The “Man Bun”: Men’s hair finds new style
The latest trend in men’s hair styles is the “Man Bun”. A simple flip of the hair in the back of your head, midway between the top of the head and where you’d fix a ponytail.
Celebrities sport the man bun, and so should you if you’re ready to add your uniqueness to the world at large and forgo the parted style, the full hanging length of hipsterness or the business short chop that is featured on every dude not in tech.
Examples:
You need to show your personal flare and style by doing your man bun right, here’s a video on how to create your own.
Are You Your Own Dating Mentor?
The man that serves as his own lawyer has a fool for a client.
It’s a pretty honest saying meaning that taking your own advice, without seeking the counsel of an expert, could be your downfall.
Not that your own advice might be all that bad but when you’re doing things that aren’t working out so well should you really try to fix things without getting the best possible advice you can?
How are your efforts going for meeting women? Striking out a lot?
A dating mentor could help you develop new strategies, new ways to not only introduce yourself but to be able to bring out the natural in you that really attracts women.
It’s something that you might not even be aware you’re capable of, until a mentor points it out to you.
Being able to better understand women, and change your losing ways, makes sense if you really want to date, if you really want that girlfriend.
Learning from someone with the experience and willingness to share can make all the difference to your future success with women.
Maybe you’re doing OK with your introduction and you’re meeting a lot of women. How many call you back and how many really do want to talk to you the next day? Are you doing that one little thing that turns women off without knowing it?
It’s time to change the game and understand the rules of play.
It’s time to get a dating mentor.
And it all starts here.
How to Tell If He’s Relationship Ready
|
By Christian Carter Many women talk about dating a “mature man”. What they’re really referring to is “emotional maturity.” An emotionally mature man is a man who won’t shut you out the minute things get stressful in his life. Emotionally mature men are willing to show their feelings; and more importantly, they’re able to allow the woman in their life to “see” them even when they’re going through a difficult time. But how can you tell whether a man is emotionally mature and will stick it out with you through the inevitable ups and downs in every relationship? You need to look at how he handles three key areas in his life… MATURITY AREA #1: WORK Is the man able to handle adversity, criticism or even intense politics at work and remain level headed, relatively calm, or even compassionate? Or is he spiteful, does he talk about problems instead of thinking about solutions and how to improve personal dynamics in his work life and relationships? Compassion and the ability to handle complex mental and emotional situations without coming unglued or doing negative or harmful things to other people is one of the best signs of emotional maturity - and sensitivity as well. MATURITY AREA #2: FRIENDS What type of people does a man spend his time around? It has been said that you can know all you need to know about a person simply by looking at the people in his life. A man’s closest friends and peers are one of the very best windows into his mental and emotional world. Are a man’s friends people of integrity? Are they doing positive things with their lives and committed to living a good life? And are a man’s friends capable of being in mature and committed relationships? Does he have any married friends who have stable relationships where both partners are relatively happy and fulfilled? Men spend most of their time with people whose values they share. MATURITY AREA #3: FAMILY How does a man handle his relationships with his family members? Sure, lots of people have challenging family situations, but whether or not a guy’s parents are together is not what’s really telling about him. It’s more important whether or not he’s on stable emotional footing in the way he relates to his parents. Fighting intensely with parents, high and low emotional swings, or completely estranged situations without a clear reason can be signs of deeper emotional turmoil that’s unresolved and might mean that a man will have trouble being there and being present and stable with you emotionally. GETTING THE ANSWERS YOU NEED FROM HIM: THE BEST APPROACH You can find out a great deal about a man’s emotional maturity level in conversation. All you have to do is start talking about your friends, family, and work and ask him about these three areas in his life one at a time. When he answers, dig a little deeper and try and get him talking about how he FEELS about these things. How does he FEEL about the people at work and his family? Get him to talk about his friends and tell you what he likes about them and what makes them tick. You’ll be surprised by how much a man will share about who he is and how he lives his life - if you simply ask. Not only will you learn whether he has the emotional maturity it takes to make a relationship work for the long haul, but you’ll create the kind of communication that brings two people closer together…and builds a solid foundation for the future. There are critical moments that define your relationship with a man, from the moment you meet him all the way through commitment - and they can either break you apart or bring you even closer together. To learn how to handle them, subscribe to Christian’s free e-newsletter. He’ll tell you what a man is really thinking while he’s dating you, and how you can create a solid foundation for a lasting, connected relationship. |
Men’s Stamina Questions Answered
Shawna (of 2 Girls Teach Sex) has recently sent out a newsletter detailing the most common questions men have about lasting longer in bed.I’m going to share the questions with you, but since the answers can be somewhat explicit, you’re going to have to go here for the answers.
