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16
Mar

Karma and Love: Dating Profile Headline of the Day

Karma and Love

Karma and Love

Wednesday

Today is a “new romance for you” day. I want you to be prepared because someone you meet today, or “spy with your little eye” is going to be the next major love of your life.

You will see him or her and say to them “I really like that ***(outfit, shirt, shoes, something they did), can we go out and have a coffee later (after work, at break, at a specific time)?”

It is that simple to meet the next major love of your life. Taking matters in your own hands, karma brought the person near you, it’s up to you to take these nexr steps I’ve just told you about.

Do it!

The thing about love is that very rarely is it “scripted” into our lives. We have to go and get love, not wait for love to drop into our lives with a big “love” sign attached to their foreheads.

For today’s headline I offer this to you:
“If it feels like love, then it is! Your turn to take the next step!”

Have a great day!

12
Mar

Turmoil: Dating Profile Headline of the Day

Who can you count on?

Saturday

“I never wanted to hurt you… I only wanted the best for you, for your future, for your life.

If any advice I have offered to you so far has not worked out, or been in error, I am deeply sorry.

This has always been your life to live, not for me to live it for you.”

Have you been given this speech by a parent when you were in your youth? Love is the hardest thing to understand and offer when you don’t understand; or when your understanding is not on level with the issue at hand.

We all have it tough, life offers no easy choices, no easy paths to take; and even worse there are no guarentees that anyone you know will grasp the turmoil in your life and be able to offer you relevant advice to get you through these tumultuous times you find yourself in.

This is when it’s hard to believe that love is enough.

Love, when mixed with understanding, offers the opportunity for us to be a safe haven for our friends in distress. And if this can be reciprocated when we find ourselves in distress then you truly have a friend.

I have written all of this because it’s important to rediscover our boundaries and see if they can stretch with the new obstacles of life that confront us.

It isn’t always ourselves that find us being caught up in turmoil but we can be enveloped within it nonetheless. That’s what family and friendship really means.

I offer you this testament as a friend, one you may never meet in person but can communicate with through the advice offered here, and the more than 1,700 other posts in this simple blog.

Communication is our only hope of a fair future, for ourselves and those that we care about. And with all of this in our minds I offer this thoughtful headline for your profile headline today:
“Could you count on me in a moment of distress? Are you willing to find out?”

Have a great day!

11
Mar

New Love Life: Dating Profile Headline of the Day

Friday

What a way to wake up… Earthquake, tsunami, and your life changes in a minute.

I have to ask you, what event has most affected your life? What happened that entirely changed the direction of your life, your career?

It’s in these moments that we use the inner strength and confidence in ourselves to grab a hold of the future that’s now coming, whether a new and brightly lit path, or a dark and not-yet-understood future lie ahead.

Grab onto life and love when you can, trust me, you’ll need the support of friends and lovers to make the choices that will take you safely and confidently down this new road of life.

That’s what we’re all about here, guiding you into the baby-steps of finding this part of the puzzle, helping you meet new people, make new friends, and maybe even finding the spark that becomes the most significant part of your life, a new love.

Your dating profile headline, although just a few words, is a major player in the area of your dating adventure and the future that is possible for you. The right headline will create interest in the people you will meet, the wrong headline and you won’t meet anyone. Today this is the headline I suggest for you, to get things moving in the right direction for you:
“Love can happen in an instant, give me a try!”

Have a great day!

24
Feb

Your Future: Dating Profile Headline of the Day

Thursday - In The Month of Love

As “American Idol” picks their Top 24 I can only think of the spectacle of putting your dreams in front of tens of millions of people, then crashing and burning.

It is just entertainment, isn’t it? Of course it isn’t. It’s the car crash you can’t turn away from as you drive down the other side of the road. It’s horrific and irresistible at the same time.

This will speak volumes of our way of life, should it ever be discovered, in some part of our distant future.

We invest our self-interest in our future all the time. It’s called “Looking out for #1″. And this is one of the mistakes we learn from later in life.

Being number one only matters if there is another number one in your life. Without that connection to another person, however special and intimate we allow this connection to get, without it we really are just another animal in the wild, alone, howling at the moon and listening for an answer.

Online dating gives you the answer you seek, that there are others out there, alone, and looking for companionship.

You can start to make that connection to another with the right personal ad headline, maybe a headline like this:
“We may WANT love but we make the CHOICE to… finish this sentence.”

Have a great day!

22
Feb

Long Live The Revolution: Dating Profile Headline of the Day

Love will bring you light

Love will bring you light

Tuesday - In The Month of Love

“Long live the revolution!” is the cry we’ve heard since January, even since the dawn of time.

The people are taking back their countries, taking control again of their lives.

No longer will someone else be demanding of them toil and taxes withour fair and equitable representation.

If you look hard enough it’s represenattuive of love and committment (marriage).

Finding love is a revolution of the soul and spirit, a renewing of the vow we have to the purpose of our lives, to realize our worth as individuals and as lovers and as friends.

I hope that you find your revolution … and live happily ever after.

For today’s dating profile headline this is my suggestion:
“Love is a revolution of the soul.”

Have a great day!

22
Oct

Love Changes: Dating Profile Headline of the Day

Cupid's ammunition

Cupid's ammunition

Friday

Why do you believe the things that you do? Is it more physical/visual proof or more inferred/expert testimony that supports the things you believe?

Life is easily understood as an act of passion. This passion drives us to discover our world and make sense of our existence. But passion is more emotion than intellect and often when these two drives intersect we have “unexplained but reliable” evidence of something being true.

