How being funny helps you to meet women

When I met the woman that would later become my wife, and I asked her what drew her to me, she said it was because of my sense of humor.

Now, I will be brutally honest with you, I use humor as a way of coping with life. If I can’t deal with it, maybe I can at least laugh at it. And if I can make someone else laugh at it too, well, all the merrier then.

I am often way ahead of others with my sarcastic wit and I even think that some people are put off at me because, while I am laughing on the inside I give away no outward signs of humor. No smiles, no chuckles, just a deadpan face.

The woman I attracted, and now my wife for 9 1/2 years finally understands me and adds in “He’s trying to be funny” when someone doesn’t understand what I’ve said, or maybe why I’ve said it.

All that being said, if you can make a person laugh you can make a friend. If you can make a woman laugh then you might be able to get a longer conversation from here and maybe even the opportunity to introduce yourself to her, get her name and number or email.

Even the guys that seem to have automatic success with women aren’t trying to seduce them through plain vanilla friendship and sucking up to them. They are sarcastic, off the cuff funny and aware of their surroundings, so that conversation, even if just light-weight topics, are easy to follow.

I’m not going to teach you to be funny. But you can certainly email me things that happened to you today, yesterday, and even tomorrow that struck you as funny, or you were able to interpret into a funny situation or sight and I can give you my opinion if it indeed was funny.

Because smiles and laughter are the best way to exchange interest and attraction. You can do this.

I’ve added below some great resources to read further into this topic of making women laugh. Enjoy the reading!

- The Power of Humor

- Cocky Comedy Opening Lines

- Cocky and Funny Examples