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2
Sep

Take a Chance: Dating Profile Headline of the Day

Today is the first day of the rest of your life.

But you already knew that.

What you don’t know is that the routine you find yourself in is destroying the chances you have to meet that special someone.

Today (or tomorrow) try a new coffee shop, get off the us one stop earlier and walk the rest of the way to work.

Change things up and experience the usual things that you otherwise quickly pass by without even noticing them.

For your personal ad headline today give this a try:
“Some people are worth taking a chance on.”

Have a great day!

15
May

Dating Profile Headline of the Day

Does change go against the grain?

Your comfort zone is about to be hugely disrupted and you’re not going to mind a bit.

It’s what dating is all about, get used to it.

For your profile headline today try this:
“Change is good. Too much change is a dollar.”

Have a great online experience!

31
May

Change is Good: Dating Profile Headline of the Day

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Most of us fear change. I think it’s reasonable enough.

We get comfortable with what we know, with what we can do, then forces outside of our control demand that we upgrade, step forward into tomorrow… to change.

Just like the Windows 8 debacle. Of course with every introduction of a new Windows operating system people have abhorred the change. Then they get used to the new OS and hate the next.

It takes time and it takes dedication to do the same things in a new way.

Alex Allman likes to say things like that.

Take heart, my friend of anti-change, you are not alone. And I say this as I am packing my things and moving to a new place for yet another new chapter of my life. A time of fearless stepping forward and mixed anxieties of apprehensions.

Tell yourself that change is good. Embrace the new. Live the life ahead of you without looking back.

For your dating profile headline today give this a try:
“Are you ready to live the life that is ahead of you? I am.”

Have a great day!

22
Jan

It’s Just Another Day: Dating Profile Headline of the Day

Today I will predict your future: Robotic movements taking you through an unmemorable day.

It’s days like today that are totally forgettable. Going through the motions and not making any type of positive impact on your life or the lives of those around you.

Is it a winter funk, seasonal depression, or hopelessness brought on by a withering love life and even less motivation to make a change for the better?

I can tell you that by getting some fresh air, and a new perspective on your life, that this will pass.

It takes recognition that this is where you are and a decision to make a positive change in our life to have what you really want: a reason to love.

For your dating profile headline today give this a try:
“I’m waiting for the sunshine of our lives!”

Have a great day!

1
Nov

Personal Ad Headline of the Day: Change Is Imminent

I am passed the crossroads and will be on a plane tomorrow to return to the place I belong.

Change can be good for you after you have stepped back from the trials and tribulations that life can bring you.

I have taken the opportunity to pause the life I had and will once again be stepping into the life I want.

If you find your life tiring give yourself the time to rest and reflect on your current life. Take a vacation. Unplug for a day or two.

We all need to take the time, once in a while, to see where we really should be.

For your personal ad headline today try this:
“Change is imminent.”

Have a great day!

24
Sep

Dating Profile Headline of the Day: The Life You Change

Ok, so it’s Monday.

I’m not going to regale you with any of the usual “First day of the rest of…” crap today. You know where you are and I know where I am… back at the grind.

BUT it is true that you get what you give so if you’re going to be a happy camper today let your face show it.

AND if you’re not, then hide it.

I like to think of showing different parts of your personality to the different people you encounter throughout the day. We all do it.

Smiles for her, beaming lasers at him. We react to the deep satisfactions within ourselves and show these things to the people around us, whether we intend to or not, so try to stay in character today and find the time to share the good inside you.

The life you change might just be your own!

For your personal ad headline today give this a try:
“Today the life you change may be mine!”

Have a great day!


22
Sep

Dating Profile Headline of the Day: Saturday - “Sort it all” Day

The First Day of Autumn

Is this your freedom day?

Done with work for the next couple of days, ready to storm through your summer/fall/winter collection of clothes and make sense of all of your outerwear?

Damn I feel sorry for you. But this is what we do on the first full day of fall (at least Daylight Savings Time doesn’t come until November).

But now that you’ve decided to deal with your “:things” what will you do with your love life?

