Should You Call Her The Next Day?
Should You Call Her The Next Day?
There are several rules for guys that are used when you meet a great women, have a fun night together, you really like her and then what do you do?
I prefer that you can call the next day, just to say that you had a great time last night, she looked awesome, can I call later this week so we can get together again? This approach generates more successful second dates that the other dating rules you might know.
Another rule is that you wait three days before calling her to set up another date. This delay tactic is supposed to generate a stronger attraction for you but can often backfire in frustration by your possible date because she has wondered too long about why you didn’t call her. A lot of potential negative reasons go through her mind at by the time you do call her she’s so frustarted by your lack of communication that she’s already given up on you, even if she did feel a strong attraction for you.
The last popular “should you call her rule” is to wait for her to call you. This is not good at all. Even if you preclude the possibilities that she lost your number and a hundred other negative concerns, if you leave the phone call up to her you may never know why she didn’t call you. And, of course, she might have been waiting for you to call her.
Another couple of things to remember:
- don’t text message her, she wants to hear your voice to re-experience the strong attraction she has for you;
- emails are equally bad, they don’t communicate the emotion you both may feel which becomes a negative feeling sooner;
- Don’t have along phone call, it’s too interrupting to the attraction she may feel, plus you may say something stupid or talk about things that she’s not interested about, and again you create a positive attraction into a neutral or negative feeling for you.
The first rule is the best, keep the call short, sweet, to the point, have a plan of a possible next date (but don’t mention it, this will be your next call to her in a daye or two) and know that you’ve done your best to make her attracted to you.
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I Love Her But She’s Dating Someone Else
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‘Nice guys’ ditch wussy image to attract women
Dating and Relationship Advice
Being a challenge to women, and not the wet-blanket type, is also promoted by Michael W. in his ebook “Secrets to Dating Success With Women”.
It’s generally agreed that women like compliments, but the truth is that compliments need to be true and spontaneous, not common and handed out like water to a thirsty man standing beside on overflowing sink.
To be a challenge, and an exciting man to get to know, men have to appreciate that women appreciate them more when they aren’t always arund, when the guy isn’t constantly calling or asking for reassurance about her love and interest in him.
The quickest way out of a woman’s heart is to become her “dog on a leash” without her even asking to take you for a walk!
Guys, change that attitude, and stop making the mistakes that have come between you and a great woman today.
More Reading:
- CNN reports: Men ditch nice guy style
- Why nice guys are often such losers
- 10 mistakes guy’s make with women
New Article: Why Nice Guys Fail With Women
From the ‘Double Your Dating’ series of dating advice articles for men we have this new article titled “Why Nice Guys Fail With Women“.Guys, if you’ve struggled to make sense of all the dating crap that goes on around you, well, maybe you’re part of the problem and not the solution.
New Article Posted: Dating Advice For Men
Making The Most of Your First Moment With a Woman
Guys, in this article you’re going to learn three big things. Things so simple and obvious but until you know you will continue making the same mistakes and missing the same opportunities with women.
Curious? You should be. Read more here.
New “Double Your Dating” article posted
New “Double Your Dating” article - How Attraction Leads to Seduction - posted.
You’ve got her attention and you need to get to the next step. Involvement is the key.
New article: How To Meet A Hottie If You’re Not A Hunk
Just published: How To Meet A Hottie If You’re Not A Hunk
Ask the guys that have a hot girlfriend and they’ll tell you this is true. Treat her like an average woman and you’ll be the superman that has a hottie in his bed.
Read More …
Cocky Response to a “Hello”
Sometimes, when you see someone interesting and you approach them, they get in a huff and reply sharply: “I have a boyfriend (girlfriend)!”
I always hated that and wished I had a good, stinging comeback. Well, it’s several years later but I now have the perfect reply:
“I just wanted to talk, I didn’t want to join your cult!”
LOL
Good one, eh?
Guys! Take This Musical Wussy Test
I’ve been doing some thinking about some of the advice questions I get emailed to me every day… and how many of them can be summed up musically… by George Michaels, no less.
So read all about it here, listen to the song, discover a little more about yourself and about your dating success with women.
Girls can just click here.
