Dating in the News
News stories about dating that you don’t want to miss.
Recently a French judge determined that simply using an online dating service, possibly shopping for an affair, was grounds for divorce even if the people never met in person. I believe the technical term is “emotional affair” and it is just as devastating to the unknowing partner that the one you’re with is seeking to have an affair. Good call judge!
This story, not quite news but certainly relevant for anyone that asks for dating advice from friends, reveals the 10 dating advice statements you may be given which you should ignore. And I agree. There’s a lot of bad advice out there, even if on the surface it seems to make sense. Understanding these things will help you date better and be more successful.
Jessica at TheFrisky writes about her relationship and how a friend went through a rough patch, after the death of her mother, and grieved alone. Life comes at us from all sides and relationships can help you get through them, sometimes. But to have help through sad periods of our life is not a reason to be in a relationship. You will have things to deal with, and yes having support is awesome, but ultimately it’s only you that can work through these things. Maybe you’ll come out stronger on the other side, maybe it will take a long while. But don’t let bad events lead you into bad relationships. The stronger and more prepared you are for a relationship the stronger you will be when you need to deal with life on your own terms.
Why VERY INTELLIGENT Men Fail With Women
The Ten Reasons Why HIGHLY INTELLIGENT Men Fail With Women… AND WHAT TO DO ABOUT IT…
By David DeAngelo
I’ve been teaching men how to become more successful with women and dating for a several years now… and one “problem scenario” just keeps coming up OVER AND OVER… and OVER
and OVER and OVER again…
…and it’s really amazes me.
I’m going to refer to it as “The Genius Failure Paradox”.
“The Genius Failure Paradox” is the tendency for UNUSUALLY intelligent men to have very LOW levels of success with women and dating.
After contemplating this particular paradox, discussing it, and working on it for an awesome amount of time, I’d like to share my thoughts about it with you.
I assume that if you’ve read this far, then you see probably yourself as smarter than the average guy.
You know that you’re a little different than other guys.
You probably realized at a young age that you saw things differently, and thought differently than others in school…
And you’ve probably realized that your smart mind gives you an advantage over others in many areas of life…
Your smart mind gives you a particular type of advantage that can be very, very powerful in life: YOU’RE USUALLY RIGHT.
Smart people get used to being “right”, because they usually ARE right.
And when you’re RIGHT more often than others, you can get ahead in many situations.
But unfortunately, this smart mind of yours can actually be WORSE than USELESS when it comes to a key area of life:
WOMEN AND DATING.
By the way, I did say WORSE than useless.
It can actually be like having a hammer when you need to tighten a bolt. If you use the tool you have for the job, you’ll most likely make the situation WORSE.
Of course, it’s hard for a smart guy to even IMAGINE a situation where his smart mind could HURT his chances for success…
But trust me, this is one of those situations.
So relax, open your smart mind, and let me share with you the ten reasons why smart guys fail with women… and what to do about it.
REASON #1: THEY’RE WRONG, BUT THEY CAN’T OR WON’T SEE IT OR ADMIT IT
I mentioned that smart guys are used to being RIGHT in most situations.
And what do most smart guys do when they come across a situation where they’re WRONG?
They find a new situation… one that fits their strength. They know they’ll be right next time, so they just walk away… knowing that it won’t be long before they’re right again.
(OR they let the “problem situation” destroy them… more on that later.)
Well, the BITCH about being wrong when it comes to women and dating is THERE’S NOWHERE TO RUN AND HIDE.
There’s no quick “I’m right” around the next corner to make you feel better.
It only takes “failing” with a few women in a row for a smart guy to see the pattern… and realize that something isn’t working.
Solution? Think harder.
A smart guy just assumes that his logic must be good… so he just keeps thinking harder.
But when no success comes, it really starts
to become mentally difficult.
Accepting that you’re wrong is a VERY hard thing for a “smart guy”.
Accepting that you’re not only wrong, but you have NO CLUE WHERE TO EVEN START is even more difficult.
Ultimately, many smart guys come up with the following logical conclusion:
I AM A SMART GUY, THEREFORE IF I CAN’T FIGURE OUT HOW TO BE SUCCESSFUL WITH WOMEN AND DATING, THEN THE PROBLEM MUST NOT BE SOLVABLE OR WORTH SOLVING.