It’s also time to put the old things away and move on towards a future of new people and new dating adventures.

Start here and use this as your personal ad headline today:
“New attitude for a new season! Share it with me?”

Have a great day!

21
Sep

Are You In Control? Dating Profie Headline of the Day

Cowgirl: She Looks Like She's In Control

It’s important to be more than a passenger in life.

If you’re always beside or behind the driver (not on a bus silly, unless you are the driver) then someone else is arranging for your safe passage and final destination timetable.

Life is about doing things according to you own timetable, am I right?

I want you to consider, starting today, what the first small change you can make towards the final goal of being in charge of your life and not being led by someone else’s decisions.

Your personal life will bloom and your relationships will be better managed when you’re no longer “going for the ride”.

For your dating profile headline try this headline today:
“I know I’m not in charge of the world but my life is under my complete control now.”

Have a great day!

26
Mar

Communication: Dating Profile Headline of the Day

Saturday

How many tries, how many relationships do you need to be in (live through) to find yourself someone that you’d spend the rest of your life with?

There have been numerous studies defining the moments that change lives when someone special enters your life. Your body chemistry changes and your mood becomes elated. The body makes drugs that add to your elation and infatuation.

Your world view narrows to just the two of you, nothing else gets in the way of your happiness.

Then it happens. That first fight, that first slight. Your relationship settles into the “familair zone” and as both of you relax around the other the “honeymoon stage” of the relationship ends and then somoene farts. You realize that this (the other person) now defines the rest of your life.

Do you stay or do you go?

This question has created it’s own massive self-help channel of books, dvds, seminars, plenty of ways to get the relationship help you feel you need. And what does this great offering tend to say? In a word “communicate”.

When you can effectively speak what’s on your mind and have a resolution that requires change only on your own part, of your own efforts, life and relationships will be great.

If you enter into a relationship in the hopes of changing the other person to become that “perfect partner” you’ve already lost. I bet you know what already though.

My dating headline suggestion for you today is this, which I trust you’ll use for it’s effectiveness, not for it’s charm that you don’t believe:
“Let’s communicate. I’m a great listener and past playing games.”

Have a great day!

Additional reading:
- 10 Secrets About Men
- Free Dating Tips For Men

15
Mar

Change: Dating Profile Headline of the Day

Change of life.

Tuesday

Do you remember how big computer monitors used to be? Or is your computer desk bowing over with that 24″ deep monitor still?

What about TV’s? Remember that they used to take up half the living room and that “book cases” that held a TV were way too deep to hold any books unless you hid 2 extra rows of books behind the row you actually saw?

So many things change in such a radical way. Maybe William Shatner has it right and “Star Trek” really did change the world. Someone has to be responsible, right?

My point is that we never know from one moment to the next where we’ll be. We can guess and many of these guesses are from well educated points of view. But sometimes we just don’t know what is next and we take a gamble with each next step into the future.

My idea for today’s headline suggestion for you is this:
“Life is full of change. I have two dimes and a nickle for your quarter!”

Have a great day!

28
Jan

Friday’s Conversation Topics

This week has brought change to our world. Change that has been hidden behind closed doors, spoken in hushed voices and sometimes imprisoned without judge or jury. Or worse. These events may make dating seem to be a small part of life but dating, meeting people and being able to freely associate is a cornerstone of life that not all people share. Sometimes it’s easy to not appreciate, to not take advantage of life and all of it’s possibilities. Let’s move forward this week. Speak and meet people freely. Share.

- Sexting leads to quicker sexing. Or so say the studies at Shape and Men’s Fitness magazines recently released. Really, they had to ask 1,200 people to find this out?

- Single people more likely to dump their date than separate from their pet. A recent study showed that 25% of single people are more likely to choose their pet if it came down to having to choose. This tells us that if you’re dating someone with a pet take some treats with you when visiting or take a chance on not being liked by the puppy and then getting dumped. The study did not show a difference between cat and dog owners. Other pets were not part of the study.

- The “Piano on the sandbar” mystery has been solved… with two contenders for responsibility. But really, I did it… wanna see my boat?

