No More Wednesday Dinner Dates For You: Dating Profile Headline of the Day
Thursday: The unofficial “First Meeting Day/Date” for people that meet online. Really.
We all know that Wednesday is “Loser Date Night” and if you had a date last night that is less than date #4, sorry to be the guy that told you, but the relationship is over. If you aren’t aware, Wednesday is the night of no return. You’ve been on this date strictly for two reasons:
1. He/She wanted one more meal with you (paying) because it’s more civilized breaking up in person and less harrowing an experience when there are more people around. You’re less likely to make a scene and Thursday is now open for them to meet a person of more substance, more grounded in reality, someone that knows what a Wednesday dinner date means.
2. You should have seen it coming. What more needs to be said? Tip the waiter well (no point of ruining his night too), go home and start again reading dating advice manuals. You’ll find another suitable partner… just stay away from Wednesday date nights for the next 4 to 8 dates, just to be on the safe side. For additional points, change your cell phone and number a couple of times. She can’t text a break-up/make-up message to put you under her spell again if she’s dialing an old number, am I right?
For your dating profile headline today you should give this one a go:
“Today will only be seen as moving forward. Are you with me?”
Have a great day!
A Seinfeld Break Up
Time To Start Dating Again: Dating Profile Headline of the Day
When is the time right to date other people after a relationship breakup?
Why would I write this post when, clearly, you’re dating now and have moved on from your past indulgences (me)? For some people the answer to the above question = a few weeks to a month.
All the more power to you, but are you really setting your previous partner free? Have the feelings you once had entered their own ice age?
To be certain that you’re free and clear of your past relationships, keep away for a couple of weeks, maybe more. Including no emails, texts and phone calls.
After 14 to 28 days you can decide to send an email for them to answer or not, or simply take the next step and ask for a restraining order if you have not been likewise left alone. Did I say keep all copies of they’re emails and texts and voicemail messages?
If you receive texts and emails and voicemails from that person, it shows how much they still need you in their life, even if any type of help will be thrown back into your face. Do yourself a favor and ignore them all.
I’m sure you’ve done all you can. You’ve bit down on the bullets, you’ve drained your bank accounts, and nothing ever was good enough. When the pot of gold empties, some types move on.
But some pass the test. Hey, embrace the challenge and allow for no one else to take the blame for your own current circumstances.
This, basically, is the type of person you want to date.
Your new date should be unencumbered by previous responsibilities and waiting in awe as their new world unfolds before them with you by their side.
Tread carefully and enjoy your new freedoms. My profile headline suggestion for you today to us is:
“I have followed the rainbow and am ready to share the gold I found.”
Have a great day!
