Victims of Self-Sabotage: Dating Profile Headline of the Day
Are you a victim of self-sabotage when you’re beginning to date someone new?
It’s perfectly normal to wonder if the person you’ve met is good enough for you. It’s not normal to wonder if you’re good enough for them.
We all have some trepidation about our relationships, there are always minor incidents that give us reason to pause and consider the events and how they relate to the relationship we hope for.
When you act out of fear and sabotage your relationships it’s time to consider what you think is a normal life for yourself.
Are you deserving of happiness? If you cannot answer yes to the question you need to reconsider how you view yourself and your self-worth.
My headline suggestion for you today is this:
“Am I good enough or too good to date you?”
Have a great day!
Dating Scams: Dating in the News
UK dating scams more common than believed: survey. CTV.ca
Earlier this year the Vancouver-based online dating site Plenty of Fish said it had been hacked and hand hundreds of user passwords and personal details stolen. Reports of violent criminals meeting targets through dating sites also occur on occasion. …
A cure for the lonely heart. Calgary Herald By Laura Kane, Vancouver Sun September 30, 2011
A screenshot taken from BeautifulPeople.com, a dating website restricted to only the best looking people online. In a world where a wealth of new options are just a mouse click away, is it any wonder …
Love on the Internet: Dating in the Age of the Profile Image. The Atlantic
Online dating is real. The barrier to entry is zero. The social media literacy of the average person is sufficient to make online dating comprehensible. Women and men understand that the risks of looking at profiles, and maybe even meeting one of those …
Bidisha’s thought for the day: internet dating. The Guardian
I have several friends who have dived like love-otters into the soiled waters of internet dating and emerged with a prize catch in their mouths … eventually. On the road to happiness one friend met a man who’d said he was 6ft 2in but turned out to be …
Advice Chats: Dating Profile Headline of the Day
I have to ask “Do you use internet chats as a type of psychologist’s couch?”
That is, do you meet people online, through chat sites and self-help forums, and explain your life’s ills to them, offering excuses and looking for sympathy for how your life is turning out?
And the advice that is offered to you, do you take it to heart, or is this “in the moment” and in the next moment you feel much better, maybe your outlook has changed a bit but your situation hasn’t.
And in a day or two later you’re again in the same funk, surfing around looking for sympathy and offering excuses about your life once again.
It’s time to stop the cycle isn’t it.
I suggest you browse some of the ebooks I’ve read and see if there is something that will provide a grounding for your life’s next steps.
You have value, you are loved, you just might be reaching out the wrong way, so it’s time to change things around starting today.
My suggestion for your online personal ad headline today is this:
“I am happi, looking for ness = happiness.”
Have a great day!
The Good Inside Us: Dating Profile Headline of the Day
Forever hide the bad within.
We all know that we present different faces to different people, in different places.
We hide behind niceness when our server brings us our food, we complain loudly to the person we care about the most of the unfairness of the world.
We have different sides, we behave differently depending on the circumstances.
We have within ourselves anger, sadness, joy, happiness, camaraderie, love, gentleness, indifference, the list goes on. With each of these emotions that is a part of us that comes out to play the part the emotion commands of us.
But what if you could merge all of the good emotions/personalities and forever hide the bad? Would your life improve, and if it would, by how much?
Consider consciously bringing your good personalities to the front of your being. Let your love handle the disappointments that come your way, instead of your anger.
Your world will be a better place.
For your personal ad headline today try this and see where it leads:
“I am here to share happiness with someone special.”
Have a great day!
Blue Monday: Dating Profile Headline of the Day
Wednesday
If I had a million dollars… well, I’d be writing this from a much warmer and sunnier place. (Yes, I know it’s Wednesday and it says Monday in the above title. Just so you know.)
Next Monday is “Blue Monday”, supposedly the most depressing day of the year. I can’t believe it’s not today but I guess it’s just the slide downwards to Monday. Blue Monday.
The cheerful side of January is online dating, of course.
Meeting new people, seeing new faces. the new Year is very good for those that are active with their chosen dating service and completed profiles.
No one wants to click into a profile and see pretty much nothing written down. So, before you criticize someone else, make sure that you’ve completed as much of your own profile as you’re comfortable with.
And don’t criticize too much, everyone has a different level of comfort when it comes to revealing personal details to people you haven’t met yet and may never meet.
Get a head start on happiness and use this suggestion as your headline:
“Nobody deserves sadness… Let’s share some happiness.”
Have a great day!
Happiness: Dating Profile Headline of the Day
Happiness is infectious
Normally I’d TGIF all over this post, you know that if you’ve been here on any previous Friday.
