Self-improvement Project: Dating Profile Headline of the Day
Saturday
Making the most of life is what we need to be able to do best.
When we lose the ability to make lemonade out of the lemons life hands us we’re in deep trouble.
When you’re single to have the great opportunity to grow as an individual, because you don’t have to expend energy on keeping a relationship together, so you can work on yourself.
And when you work on yourself this positive attitude becomes infectious and a very attractive quality.
So consider an ebook to get your self-improvement project a valuable kick-start and you’ll be well on the way to the dating life you truly deserve.
For today’s personal ad headline I suggest this:
“An individual is always a work in progress. Ask me how I’m doing.”
Have a great day!
Should You Call Her The Next Day?
Should You Call Her The Next Day?
There are several rules for guys that are used when you meet a great women, have a fun night together, you really like her and then what do you do?
I prefer that you can call the next day, just to say that you had a great time last night, she looked awesome, can I call later this week so we can get together again? This approach generates more successful second dates that the other dating rules you might know.
Another rule is that you wait three days before calling her to set up another date. This delay tactic is supposed to generate a stronger attraction for you but can often backfire in frustration by your possible date because she has wondered too long about why you didn’t call her. A lot of potential negative reasons go through her mind at by the time you do call her she’s so frustarted by your lack of communication that she’s already given up on you, even if she did feel a strong attraction for you.
The last popular “should you call her rule” is to wait for her to call you. This is not good at all. Even if you preclude the possibilities that she lost your number and a hundred other negative concerns, if you leave the phone call up to her you may never know why she didn’t call you. And, of course, she might have been waiting for you to call her.
Another couple of things to remember:
- don’t text message her, she wants to hear your voice to re-experience the strong attraction she has for you;
- emails are equally bad, they don’t communicate the emotion you both may feel which becomes a negative feeling sooner;
- Don’t have along phone call, it’s too interrupting to the attraction she may feel, plus you may say something stupid or talk about things that she’s not interested about, and again you create a positive attraction into a neutral or negative feeling for you.
The first rule is the best, keep the call short, sweet, to the point, have a plan of a possible next date (but don’t mention it, this will be your next call to her in a daye or two) and know that you’ve done your best to make her attracted to you.
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Why Does He Call If He’s Not Interested?
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The simple answer is often the hardest to accept, but here it is:
He’s trying to wear you down, so that you will go out with him, without him directly asking you to go out and risk rejection.
Guys are stone-cold afraid of rejection from women. And if they can “ambush” you into going out with them, without ever having to directly ask you, then as they see it, there is no fear of rejection.
It’s a sad state of affairs when a guy is so scared of you saying no that they’ll never ask the question “Will you go on a date with me?”
But, on the plus side, once you know this fact you then have the “Power of Rejection”.
When you can get a guy that you like to date you, and he’s using this ambush tactic, you can use the power of rejection to keep him under your thumb.
You tell him what you want to do, when and where. If he hedges and starts to say no, then you say to him “That’s OK, I’m sure I can find someone else to go with me.”
Plain and simple, you run the show. He’ll never know when the collar was placed around his neck but you’ll easily have him barking like a dog whenever you call his name!
[This is, in part, interpreted from the ebook "Catch Him & Keep Him" which you can preview here.]
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Inside the Mind Of A Man
If ever there was a tough topic, this is it.
According to my wife (of a wonderful 9 years) I don’t know what I’m thinking most of the time.
But seriously… It’s always good to know the thoughts of the “adversary”, right?
Somebody needs to know how to handle us guys, right?
(probably would have saved my wife a lot of grief!)
Christian Carter has a new DVD set out called “Inside the Mind of a Man” and from the previews I’ve been given, it’s a sure winner.
Girls, have you been perplexed about a guy’s behavior?
Is communication like talking to a brick wall?
Can you really make him want you and only you?
Christian Carter has a winner with “Inside the Mind of a Man” and you should take a peek at the free previews available here.
If you still have questions or comments please post them.
