No More Wednesday Dinner Dates For You: Dating Profile Headline of the Day
Thursday: The unofficial “First Meeting Day/Date” for people that meet online. Really.
We all know that Wednesday is “Loser Date Night” and if you had a date last night that is less than date #4, sorry to be the guy that told you, but the relationship is over. If you aren’t aware, Wednesday is the night of no return. You’ve been on this date strictly for two reasons:
1. He/She wanted one more meal with you (paying) because it’s more civilized breaking up in person and less harrowing an experience when there are more people around. You’re less likely to make a scene and Thursday is now open for them to meet a person of more substance, more grounded in reality, someone that knows what a Wednesday dinner date means.
2. You should have seen it coming. What more needs to be said? Tip the waiter well (no point of ruining his night too), go home and start again reading dating advice manuals. You’ll find another suitable partner… just stay away from Wednesday date nights for the next 4 to 8 dates, just to be on the safe side. For additional points, change your cell phone and number a couple of times. She can’t text a break-up/make-up message to put you under her spell again if she’s dialing an old number, am I right?
For your dating profile headline today you should give this one a go:
“Today will only be seen as moving forward. Are you with me?”
Have a great day!
A Seinfeld Break Up
Fear of Moving Forward: Dating Profile Headline of the Day
The ring of fire and fear.
With the exclusion of the narcissist, everyone slides into the arena of fear when the future is at their feet and they are anxious about taking that first step into a new adventure (for lack of a better word).
Moving forward allows you to be the master of your destiny, to be the captain of your ship, to open a new chapter in your life.
The fear you experience is not a new phenomenon exclusively of your own, everyone feels that fear, it is as common as the flu in winter and must be conquered on an individual basis, but moving forward is also called “life” and we must move forward, the feeling of fear must be pushed aside and your life must be allowed to bring you to new territory.
Taking a tentative half-step testing the waters) will not do! You need to accomplish your goal by jumping through the ring of fire and of fear and strive to achieve the goal that is before you.
I know you can do it.
For your personal dating ad headline why don’t you give this one a shot:
“I am living life and am ready to meet you.”
Have a great day!
2010 — Happy New Year!
This New Year of 2010 is now upon us.
I wish you well and can only hope for the best of opportunities in the coming year for you.
Looking back, 2009 was a big bag of disappointment, wasn’t it?
If we took all that we learned from the last year and made a list of what we had planned to do and what we had really accomplished it would just be a mess, wouldn’t it?
Yes, last year sucked.
This year I have some New Year’s Resolutions for you… just a couple simple suggestions that will make 2010 the Best Ever Year you’ll have!
1. Take a night school or online course to better your education and/or job skills, or to increase your social skills involving other people take a conversational language course
2. Save more money. We all know that you should be saving 10% of your paycheck for a rainy day. Make this happen. Put yourself on a budget and increase your wealth while paying off those bills
3. Keep in closer contact with family and friends. Life gets hectic, becomes out of control and before you know it’s summer and you haven’t seen ‘so-and-so’ for months. Call/email them now and make a date to see them within the next two weeks. And do it!
4. Pick a date and pick a time, and give yourself 2 straight hours a week to just hang with yourself. Discover your ‘aura’, find ‘zen’, rediscover the religion of your youth, or just go for a walk in your neighborhood… a poor person is one that cannot afford time to spend alone, free of the pressures of day-to-day living.
Move forward. Assess risk and take the jump. Live life to it’s fullest every day. The only challenge is moving yourself out of your own binds and that will become easier every day in 2010 if you give yourself the chance. Start with our weekly advice newsletter and get a head start on a great new outlook on life!