>>QUESTION: I Have Trouble Lasting Even 5 Minutes Now… Will This Help Me Cure My P.E.?
>>QUESTION: Will I Learn Techniques For Getting It Up Also?
>>QUESTION: I’m A Bit Older Than Most Guys… Will This Still Work For Me?
>>QUESTION: I Already Have Good Stamina But Want To Learn To Give My Girl Stronger Orgasms… Does 60 Minute Stamina Cover That?
And again, go here for the answers.
Free Ebook for Men: 7 Brutal Online Dating Mistakes
Written by Jake Vanderhoff
Hey man,
Are you frustrated with online dating?
Does it seem like no matter what you try you just can’t get a response from the girls that you really want to be dating?
If so, I can TOTALLY relate…
Getting women to respond to my emails was not something that came easily to me at all! In fact, The first couple of months I started playing around with online dating I TOTALLY sucked at it…
Getting even an “average” plain Jane type of woman to write back to me was like pulling teeth.
But – as it turns out, this is actually an extremely common experience for guys who try online dating. In fact according to Juniper Research group:
97% of men who try online dating give up within the first three months. The #1 reason these men gave - They weren’t getting any response.
But, luckily for you… That other 3% of guys who learn a few easy techniques get to date… A lot of women – And in this short report I’ll show you how to move towards being one of the lucky 3 percenters!
You aren’t gonna believe how easy this is…
You see, simply by NOT making these 7 mistakes you’ll put yourself ahead of just about every guy in your town.
How cool is that?
Some of these mistakes have to do with the emails that you send to women…
Click the cover to read more…
One Quick Minute: Dating Profile Headline of the Day
Join Match For Free
And anything could happen:
- You’re hit by a car
- You catch a cold
- You fall in love
If you broke your life down into minutes, you’d find parts of time that reflected work periods, rest periods, entertainment activities, etc., you’re likely to spend less than 60 minutes of your life time actually falling in love.
Sure, the “Extreme Love Period”, when everything is as good as it gets lasts a lot longer, but the minute of realization that brightens your world, of the realization you are in love, is time spend rarely and quickly.
Your job, as a woman is to make that moment last forever; and as a man your job is to provide everything the woman needs to fulfill her part. (It’s called loving, respectful love - try it the next time you’re world is aglow with romantic possibilities.)
[Women
] [Men]
For your dating profile headline give this one a try:
“This is your best chance to end your search for love today. Email me!”
Have a great day!
Dating Profile Headline of the Day
The over/under age for what men want in a relationship is 40.
Under 40 and men want sex the most, over 40 and men want to cuddle more. Honest, I’m not making this up.
But I’m not saying which side of the curve, if either, I’m on.
The “Mutually beneficial relationship” seems to be the key words of any description of people getting together.
And that’s a description you can’t argue against, whether it’s love, money, something else or a combination of the three that brings together what each partner of the relationship is needing from the other.
For your personal headline today try this:
“Let’s talk and see if we have what each other wants in life and love.”
Have a great day!
