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30
Mar

It’s Up To Fate: Dating Profile Headline of the Day

Wednesday

Do you believe that the “vibes” someone sends out can be an attractive or negative part of the primal communication we still have from our ancestors (usually called body language)?

Sure you do, it’s a basic instinct that’s very hard to override or ignore.

Online dating doesn’t have that obstacle with our communications, other than “reading between the lines” and deciding that someone is likely lying about themselves in their profile.

How often do you read a profile and automatically decide that person isn’t for you?

I suggest to you that you give these types of people the benefit of the doubt and offer at least a short “Hello” letter to get a better feeling if they are really not for you.

Sometimes it is true that “opposites attract” and if you’re quickly saying no to someone without regard of even a short note, how will you know if you’re right?

Online dating services all use a variety of ways to connect you with the “right match” but it’s true that if the right person is found on one service you’re likley to not find them on a second service that they also belong to. There are different variables at work, just like in real life, and making that connection isn’t always up to you, it’s more up to fate but you can give fate a nudge easily with just one message.

I’m going to boldly say that you are in the right place, it is the right time, so give fate a nudge.

You’re dating headline for today is this (many thanks to Elvis Costello!):
“My aim is true.”

Have a great day!

This video is the song “Alison” by Elvis Costello, live. If you get the opportunity add this song to your collection of love ballads. (You do have such a collection, don’t you?)



23
Apr

Dating Profile Headline of the Day

Don't you want to wear my red shoes?

Friday

Have you even been down on yourself because of how badly your online dating experience is going?

I mean, not getting any replies to emails, being totally stood-up when you’ve arranged that first real-world meeting with someone that you’ve traded plenty of messages with.

There’s also dealing wit the online competition that you ad is up against - have you checked out the competition’s ads and made sure that your headline stands out than all the others?
If “No”, then why not? That is one of the prime ways to making your headline and your profile shine out!

So, for today, your job is to search your dating service for someone like yourself and see where you are in the results and do whatever it takes to move yourself higher on the list.

And you’re going to start this task with posting this new headline, to get the messages pouring into your email account. This is the headline suggestion for you:
“Don’t you want to wear my red shoes?”

Have a great day!