Four: Dating Profile Headline of the Day
Four.
Four is the number that has ruled my life. I was born on the 3rd, the 4th was my first full day on this earth.
Four is the number of kisses it takes me to get turned on. The first three don’t even count as foreplay.
Four is the number of lives I’ve always known I had, but now I’ve used up three (a personal story recounted elsewhere online) so now I’m trying to be extra careful.
My point is that everyone has a number, sometimes you just don’t know what it is.
For your dating profile headline today, post this:
“Tell me what your lucky number is, maybe we’re a match!”
Have a great day!
Time To Start Dating Again: Dating Profile Headline of the Day
When is the time right to date other people after a relationship breakup?
Why would I write this post when, clearly, you’re dating now and have moved on from your past indulgences (me)? For some people the answer to the above question = a few weeks to a month.
All the more power to you, but are you really setting your previous partner free? Have the feelings you once had entered their own ice age?
To be certain that you’re free and clear of your past relationships, keep away for a couple of weeks, maybe more. Including no emails, texts and phone calls.
After 14 to 28 days you can decide to send an email for them to answer or not, or simply take the next step and ask for a restraining order if you have not been likewise left alone. Did I say keep all copies of they’re emails and texts and voicemail messages?
If you receive texts and emails and voicemails from that person, it shows how much they still need you in their life, even if any type of help will be thrown back into your face. Do yourself a favor and ignore them all.
I’m sure you’ve done all you can. You’ve bit down on the bullets, you’ve drained your bank accounts, and nothing ever was good enough. When the pot of gold empties, some types move on.
But some pass the test. Hey, embrace the challenge and allow for no one else to take the blame for your own current circumstances.
This, basically, is the type of person you want to date.
Your new date should be unencumbered by previous responsibilities and waiting in awe as their new world unfolds before them with you by their side.
Tread carefully and enjoy your new freedoms. My profile headline suggestion for you today to us is:
“I have followed the rainbow and am ready to share the gold I found.”
Have a great day!
Clothes and Creating a Positive Impression: Dating Profile Headline of the Day
I really like the laundry soap line “Style is an option, clean is not.” I mean, do you see how some people dress? They are either too stupid to know that they don’t have to be wearing their old clothes from the 90’s or they just missed the “option line” checkbox on the “How I want the world to see me: a) Dorky b) Nice c) Stylish”.
I do agree that “clothes make the person” but people, come on, read it carefully, it is the clothes. Personal statements aside you do have to do your part and you can do that without breaking the bank if you carefully shop online and use the discount and coupons that are easily found online.
So if you’re reading this before you’re at work today, take a closer look at the options you have to wear and if you’re already at work then spend a few minutes checking your options online.
It is the clothes on your back that make up a great percentage of the (positive or negative) initial impression you’ll make on someone new you meet and we all also know that love (or even a nicer possible dating partner) can appear anywhere and at anytime.
For a fresh new headline for yout dating profile, post this:
“Dress nicely when we meet, because style isn’t really an option, don’t you aree?”
Have a great day!
Positivity: Dating Profile Headline of the Day
I usually start my Monday’s post by complaining about Mondays, truly the most hated day of the week (with Hump Day a distant second!) But today let’s embrace Monday.
Just look at all of the positives:
- a new week brings new opportunities
- the chance to start the week off right by not calling in sick for a three day weekend
- catch up with friends at work and what they did over the weekend
- earn one more day’s pay
- finish the work you dogged out on Friday
Mondays have all kind of positivity around them don’t they?
Ths week, start off with a fresh headline for your online personal ad too, try this:
“Open the door, let me in, let’s have some fun together!”
Have a great day!
How To Improve Your Profile: Dating Profile Headline of the Day
Don’t stop what you’re doing with your online dating adventure! Small sucesses are what big successes are built on. And missed opportunities allow you to “plug the holes” and create a better online profile.Many dating services provide you with some feedback such as who has visited your profile and when. If you’re not getting messages from these visitors it’s because they’re not certain you’re a good match for them.
Read their profile and try to figure out why. Everyone has some commn traits, but do these visitors get put off by something these saw or read? Don’t immediately dismiss them as not compatible, you have work to do yet.
Put on your detective hat and read their profile carefully, then go back and read your own profile again. Measure the questions you both answered against the answers you both gave. What is it that stands out that would keep the two of you apart? (During this phase of your “investigation” don’t thnk of the other person’s physical appearance, we’re looking deeper than that.)