Try that on for a self-defeating idea.
REASON #2: THEY’RE BLIND AND ARROGANT
In short, many smart guys refuse to accept that a good, solid, workable answer could come from someone “dumber” than them, so they discount any idea that comes from an “obviously less intelligent person” before trying it.
Let me ask you a question:
If you were going to be walking across Africa on foot, would you rather have your guide be the guy on this planet with the highest I.Q., or a caveman who lived a million years ago that had an I.Q. of about 50… but who grew up being chased by lions and all kinds of animals that wanted to eat him all his life?
It’s an interesting question.
Now, hopefully you’d like to have the guide who isn’t the smartest guy around… but who has escaped from many, many dangerous situations with deadly animals…
But now let me ask you:
If you’d like to learn how to be more successful with women and dating, would you take advice from a guy who isn’t very intelligent, but who knows how to attract women?
There’s something about being smart that makes some guys unwilling to accept input, ideas, or instruction from anyone who isn’t either as smart or smarter than them.
Well, any SMART GUY can see the folly in this particular approach… once it’s examined closely.
If you’ve been making this mistake, then you need to STOP IT. Stop being an arrogant bastard, and open your eyes.
Look around.
Learn from some “dumb” guys… and let them teach you how to get what you REALLY want.
REASON #3: POOR SOCIAL SKILLS
It BLOWS MY MIND how many smart guys I meet that just don’t GET IT when it comes to basic social skills.
It’s as if they have logically reasoned that social skills are for lower beings who need to play games… and not worth the time it would take to learn them.
In fact, I believe that there are a lot of smart guys running around this planet who don’t even have “social skills” and “be a cool guy that people like” in their “MENTAL MODEL” of what it could possibly take to be successful with women and dating.
Social skills are just that… SKILLS.
They’re not social INFORMATION.
They’re not social THEORIES.
They’re social SKILLS.
And you don’t get them by THINKING about them. You get them by GETTING them.
Excellent social skills are the foundation for good communication with other humans… and if you don’t have good social skills, you dramatically lower your chances for success with women.
REASON #4: THEY PSYCH THEMSELVES OUT
Smart guys do something that fascinates the hell out of me…
They come up with all the reasons why everything WON’T WORK when it comes to women and dating.
They actually figure out why what they would like to do will probably fail…
They use their amazing creative imaginations to imagine all kinds of horrible pictures and scenes… and then they use those imaginary outcomes to create negative emotions… which ultimately stop them from having success with women and dating.
THEY DON’T EVEN TRY.
Now, if you’ve thought something through and come up with a good reason why it would fail, it makes sense to not do it, right?
I mean, why would you want to do things that are going to fail?
It’s sound logic, but HORRIBLE thinking when it comes to the REAL WORLD… and success with women.
Because smart guys don’t UNDERSTAND women, and they don’t UNDERSTAND what it takes to be successful with women, they are working with bad figures. They’re wrong before they even start figuring!
Using your mind to come up with all the reasons why things won’t work in this area of your life leads to ULTIMATE FAILURE.
You must learn to overcome this habit if you have it.
REASON #5: THEY SEEK ONLY “INFORMATIONAL SOLUTIONS”
What does a smart guy do when he runs into a problem… or he needs to figure something out?
He looks for INFORMATION to help him solve the problem.
MORE INFORMATION is always the answer.
Information is the friend of a smart guy.
Got a strange virus on your computer? Just hop on the internet and search for how to eliminate it.
Don’t know how to change the alternator on your car? No prob. Just buy the manual and turn to page 147.
Don’t know the definition of a word? Open up your dictionary.
MORE INFORMATION solves the problem.
So what do smart guys do when it comes to overcoming a problem with women?
They want MORE INFORMATION.
They think the answer lies in learning just ONE MORE TECHNIQUE… or one more magic concept.
Well what if there were a situation in life where the “get more information” strategy actually made things WORSE?
How would you even know that it was making things worse?
Now, I don’t want to suggest that learning more about how to be successful with women is a bad thing. It’s not.
But if you have a problem that is EMOTIONAL or PHYSICAL in nature, then reading five million theories on it probably isn’t going to help you very much.