Sex Fantasies: Dating Profile Headline of the Day
In my mind, my best advice to you and your online dating adventure is this: Until you’re close enough to smell the person do not open up and offer the other person free access to your life and love.We’ve all heard about, or read in the news, how an online affair ended badly for someone.
When we are looking for love online it’s very easy to fall in love with a person’s profile, picture and wordsmithery.
When reading messages from that person that has entered our online life it’s important to remember that you’re receiving only a one-dimensional picture of that person. It’s easy to forget that your online sex fantasy with that person is just that, a fantasy.
Until you meet face-to-face and have the opportunity to view for yourself that person’s personal hygiene and mannerisms does the reality of the online affair become alive. And it may have been a one-way affair with the other person just trying to gain your trust enough to ask for money, travel, or something else that could cost you dearly.
First meetings with your online lover often end up in bed just because of your attempt to make your sex fantasy real. And more often than not the reality is a disappointment and you’ve been taken advantage of before you’re fully aware of what happened.
I urge you to use a high level of caution with your acceptance of others into your life that you only know online. Love, as well as danger, lurks everywhere.
For your dating profile headline today why not try this one to get more people visiting your profile page:
“Saying hello only takes a minute, not saying hello lasts a lifetime.”
Have a great day!
Girls Are Stupid: Dating Profile Headline of the Day
Us men.
Now, you girls, you shouldn’t be so surprised or offended, after all most guys have thought this very thing at one time or another.
Look at the evidence:
- you girls are afraid of spiders and all they do is catch the other nasty bugs so us men don’t have to run around with a flyswatter
- you girls are afraid of worms and they help us men fish and bring home dinner (sometimes breakfast too)
- you girls are afraid of noises in the attic and us men know that we’re never going up there so it doesn’t matter what’s banging around up there
- you girls are not good at math and us men know that everything is math, 2+2=4, 4×4=16 and so on, not hard now, is it?
- you girls make driving out to be hard and us men know that if you finished making up your face in the house there’d be about half as many daytime driving accidents
Obviously I could go on and on with examples but I think you get my point.
Us men aren’t afraid of spiders, we gladly put a worm on a hook to feed us, we know that whatever is in the attic can’t get down to us and that without math we’d always be overdrawn at the bank.
These things are also why us men love you girls. If you didn’t need our help with these things we’d have no possible way to show how helpful us men could be for you girls.
Hell, us men wouldn’t know any other way to get you girls’ attention and try to break the ice with you, meet you, date you and marry you.
So be happy we men think you girls are stupid, it’s just a phase us men go through (then you train us men to think differently).
My suggestion for your dating profile headline to use today is:
“Men and women are different and that’s a good thing.”
Have a great day!
Related:
Stupid girl loses job because of Facebook status
Stupid girl’s mixed message
Smart girls stupid things
Art of Conversation: Dating Profile Headline of the Day
The art of conversation, without a doubt, is under attack from all sides.
It’s not that we don’t have something to say, everyone is texting, emailing, checking their walls all the time. We just don’t have anything to say to someone “in person”.
It’s easier to have a conversation when you can wait 30 seconds, or a couple of days, to reply, to give yourself an opportunity to think about what to say. To be facing someone and not answer immediately would certainly make you seem stupid, or worse. But the issue of a timely response doesn’t exist in cyberspace or on your smartphone.
And if you’re not taught how to have a face-to-face conversation with someone, well, what chance do you have? Better to pretend to be busy with something else than to worry about having to say something with your lips! Am I right?
The art of conversation, like dating, is a matter of learning, reading and a lot of practice.
And I’ll give you a conversational tip too:
When you’re asked “What do you do?” don’t give a three word answer (I’m a writer), offer a short story instead about something funny that happened on your job and then ask the person if they have a similar story, or if they can guess what you do.
It’s the beginning of a conversation that makes a conversation happen… or not. So do your part and practice the art of conversation starting today.
For your dating profile headline try this one out today:
“Isn’t it time to have a conversation face-to-face?”
Have a great day!