Read the other person’s “About Me” section carefully, are there any aspects that you like about them? What stands out as a direct conflict in what you wrote in your “About Me” answers?
This will give you a direction of writing style and information to post about yourself to improve your profile as you investigate carefully the people that stopped by to read your profile but didn’t contact you.
Do this with every person that didn’t contact you but stopped by for a look and soon you’ll have fixed up your profile and be a top receiver of messages and more.
For your headline to use in your personal ad, try this today:
“I am a lot deeper than my About Me answers, let’s chat!”
Have a great day!
Romantic Poetry: Dating Profile Headline of the Day
“I have seen your face, it seems, my whole life. I wake and I sleep with the image of you beginning and ending my day.”
The beginnings of romantic poetry will send shivers up and down the spine of any person that allows their inner feelings to have a life and been shown, instead of being held down and admonished by your consciousness for even trying to cause a ripple on the surface of your emotional being.
“Let the inner voice be heard and open your heart to the true possibilities of love.”
Real people, human people, do not hide from the feelings of love, they do not cower in the darkness at the edge of the bright, warm pool of light that is the glow of love.
With sex all around you, love appears rarely and is even harder to hold onto. I urge you to hold onto love for it is fleeting, retreating from the darkness of the shallow days of your life.
For your dating ad headline today why not use this suggestion to get some attention:
“I will hold onto you, Love, until my last breath.”
Have a great day!
Your Dating Success: Dating Profile Headline of the Day
An online dating tip that will get you more responses to your profile than you ever thought possible.
Success with online dating is not only relative to your expectations but depends greatly, I know you’ll agree, on the connections and Real-World dates that result from your online dating adventure.
You have to begin with completing as much of your online profile that is asked of you, empty answers will get you less results, that is a certainty.
But aside from that, it’s your “essay question” answer that will create a lot of interest in the type of women (or men) that you want to meet. While it’s meant to allow yourself great latitude to talk about yourself you should follow these two rules:
1) Don’t go overboard when talking about yourself, mentioning deep seated beliefs that could start an arguement don’t belong here, i.e., keep away from religion, politics and current events that polarize people in their own beliefs.
2) Write this section as if you were talking to a stranger, a very attractive stranger, as though you were stuck in an elevator for several hours with them. This extended forced close-quarter arrangement usually allows people to reveal much about themselves without searching for an argument. Intimate but safe are the usual conversations in such circumstances, aim for this approach as you write about yourself.
Now, the online dating tip I mentioned at the start:
Use the photo gallery features of your dating service to it’s best advantage, that is, take pictures of yourself (and only yourself) in easily recognized local places, enjoying yourself. Let’s say that it’s a popular restaurant, have a picture taken with the most popular dish placed in front of you. For public places be in front of landmarks, etc.
The magic of these types of photos in your photo gallery is that an immediate connection is made when you are photographed in places that the reader of your profile can identify with. Maybe they’ve been there before, maybe they’ve always wanted to go there. They will connect with you through these images and be more inclined to make contact with you.
For your personal ad headline, try this today:
“I’m a person of the world, but not worldly.”
Have a great day!
When Followed: Dating Profile Headline of the Day
I know what to do. Really, I do.
At least, I know what to tell you to do. For me to know what I should do is a little harder, the window to view events in isn’t as large.
I know all the steps, I understand all the routines, I can tell anyone, any time, all the right things to do, and my explainations not only make sense but they work when followed.
When followed. A key phrase in this day and age: “Always read the label to determine if this dating service is right for you.” LOL
For your personal ad headline today, post this:
“Save some for me, I have some learning still to do.”
Have a great day!
Where Are The Single Ladies?: Dating Profile Headline of the Day
One of the most often questions I get from men is “Where are the single ladies?”
The honest answer is “Not where you’re looking” because the guys are expecting the women to jump out, hit them on the head and jump into bed. It’s just not going to happen, is it ladies?
And so go the free dating sites, right again ladies? More guys waiting to lunge on you than “Ladies night” at the local caberet.
Guys, women are everywhere. Women are roughly 50% of the population, open your eyes and look. Waiting for a “ten”? Looks fade but love lasts forever, so stop using that mountaintop rating system and peer inside once in a while, maybe you’re not that great of a catch after all, except for someone that will love you for who you are, where you are.
My suggestion for your dating profile headline today is:
“Not a lifetime of memories but a lifetime!”
Have a great day!
Reality Check Tuesday: Dating Profile Headline of the Day
Today is “Reality Check Tuesday”.
How often do you check your life’s plan, dust off your dating life and brace yourself for some drastic changes to upscale your love life?
