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3
May

Have A Great Relationship Series

How To Show Him You’re A Great Catch
By Rori Raye
Author of best-selling eBook Have The Relationship You Want and free newsletter

So you’ve finally met a man you really like and can see yourself having a relationship with him. You should make an effort to show him you’re a real find, right?

Actually, no. The fantastic thing about being a woman is that getting a man to see how wonderful you are doesn’t involve any effort at all. In fact, it’s all about simply being, not doing.

IT’S NOT WHAT YOU DO, IT’S WHAT YOU ARE

When we meet a great guy, we women often try to do, do, do whatever we can to make him see what a great catch we are. We’ll go out of our way to do things for a man, plan outings together, and sometimes even say yes to things he wants that go against what we want.


Help Him Fall In Love With You - Learn The Secrets

You can’t convince a man to fall in love. But you can lead him there by connecting to his heart. One of the most powerful ways to do this is to let yourself be guided by your feminine energy rather than your masculine. Feminine energy is about being instead of doing. When you focus on simply being in the moment and enjoying a man’s company and attention, you automatically shift your vibe so that he can step into the masculine, doer role.

To do that, you must first be open to receive.

A GREAT CATCH LETS A MAN GIVE TO HER

Inspiring a man to see you as the one woman he wants to be with forever is all about you being able to receive love.

Men fall in love when they give to you, not because of how much you give them or do for them. When you shower him with affection, attention, dinners, gifts, and always go out of your way to drive to his place, it makes him think of you as a mother or a friend instead of inspiring his emotional desire for you.

When you are open to receiving from a man, you are sending a message that you value yourself - you believe you are worthy of his time, attention, gestures, and ultimately his love. So resist the temptation to prove your worth by giving and instead create the space for him to give to you.

A GREAT CATCH SETS BOUNDARIES HE NEEDS TO RESPECT

Men are competitive creatures who value what they have to work hard to get. If he gets a sense that you’re completely devoted to him with very little investment on his part, he’ll question your value.

This means you do not give away exclusivity to a man until you have the commitment you want from him. Instead, you keep dating and meeting lots of different men so that you give yourself a chance to find out what you really want and need from a relationship. At the same time, you aren’t prematurely cutting yourself off from your Mr. Right in case you haven’t met him yet!

When you keep the focus on yourself and keep yourself open to other men, you send the message loud and clear that you’re a woman who puts herself first and that you are a prize. This elevates your “degree of difficulty” so he has to step up his game to get you all to himself…or risk another guy beating him to it.

A GREAT CATCH PUTS HERSELF FIRST

The most important thing to remember when you are dating a man and want him to realize how wonderful you are is to put your happiness first.

If you love taking a dance class every Thursday night, don’t give it up just because he’s in the picture and you don’t want him to think you’re not interested. Letting him know you have a life before him actually makes him more attracted to you - not just because you’re not about to drop everything for him, but because people who are passionate about their interests are interesting people!

So, tell him, “It would feel so great to see Thursday, but I have my dance class that night, and I love it. I’m free Tuesday or Friday.” Then ask him what he thinks. It might feel a little scary to do this with a guy you really like, but the right guy will gladly re-arrange his plans to see you. Why? Because you’ve just proven you’re a great catch he has to woo and win.

Rori teaches women how to break out of the patterns that have been keeping them from truly connecting with a man’s heart so that they can experience deep intimacy. To learn specific ways you can step out of the “doing” role in your relationship and into the more feminine energy “feeling” role that is so alluring and magnetic to a man, subscribe to Rori’s free e-newsletter. You’ll discover even more effortless ways to let a man know he’s lucky to have you.

7
May

Fantasy Lover: Dating Profile Headline of the Day

How sensual are you?

Saturday

Do you have a fantasy lover?

Having a fantasy lover can be very fulfilling, allowing yourself to get sensual and excited and if you take the extra time to understand what makes your fantasy lover so good at what they do you’ll find that you have those same deeply sensual feelings available to share with the lover you have, or will have, in real life.

Many people shut off the fantasy or don’t allow themselves to experience this sensual side of themselves because they repress these very same emotions.

This weekend you should take 10 or 30 minutes to meditate. Just relax with easy deep breathing… in… out… and free yourself of the thoughts of the day.

Allow yourself to wander into that sensual place where your fantasy lover can be found… in… out… easy deep breathing.

Feel their touch on your skin, their own emotions of love and sexuality that only a fantasy lover can share with you.

Keep breathing deeply… in… out.

When your meditation is done write down the emotions that you shared with your fantasy lover. If you can, include how and where you were touched. If there was a song playing in the background include that in your remembering of the experience.

By visiting your fantasy lover you can begin to understand the deep sensual side that is inside you, waiting to be experienced with a real person. Hold onto those memories as you date people.

When you understand what you deeply want in a relationship you begin to have the ability to make it happen.

For your new personal ad headline today I suggest this:
“Do you have a fantasy lover?”

Have a great day!

More about this meditation exercise can be found in the ebook “Have The Relationship You Want” by Rori Raye.

17
Sep

Have The Relationship You Want - new article posted

How To ‘Stand Up For Love’ new article published.

Robert Lee

Robert Lee - I am always excited each time I come back to reading ‘Have The Relationship You Want’ and finding something new to share, not only about the ebook but how it enriches my relationship and my life too.

I hope you enjoy this latest article, you can read it here.