But today I am back at work after the past 4 days of being sick. You’d think that any sickness that kept you off work Monday to Thursday would be nice enough to hang around for a few extra hours and maintain the status quo of one more day off… but no, I’m not that lucky.
I did have some fun, maybe a little too much, at a website called IAmHappyForYou.com, the rudest magic 8 ball game ever online, maybe. If you ask I’d have to say I was there just to see the answers.
Otherwise I am happy and well, thank you. I hope you are too.
This weekend brings us within 7 weeks or so of Christmas. This means your plans have to start being made and any travel arrangements researched so you get the best price. if you’re shopping early for gifts I’d like a new Dodge 1500 truck, but I’m not really hoping too much. Maybe just a new frying pan will suffice.
I’d like to think that the coming season brings us happiness and wealth but the reality is that unless you work hard for happiness and wealth they just won’t happen.
Happiness is not only a state of mind it’s also a matter of health. And of your personal outlook on life. When you look towards nirvana you have hope for a better life and you reach towards it not only as a goal but as a roadmap for your life.
And wealth? You can buy all the lottery tickets you want, and leave wealth to chance, or you can build your own stack of one dollar bills one week or month at a time, and celebrate having some money when you really do have some money.
What does all of this have to do with dating? Everything. When you are happy you will infect others with happiness. When you have a few extra dollars your stress levels will decline and you’ll have even more happiness.
When you take that step to join an online dating service you are showing that you are ready for happiness and that you have wealth, even if it’s the wealth of spirit.
With your online dating profile you’ll want to catch that special someone’s eye with a happy headline too. Sharing is caring and caring is knowing that your future is bright. Let your personal ad headline shine brightly too, with this headline suggestion:
“This is how we’ll tell friends everything got started.”
Have a great day!
Experience: Dating Profile Headline of the Day
Happiness is your life experience, shared.
There are things men ask other men in confidence (How do I know if my penis is average or larger than average?) and things men freely admit to other men (I am a Steven Seagal fan too).
Now, I have never, ever, wondered about the first question (I am a happy guy, happily married, that should speak hugely for itself, no pun intended) and I can easily admit that I was not a Steven Seagal fan until I found his TV show “Steven Seagal Lawman” recently.
His movies? No great realization, they are what they are. His TV show? It reaches me, it seems to be unscripted, and maybe the next best thing to live action police law enforcement I’ve ever seen on TV.
I like seeing a guy that has other options still doing what gives his life balance. Can you say you are giving yourself the same experience?
How would you sum up your life experience in one snazzy sentence? This is what your dating profile headline is all about.
You want to make a statement about your life. Your future. Your past.
You want to touch that one special person with your words, create a perfect image of life with your simple few words.
Your dating ad headline should be a reflection of your simplest, but exciting, evaluation of your life so far. Maybe this is the type of headline you’d like to post today:
“Life is an experience best shared with someone special.”
Have a great day!
Dating Profile Headline of the Day
A fun theory: dating me!
You owe it to yourself to do everything possible to find your own happiness.
We all make mistakes but we need to find ways to move forward, not just existing but to grow towards our real goal of that happiness we seek.
This is your opportunity to move forward, to find that smile that dries eyes and opens up imaginations.
To start with you’ll need to have an online profile that describes you well and an eye-catching headline that leads people to want to read more about you.
Today, I suggest you post this as your headline:
“Don’t be silly. Meeting me is based on a sound theory!”
Have a great day!
Dating Profile Headline of the Day
Sunday gardening chores
Not only is this the Sunday that you’re really going to enjoy (sunny, great day for yard work if you do that sort of thing) but it’s the Sunday that the dating profile headline you post will bring happiness to many and love to one special person.
So let’s not waste any time today, we have a lot too do. Post this as your headline today:
“My joy can be your happiness!”
Have a great Day!
Your Dating Power
I am about to offer you a gift. Not a download or something that will be emailed to you but simply a word of advice that will take you farther towards dating success that anything before.
I am offering you… hope.
You see, the challenge for dating singles is in not wasting your time with the jerks and bimbos of the world.
Your goal is to find someone to settle down with at the exact moment you are eally ready to settle down. Get it?
What if you meet your Cinderella, or Romeo, before the time is right? They’ll come into and exit your life like a shotting star, all bright and bubbly, and out, show down, without a snowball’s chance in hell of getting their true mission accomplished (in case you’re not sure what that is, it’s happiness).
So, hope is what I offer you. My hope for your happiness.
And take a closer look around you, at the people that are in your life. Whether in a serious or casual manner, you just can’t be certain what they’re real mission is, so tread softly and carry a big heart.