Experts generally agree that your career should have a 5 year plan, setting goals, both long range and short.
I believe that your dating life should have a reality check every 6 months.
Are you dating the right types of people? Are you happy with the “involvement level” of your more intimate relationships?
“Yes” is your goal and the more yeses the better you’ll feel because your dating life infects the satisfaction of all other parts of your life, personal and professional.
For your personal ad upgrade today try using this headline:
“This is when life gets interesting.”
Have a great day!
Advice Chats: Dating Profile Headline of the Day
I have to ask “Do you use internet chats as a type of psychologist’s couch?”
That is, do you meet people online, through chat sites and self-help forums, and explain your life’s ills to them, offering excuses and looking for sympathy for how your life is turning out?
And the advice that is offered to you, do you take it to heart, or is this “in the moment” and in the next moment you feel much better, maybe your outlook has changed a bit but your situation hasn’t.
And in a day or two later you’re again in the same funk, surfing around looking for sympathy and offering excuses about your life once again.
It’s time to stop the cycle isn’t it.
I suggest you browse some of the ebooks I’ve read and see if there is something that will provide a grounding for your life’s next steps.
You have value, you are loved, you just might be reaching out the wrong way, so it’s time to change things around starting today.
My suggestion for your online personal ad headline today is this:
“I am happi, looking for ness = happiness.”
Have a great day!
Doomed Online Dating Experience: Dating Profile Headline of the Day
I have another online dating secret to give you and it’s a mistake that many online daters make:
When you join an online dating service it’s free. For many dating services to make contact with other members, or to use other premium features, you will pay a subscription fee.
So many people will choose the shortest subscription period, commonly one month, to try the dating service and “see how it goes”. While this is all and good, putting a time limit on your online dating experience is usually doomed. Too much is expected in too short a time.
How much browsing, messaging, favoriting and reading profiles can you do in 30 days? And how many real connections, never mind RL (Real Life) dates can you expect in your 30 day timeline? Six dates? Three? One?
What type of pressure do you put yourself under for the $30-50 dollars for the month? Can you make your own dealine to find love online?
You’re right, probably not.
If you’ll spend $100.00 on a date, then consider $100.00 on a dating service. It will do your self-esteem some good.
For your dating profile headline consider this offering:
“Please contact me, I think you’re the one.”
Have a great day!
Game of Love: Dating Profile Headline of the Day
“It actually ends up being a very interesting game.”
I am speaking, of course, about the game of love.
The game either survives with mutual admiration or ends with mutual destruction.
And the “mutual admiration” part is simply amazing. That’s why so many people play, that’s why you want to play too.
And you have to have a partner to play this “game of love” and you’re here for some tips about how online dating joins your “game of love” playing. Good for you.
As far as the people going through a breakup we’re not going to be talking about your situation today, so you might want to go here instead.
Many online dating services will match you up and with a touch of “luckily in love” your compatibility match will work for you. To make your dates even more interesting change around the traits you want in a match and see how lucky you are in love with a match that is quite different from the expected.
You are the main player in this game, seeking a qualified partner. Use the tools available to meet as wide a range of matches as you can, nobody will keep score until the end, once the game has started, that is.
For your personal ad headline today, serve this one up:
“Are you my partner in this game called love?”
Have a great day!
Secrets: Dating Profile Headline of the Day
Send Documents for Signature Online
I read once that “velcro” is an extra-terrestial technology that was allowed to be revealed to mankind in order to lessen the amount of carbon emissions over the next two centuries. Is this a badly kept secret or a secret to big to be true? Now remember, you almost told me a secret of yours only a second or two ago, (and I’ve already proven that I can’t keep a secret, even with those Russians still watching me from their cars), so maybe now you want to chnage your answer?
At any rate, I’m certain that I just proved that neither of us is very good at keeping a secret. For a free ebook on protecting yourself better by learning the tricks of deception so you will not (accidentally or intentionally) lay bare your personal computer secrets including online usernames, passwords and online credit card and banking information, just enter your email in the box below:
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Freebies aren’t always what they seem are they? In this case there is no freebie at all, just me and what I’m writing today and a box that says “Type Email Address Here:” If this fooled you then you need better protection than your own scruples.
But enough of me watching the History Channel and trying to make a blog post out of it, let’s get to the nut of the subject. Here’s today’s personal ad headline suggestion for you:
“I can give you an unique perspective on singleness and hopefully together we will find a way to put it at an end.”
Have a great day!
