When “Give a little to get a little” no longer applies

All right former party girl, it’s time to start the next chapter of your life.

Is it the ticking clock or is it the tiredness from being alone? Whatever it is, the time for change is now.
A change of goals, a change for the people that are in your life, for someone special to become a part of your life.

Imagine your life as a boat at sea. The waves of life’s troubles come at you from all sides. You bob up and down, roll side to side, because of forces beyond your control.

You try to please so many people in your life that your own life has become second best.

If you see even a little about yourself in the above then it really is time for a change.

And change is here, now.

Start with a list of the people in your life and rank them in importance to you, one to five, with five being the most important to you.
Then total the numbers up and divide them by the number of people on your list. If you have an average higher than 3.5 you have a lot of people in your life that you care about and should understand what you need. If the average is less that 2.5 then you need to start making choices about what you will accept as demands on your life that are reasonable and what are twisting up you inside.

The life you have is the only one worth living and you need to create a relationship with yourself, and the people in your life, that is rewarding, not demanding.

Stop being one wave away from capsizing.