Doomed Online Dating Experience: Dating Profile Headline of the Day
I have another online dating secret to give you and it’s a mistake that many online daters make:
When you join an online dating service it’s free. For many dating services to make contact with other members, or to use other premium features, you will pay a subscription fee.
So many people will choose the shortest subscription period, commonly one month, to try the dating service and “see how it goes”. While this is all and good, putting a time limit on your online dating experience is usually doomed. Too much is expected in too short a time.
How much browsing, messaging, favoriting and reading profiles can you do in 30 days? And how many real connections, never mind RL (Real Life) dates can you expect in your 30 day timeline? Six dates? Three? One?
What type of pressure do you put yourself under for the $30-50 dollars for the month? Can you make your own dealine to find love online?
You’re right, probably not.
If you’ll spend $100.00 on a date, then consider $100.00 on a dating service. It will do your self-esteem some good.
For your dating profile headline consider this offering:
“Please contact me, I think you’re the one.”
Have a great day!
Dating Profile Headline of the Day
There is a certain type of person we all think we are: lovable.
And there is much truth to that, generally speaking we are lovable. And more.
The real problem is not being, and staying, lovable but how we can show this side of ourselves more often to those we care deeply for.
Online dating offers to you the opportunity to not only date but to grow as an individual too. Experience is great only as long as you learn and improve from the experiences you have. And the experiences you share.
My dating headline suggestion for you today is this:
“Seeking love, experience not required.”
Have a great day!
Dating Experience: Dating Profile Headline of the Day
Thursday
Does your experience with dating matter?
I mean, the more dates you go on with different individuals does that make you more experienced with dating, for the better or for the worse?
I can never figure that one out, no matter how many people ask me questions about the subject.
I think that maybe dating experience can help you with learning how not to judge people.
I mean, it’s suggested that people take about 0.8 seconds to instinctively decide what type of person someone is with their “fight or flight” instinct. That’s pretty close to an immediate judgement about how someone thinks you’re a danger or not.
Eventually, if you have dated a lot of different people, you might be able to read their reaction to you and decide on your next moves.
That’s the experience part.
The instinct part keeps you safe but also keeps you wary and when that wariness lowers is when you have decided that, on some level, that the other person is not your enemy, and not a threat, so you loosen up a bit and display more of your real personality. This could happen all during the first date or over the first few dates.
Then the dating part comes in and you have to decide if this person is “The One” or at least the best opportunity for a sincere, long term relationship with someone or else it’s back to the dating pool.
Life is hard but you hold the hammer.
Today’s headline suggestion for your online personal ad is this:
“How many dates does it take?”
Have a great day!
