No More Wednesday Dinner Dates For You: Dating Profile Headline of the Day
Thursday: The unofficial “First Meeting Day/Date” for people that meet online. Really.
We all know that Wednesday is “Loser Date Night” and if you had a date last night that is less than date #4, sorry to be the guy that told you, but the relationship is over. If you aren’t aware, Wednesday is the night of no return. You’ve been on this date strictly for two reasons:
1. He/She wanted one more meal with you (paying) because it’s more civilized breaking up in person and less harrowing an experience when there are more people around. You’re less likely to make a scene and Thursday is now open for them to meet a person of more substance, more grounded in reality, someone that knows what a Wednesday dinner date means.
2. You should have seen it coming. What more needs to be said? Tip the waiter well (no point of ruining his night too), go home and start again reading dating advice manuals. You’ll find another suitable partner… just stay away from Wednesday date nights for the next 4 to 8 dates, just to be on the safe side. For additional points, change your cell phone and number a couple of times. She can’t text a break-up/make-up message to put you under her spell again if she’s dialing an old number, am I right?
For your dating profile headline today you should give this one a go:
“Today will only be seen as moving forward. Are you with me?”
Have a great day!
A Seinfeld Break Up
Fear of Moving Forward: Dating Profile Headline of the Day
The ring of fire and fear.
With the exclusion of the narcissist, everyone slides into the arena of fear when the future is at their feet and they are anxious about taking that first step into a new adventure (for lack of a better word).
Moving forward allows you to be the master of your destiny, to be the captain of your ship, to open a new chapter in your life.
The fear you experience is not a new phenomenon exclusively of your own, everyone feels that fear, it is as common as the flu in winter and must be conquered on an individual basis, but moving forward is also called “life” and we must move forward, the feeling of fear must be pushed aside and your life must be allowed to bring you to new territory.
Taking a tentative half-step testing the waters) will not do! You need to accomplish your goal by jumping through the ring of fire and of fear and strive to achieve the goal that is before you.
I know you can do it.
For your personal dating ad headline why don’t you give this one a shot:
“I am living life and am ready to meet you.”
Have a great day!
Dating Tips
Having a conversation
When you think of time, despite all the fictional “Back to the Future” jazz, you really only limp along one moment to the next hoping that the sky doesn’t fall.
Time is not fluid, it runs in one direction and that is forward. And to keep moving forward, and stop making the dating mistakes that actually does seem to make time stand still, then pay attention, because this is worth remembering. There will be a time when these dating tips are going to be important to know.
Dating Tip #1 - Don’t talk about yourself. The best conversationalist is a great listener. When you are asked a question about yourself try to answer with some detail but not too much. And always end with “Have you ever been in the same situation?” or something like “I’m sure you’ve met many people that share that opinion”. Always try to turn the question around so the other person ends up answering what they just asked you a moment ago. And you can practice this conversation twist almost everywhere. try it for the next few days and you’ll be amazed by how much you learn about other people and their estimation (and possibly attraction) about you will increase dramatically.
Dating Tip #2 - You’re always dating. If we remembered this simple fact we’d be at our best all the time, for every person we encounter. Now, this doesn’t mean sexually flirting with every person but it does mean is that we save our crappy times to the times we are alone. Do you remember the ‘law of causation’? Every event has an affect on everything else in contact with that event. Your smile can change someone’s day every time it’s seen. Always be at your best, you never know when courtesy, politeness and friendliness will make your day a little more positive.
Dating Tip #3 - You have the power to say no. Being aggressively positive does not mean that we have to agree to everything that is asked of us. Knowing when to say no is just as important as knowing when to say yes. Just don’t use your power to say no in a way that could cut you out of some positive experiences. If you need help with this, the toughest advice in this article, you can always contact me.
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Have a great day!
2010 — Happy New Year!
This New Year of 2010 is now upon us.
I wish you well and can only hope for the best of opportunities in the coming year for you.
Looking back, 2009 was a big bag of disappointment, wasn’t it?
If we took all that we learned from the last year and made a list of what we had planned to do and what we had really accomplished it would just be a mess, wouldn’t it?
Yes, last year sucked.
This year I have some New Year’s Resolutions for you… just a couple simple suggestions that will make 2010 the Best Ever Year you’ll have!
1. Take a night school or online course to better your education and/or job skills, or to increase your social skills involving other people take a conversational language course
2. Save more money. We all know that you should be saving 10% of your paycheck for a rainy day. Make this happen. Put yourself on a budget and increase your wealth while paying off those bills
3. Keep in closer contact with family and friends. Life gets hectic, becomes out of control and before you know it’s summer and you haven’t seen ‘so-and-so’ for months. Call/email them now and make a date to see them within the next two weeks. And do it!
4. Pick a date and pick a time, and give yourself 2 straight hours a week to just hang with yourself. Discover your ‘aura’, find ‘zen’, rediscover the religion of your youth, or just go for a walk in your neighborhood… a poor person is one that cannot afford time to spend alone, free of the pressures of day-to-day living.
Move forward. Assess risk and take the jump. Live life to it’s fullest every day. The only challenge is moving yourself out of your own binds and that will become easier every day in 2010 if you give yourself the chance. Start with our weekly advice newsletter and get a head start on a great new outlook on life!