Love is true. Love is a reliable part of life and mostly, we know when love is absent.

Poets have rhymed, writers have described and scientists have tested and all have come to the same conclusions: love changes us.

If you want to love often you have to be the one looking, not the one being found, when love brings two people together.

There are, of course, many stories of people finding love when neither was active in the search “it just happened” they say, or “our eyes locked and it was love at first sight”. These are great stories but they are not what happens normally, at least what does usually happen is that you are in the love market, that is to say you are open for love to make a connection for you, and after many false starts love springs upon you and often expectantly.

I trust that you are here because you are actively looking for love. And I can help by offering you a headline for your dating profile that will get some attention, a few words that will allow that special someone (or at least the person destined to be your next date) to be drawn to you. So today post this as your headline:
“Cupid will do better this time!”

Have a great day!

13
Sep

Dating Profile Headline of the Day

Truth and love.

Truth and love.

Monday

Don’t we all just want to be happy?

Despite all of our current personal trials and tribulations, if we can choose our future wouldn’t the basis of all we want is to be happy first?

Mondays always seem to offer a true sense of introspection, that’s what my experience offers.

Another tidbit would be to use the type of dating service that truly appeals to you, not because of simply a TV ad, or radio soundbite but because of the membership that interests you.

There are literally hundreds of small “niche” dating websites that cater from every type of person and personality. From horse riders to whip hurlers you can find that certain (and maybe special too) person in an online dating service.

The opportunities that abound are larger in metro areas, for sure, but that doesn’t mean a rural farmer won’t meet his match online too. There’s a dating website for that. Online dating is partially a numbers game, but not completely. Certainly the eharmony, adult friendfinder and match.com websites with tens of millions of members offer more people to meet in your area, those same members may not share the particular personal trait or behavior that really revs your engine.

So, just any online dating service may not do the job for you, you should allow yourself some input into where you’ll post your personal ad profiles, make an informed decision about the dating services that will consume your time, effort, and yes, your money too.

There are steps you need to take to effectively use online dating services to your, and their, best advantage:
1. select the right dating service for your ideal match
2. post an appropriate personal profile that not only goes into detail about the type of person you want to meet but the type of person you are, that they will meet
3. post appropriate photos of yourself, and only yourself according to the dating service’s photo guidelines
4. write an enticing headline that will grab the attention of the type of person you want to meet and change your headline regularly, not just to keep your headline fresh but to also give yourself a positional advantage because most dating services place new member and recently edited member profiles at the beginning of their member search results

And, as the title of this post describes, I have a unique dating tip suggestion for your profile headline that I will share with you. For today, Monday, consider using this as your dating profile headline:
“Do you agree that truth and love are the same thing?”

Have a great day!






28
Jun

Dating Profile Headline of the Day

An invitation to love

An invitation to love

Monday

You are not alone, I am here with you, to help you to that most elusive of goals: meeting someone great to date.

If you’ve done your share of the work, putting up an honest profile at a major online dating service and you haven’t had much success yet, then it’s time I shared a secret with you: by regularly posting a new headline you will be at the top of the search results more often and you’ll be noticed by a lot more other members.

Remember, your headline is your first impression and a great headline, along with a well written profile, is giving yourself the best possible opportunity to meet someone special.

Today, make a couple of changes to your profile that will tie in to this romantic headline I suggest you post:
“I can explain the things I will feel for you.”

Have a great day!

Recommendation
Major dating services to join:
- Match.com
- Eharmony.com
- Lavalife

4
May

Dating Profile Headline of the Day

Where in the world are you?

Where in the world are you?

Tuesday

A lot of long distance relationships and romances start with online dating services. You probably didn’t need me to tell you that but I want to be certain we are on the same page, so to speak.

When you have properly written your profile, and added a great headline, love can find you from across the street or across the globe.

You have to be open to change because that is what love is: change.

A constant state of always trying to please and care for your partner. You may have felt that before and you certainly will feel it again, as long as you are sincere in your efforts.

To help you with this effort I offer you this headline to post today:
“Does it matter where I am if I am right for you?”

Have a great day!

26
Apr

Dating Profile Headline of the Day

Not the 2009 Hot Dog Eating Champ

Not the 2009 Hot Dog Eating Champ

Monday

So, we’re at it again, another work week for the work-weary.

The should be an award for this… besides the pittance called a paycheck, that is.

But we work for what we can get and those of us lucky to find love share what we have and what we will have.

So let’s go directly to improving our lot in life, if it’s not a better job at least it can be a nicer place to call home, with sharing that home with someone special there, with love.

So for today, this dreary Monday, let’s share some sunshine and bring a brighter future to someone when they first notice us because of this great headline:
“I am not the 2009 Hot Dog Eating Champion!”

Have a great day!

1
Dec

New “Inside the Mind of a Man” Article

Can You Share What You Want?

New article published today.

Women sharing intimate moments with men is all about sex (so men try to believe). Men sharing intimate moments with women is all about emotion (so women want to believe).

7
Jul

Dating Profile Headline of the Day

Tuesday… here it rains and when it rains it pours.

But that is no reason to not look forward to this day. Rain brings a new cleanliness to the earth, a fresh vision for tired eyes.

And with this positive outlook nothing can stop us from the fortunate future we will have. So let’s bring fortune (and great dates!) our way by attracting a very nice person with this online dating profile headline:
“I am looking to share fun and great conversations… sign up now!”

Have a great day!