course there are a number of online dating services that require payment, which does help with identity imposters, and if I were to steer you towards an online dating service that is relatively safe, it would be this one.
For your online personal ad headline today give this a try to attract a date:
“I have always been the person I am today.”
Have a great day!
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Do You Like Candles? Dating Profile Headline of the Day
What are the three things that are the most important during a dinner date?
The man, the mood and the momentum.
Yes, the pressure is on you to be at your best.
The Man: You’ve got to be the man that sparks not only her curiosity to want to learn more about you but you have to be the man that she wants to be with because of your actions and positive attitude.
The Mood: Don’t bring troubles to the dinner table. The last thing anyone wants to hear, especially a dinner date, is about the awful day you’ve had or issues in your past. Stay upbeat and she will too.
The Momentum: Have a plan of conversation topics based on the interests she has first and what you share second. Be a great listener, ask good questions that do not require a simple yes or no answer and you’ll carry the dinner date to a successful conclusion that will leave her wanting more.
For your personal ad headline today give this a try:
“Can you hear the song in the air tonight?”
Have a great day!
Every Road Goes Somewhere: Dating Profile Headline of the Day
Life is a journey
And every road eventually ends.
It’s the stops in between that make up the story of your life.
Are you happy with the places you’ve been (emotionally, romantically) and the lessons you’ve learned?
Your life is a journey only you can make, the roads you’ve been on are the ones only you can take.
As you continue on the dating adventure you are on, consider the intersections of your life and others and remember that only you have the ability to decide where to turn or merge.
For your dating profile headline today give this a try:
“Life is a journey, would you share it with me?”
Have a great day!
Stretch Out Your Hands: Dating Profile Headline of the Day
You’ll never know if you can reach the stars if you don’t reach for them.
Very often the only thing holding us back is our own self-doubt.
A continuing theme of dating advice is the fact that people don’t trust themselves to behave like others might want us to and we will then be frowned upon or put down. Standing up against our own cowardly self-interest is one of the hardest challenges of life, for those of us that have a conscience anyways.
We tend to believe that everyone else is so much more complex that we are and that is the downfall of even starting a relationship with someone we are attracted to.
If you believe then you have no need of trickery because confidence will push you to where you want to be and who you want to be with.
Believe.
For your personal ad headline today give this one a try:
“It’s you and me and we’ll never disagree!”
Have a great day!
The Smell Test: Dating Profile Headline of the Day
You can’t really know someone until you’re close enough to smell them.
That is my online dating motto. Too many times I’ve received emails from the broken-hearted about an online affair ruined when the moment of the face-to-face meeting happens.
Life doesn’t have just it’s ups and downs, it has it’s high-flying winning moments and it’s bottom-of-the-barrel-scrapings too.
Find your backbone and don’t settle… you’ll do fine.
For your online personal ad use this:
“I might take one step back but I always take two steps forward!”
Have a great day!
The Latitiude of Your Attitude: Dating Profile Headline of the Day
Do you share your kindness?
I like to say that “It’s the latitude of your attitude” that get’s you noticed in your life.
If you have a rigid, stone cold personality then it’s going to take real effort on other people’s part to get you to warm up. What you do about such a personality, if you want to be successful with dating, is attempt small changes rather than one big one.
You know what I mean, baby steps such as greeting people with a smile rather than a blank look. Buying a small treat for your secretary or work-mate, it could be a lottery ticket or their favorite chocolate bar, something small that says “I acknowledge your existence and understand that you’re a part of my life”, even if it’s just a moment or two throughout your work day.
Your attitude is the one that has to change, not the attitudes of those around you.
For your personal ad headline today post this:
“I am strong like gorilla and lovable like puppy.”
Have a great day!