Have a better day!

20
Nov

Change: Dating Profile Headline of the Day

Embracing change

Saturday

Today I’m going to share something a little private: I have, in the past, been accused of not being able to accept change. I have been told that I am stern as well as inflexible, that I am resistant to change and unwilling to bend to the societal influences of the day.

While some people may see me as the above described person let me assure you I am not. As proof I offer the picture on the left. While it may appear to be a simple toilet paper roll, it is not. It is evidence of change. I am, and always have been, an “under roll” person, that is to say, the paper unrolls from the bottom of the roll holder, not an “over roll” person where the paper rolls off from the top of the roll.

A few days ago when I replaced the spent toilet paper roll, in the bathroom that I call my own, I had mistakenly placed the roll in the “over” position. When I noticed the error in that split second I decided to not switch the roll to the proper “under” position and leave it as it was/is. I offer this as proof that I can not only accept change but that I can also resist the overwhelming urge to revert the roll back to what I would normally state as being acceptable and right.

To sum up: “I have embraced change”.



If you’re reading this then it’s likely that you can accept change, after all, many would say that using an online dating service is of itself a sign of change, so good for you.

A type of change that I can offer to you today is a change in your online dating profile headline (of course, any of the headlines I write would also be suitable for a newspaper personal ad too, but that isn’t a sign of change, is it?) to something that asserts your uniqueness that accepts change. So consider using this as your headline today:
“I can change, therefore I am ready for the love you will bring”.

Have a great day!

8
Nov

Change: Dating Profile Headline of the Day

Change rules our lives

Monday

I’ve thought long and hard about what to write today. Maybe another of my witty “I have Mondays” rants. Maybe talk about the benefits of life online and how love changes everything.

Neither of those topics seemed particularly exciting to me today. Maybe it’s the change of the clock and the sun setting so early, maybe it’s how governments control our lives with forcing us to change our clocks at all. Maybe it is just another Monday, no excitement, no challenge ahead.

I don’t know.

Just another Monday, I guess.

I do know that love changes everything. I do know that you can find love online.

I know that our paths may only cross once so I hope this is not the only piece of writing you will judge me by. But at the very least consider today’s dating headline as a possibility to change your life:
“The only way to lose at love is to not gamble anything at all.”

Because anything is possible.

Have a great day!

15
Sep

Dating Profile Headline of the Day

I am THE glory-hound.

Wednesday

Do you remember the time when you knew everything?

How much of your life has changed since then? Pretty much everything would be my guess.

I know mine has…

And there is a truism that we, as normal people, live for change, even if we don’t agree or understand the directions that these changes takes us.

Using an online dating service is inviting change of the most drastic kind. Life changing change, to say the least.

But, when you meet the right person, the person that will change your life forever and for the best, all of the effort will pay off. In a very big way.

I look forward to being able to help you find this change in your life, to help you live out a life that is very different from what you are living now.

If you remember me you’ll thank me. If you don’t remember me, well that’s OK too, because no matter what I will know that I did make a difference and that’s good enough for me. (My glory-hound days are long since over.)

One of the ways I will help you is in writing for you a funny headline that will get your profile some attention and some views. And one view from a person that will change your life forever. So invite this great change and post one of these as your headline today:
“When did life become a yogurt commercial?”
“Avoid the dark side, shine a light on me!”
“Life: infinitely pleasurable, ultimately deadly.”
“Double miles on every date.”

Have a great day!

15
Jul

Dating Profile Headline of the Day

Change for success!

Thursday

We can work together, if we choose, you and me.

You know that you don’t need to make a huge change in what you’re doing… small steps can make their own big changes.

Change is only bad when you change for the sake of change.

Change has to have a goal to be effective, otherwise it’s just wasted energy, effort without accountability.

And I encourage you to make the small changes that make your life more enjoyable, that bring you more successes.

The first small change is to your dating profile headline, because when it’s fresh you’re more likely to be noticed, so post this:
“I may not move mountains but I will move you!”

Have a great day!