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2
May

The 4 Sure Signs Of Confidence That Women Look For In A Man By David DeAngelo

Author of best-selling eBook and free “Dating Secrets” newsletter

I’ve said it a bazillion times… great women don’t see a man as potential “relationship material” based on his looks, money, or cheesy pick-up lines.

When it comes to figuring out if a particular guy might be “Mr. Right,” the first thing most women look for are sure signs of CONFIDENCE. More specifically, the 4 unmistakable, magnetic signals that confident men send a woman the moment they meet her.

Naturally, a man doesn’t need to show them all to get the attention of a great woman… but if he manages to show her just a few, chances drastically increase that she’ll start “feeling it” for him.

So, without further delay, here come the 4 sure signs of confidence that every great woman looks for in a man:

1) An “Easy-Going” Attitude

Listen… “easy-going” does NOT mean being so laid back when you first meet a woman that you’re practically asleep. It also doesn’t mean putting up with any kind of rude or inappropriate behavior.

It means handling the opinions, pressures, and attitudes of others with grace, and coming across as comfortable in your own skin. Even your body language communicates it… a confident man will literally, physically “lay back,” leaning back while keeping his body open and facing forward when conversing.

A confident “real man” also doesn’t obsess about what other people think or do. He doesn’t take it as an insult if someone doesn’t like him, or disagrees with him. Above all, he isn’t needy, clingy, and always trying to be the center of attention.

Basically, this “easy-going” attitude signals a woman that a man is the leader of his own life… everyone else do what they may.

2) He’s “Put Together”

It’s true, a woman will never decide that a man might be “Mr. Right” just because he looks like Brad Pitt… but rest assured she’ll INSTANTLY RULE HIM OUT if he doesn’t look “right”… caring about himself enough to attend to the basics of appearance which communicate a positive, healthy self-image.

Again, this doesn’t mean that a man has to buy trendy clothes… wear a “scent”… or look like an obsessive gym rat.

It DOES mean that he needs to master the basics of good grooming and hygiene. Because, if a man doesn’t have it together enough to attend to his own needs, a quality woman knows right away that there’s NO WAY he can possibly attend to hers.

By the way… this also means being savvy enough to avoid “extremes” in appearance. When first meeting a woman, I recommend dressing neutrally and neatly, neither coming across as a stuffy “suit” or a sandal hound.

Finally: coming across as “put together” means communicating confidence about who you are on the INSIDE as well. You can do it by being able to carry on an interesting conversation about music… food… culture… whatever. Becoming a good conversationalist is a sure sign that you have it all together… that you’re in a healthy, curious, CONFIDENT state of mind.

3) He’s Humble

This is a big one…

Like I always say, any “jerk” can act cocky with a woman… but coming across as CONFIDENT requires something else: the ability to control what you say and do so that you never come across as “above” anyone else.

Sure, a man can act cocky… as long as he’s makes sure that it’s FUNNY (since arrogance without humor equals “jerk” every time). A truly confident man makes fun of HIMSELF above all others, and never “nitpicks” or tries to hurt another person’s feelings.

For example, it’s okay to look across the room at some other guy and say something cocky like, “Look at that guy’s facial hair… I think 1975 wants it back.” But ONLY if he’s HUMBLE enough to add a comment like, “Believe me, I know… mine was just like it.”

4) He Has A Sense of Humor

File this one under “No-Brainer”… a great sense of humor is the most instant, obvious, magnetic force that makes a woman sense a man’s CONFIDENCE… and therefore feel the first sparks of ATTRACTION for him.

That’s why I suggest that guys do whatever they can to cultivate a “comic sensibility”, even it means just reading a few books about the theory and structure of comedy and timing.

I also recommend checking out cutting-edge humor sites like “Funny Or Die” and “The Onion,” or just watching Saturday Night live to understand what’s hip and funny TODAY… because it’s all guaranteed to change and become “lame” TOMORROW.

Add it all up, and the message is clear:

While most men waste time trying to impress women by acting “tough” or “dominant,”… the signs of confidence great women look for are much more subtle… and MUCH more easily achieved.

By focusing on “broadcasting” the four TRUE signs of magnetic “real-man” confidence… the kind of women you want to meet will start sensing that YOU just might be “Mr. Right.”
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19
Oct

Cheaters Never Prosper: Personals Ad Headline of the Day

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Writing a catchy headline for your online personal ad or profile is key to getting responses and replies to everything you do on your chosen dating service.

If there are forums and chat rooms you can be certain that people are checking out your profile too and if they aren’t impressed by your headline then you might have just ended any type of relationship before it started.

Think humor, comedy and thoughtful terms to use. Generally your dating service allows for about 60 to 80 characters for your headline so you’ve got to maximize the potential of your words to generate initial attraction and attention.

“If the door is scary (or boring) no one is going to click-through to the fun inside.”

My suggestion for your headline today is:
“Cheaters never prosper, that’s why I’m doing so well.”

Have a great day!

28
May

Dating Profile Headline of the Day

Going around just once.

Friday

This Headline Day I am going to turn the posting of your profile over to you, my friend.

Be sincere, be true to yourself, and add a little humor if you can, everybody likes to laugh… everybody you’d want to meet anyways, right?

Most of all, have fun… you only go around once, you know!

Have a great day!

11
Jul

Dating Profile Headline of the Day

Saturday…

I like how the week repeats itself, every seven days we get to do it all over again.

Is there anything that you did in the last seven days that you’d like to do again?
Or not do again?

Who cares? … it’s Saturday…. freedom day for some, for many. Others have to work today, so let’s not celebrate too much, right?
Yeah, right. LOL

And in a humorous vein, let’s have a fun headline to post to our profile. Finding someone funny and nice would be a real treat, right?

Well, humor attracts humor. So let’s get started with this:
“Share with me your favorite joke. If you make me laugh you might get a date!”


Have a great day!

11
Jun

Dating Service Profile Headline of the Day

Thursday… what a great day to do things, like almost anything other than reading this blog right now.
Imagine, you could be… at the beach… at the mall… anywhere.

But you’re here, with me… so let’s amuse ourselves, ok?

Well, not solo, together… in a good, humorous, funny way, ok?

And humor attracts… really, really well. So let’s use humor in our personal ad headline today, ok?
Change your headline to this:
“Knock, knock…”

And in your profile add the following:
“Did you HEAR me say come in!?! — just KIDDING, glad you stopped by!”

And have a great day!