Losers and Dating History

While it’s generally held true that history is written by the winners, it’s very true (and this may be the first time you’ve heard this) that dating history is made by the losers.

You very rarely hear how well dates turned out, weeks or months since they occurred, but how bad they turned out becomes a word-of-mouth story that everyone believes.

Fumbling for a place to go, pregnant pauses and awkward silences that destroyed any hopes of a real conversation all followed up with a date ending physical lurch forward with shot down sexual hopes.

The loser of these dates (from a man’s viewpoint) almost always writes the history of the date as if describing a prude with high hopes of spinsterhood deflecting all attempts of continuing the date beyond the initial hellos because of something or another.

A woman may describe the antics of a clown bottled inside the body of a man-child that no self-respecting woman would be seen with, in public or private.

If you were to look back at your disastrous dates, were you at fault or was it your dates idiocy that precluded anything of meaning happening.

See, you do understand what I mean.

I, of course, have the solution for ending up on bad dates and that is to never go on one at all. I am not saying don’t date but that you should simply not allow bad dates to happen.

To quote Christian Carter, author of ‘Catch Him & Keep Him‘, “it’s important to learn what exactly (and realistically) makes you happy with a man”.

When you can stop wasting your own time on dates that will, without a doubt, lead nowhere, then you’ve taken the first step at raising your own value and your own self-confidence, and started to date great!