You need to get out in the real world and try some stuff!
You need to look at the REAL problem… the ROOT of the problem.
When it comes to women and dating, there’s a very good chance that you have MORE than enough “information”.
Smart guys often use “more information” to distract them from TAKING ACTION.
I’ve heard this referred to as “Creative Avoidance”.
Nod silently if you’ve ever figured out a creative way to avoid facing something in your life.
Good, thank you.
REASON #6: THEY FOCUS ON LOGIC INSTEAD OF EMOTION
NEWS JUST IN: Women don’t feel ATTRACTION for men who make them THINK.
Women feel ATTRACTION for men who make them FEEL.
So what do most smart guys do when they first meet a woman?
EXACTLY!
They get into a LOGICAL CONVERSATION.
I’m shaking my head right now…
Smart men try to engage women in LOGICAL conversations and interactions because that’s where THEY feel comfortable… not knowing that they’re SHOOTING THEMSELVES IN THE FOOT by doing it!
Get this: A monkey sitting at a typewriter will type the collected works of Shakespeare before you will make a woman feel ATTRACTION for you by engaging her in logical conversation.
When you start a logical conversation with a woman you’ve just met, you are basically taking out a NEON SIGN that says “I don’t get it when it comes to women” and putting it on your head.
Typical “logical” conversations include talking about work, family, school, and jobs… discussing politics, religion, weather… and anything that has to do with math, science, or INTELLIGENCE.
On the other hand, if you start talking to a woman and you say “OK, so tell me something… Why is it that all women say that they want sweet, nice guys… but they all date sexy, selfish bad boys?” (and then make fun of any answer she gives) you’re having an EMOTIONAL conversation.
If you don’t know what I’m talking about, keep reading. You need more help than I thought.
REASON #7: THEY’RE NOT USED TO THE CHALLENGE OF THE MOMENT
Smart people usually have time to THINK about things.
If you’re taking a test, you can sit there and work out the answers.
If you have a math problem, you can work on it until you’ve figured it out.
If you’re trying to fix something, you can keep working on it until it’s fixed.
Smart guys are used to being able to take at least a LITTLE bit of time to prepare and show off their “good sides” in most situations.
Not so with women…
If you don’t know what to do at every step along the way, you’ll be shut down very quickly.
Women have an AMAZING “He doesn’t get it” radar system.
Women have all kinds of subtle and ingenious tests that they throw at men to separate the “get its” from the “don’t get its”.
And if you don’t get it, then you’re going to fail one of these tests VERY quickly.
But the worst part is that you won’t ever KNOW that you were being tested… OR that you failed.
Smart guys aren’t used to dealing with complex EMOTIONAL and COMMUNICATION challenges in the moment… and especially the “women and dating” kind.
One of they keys to becoming more successful with women and dating is learning to handle all of the tests that women throw at you effortlessly.
But before you can learn how to deal with the tests, you must first learn how to communicate on an emotional level, how to demonstrate that you have fundamental social skills, and how to keep your cool in the moment.
REASON #8: THEY THINK THAT DOING “NICE” THINGS IS THE “SMART WAY”
OK, let me ask you a trick question:
If I told you that you were going to have a date with the supermodel of your choice, which of the following would you choose as a “smart” way of preparing:
1) Find out what her favorite type of flowers are, and show up with a dozen of them so she would be “wowed”.
2) Learn about her favorite travel destination so you could discuss it with her.
3) Find out what her favorite type of food is so you could take her to dinner… and she could see that you cared enough to choose something that she enjoyed.
OK, time’s up. Which did you choose?
Now, I already mentioned that this was a TRICK question.
The answer is NONE OF THE ABOVE.
But WHY?
These three options all seemed logical, right?
I mean, why WOULDN’T you want to show up with her favorite flowers?
Why WOULDN’T you want to talk about her favorite places to travel?
Why WOULDN’T you want to take her to eat her favorite foods so she enjoyed herself?
Go with me here…
Smart guys think that they’re being CLEVER when they do things like buying a woman her favorite flowers… and bringing them to the FIRST DATE.
Right?
In their minds, they’re thinking “I’m going to be the guy who is thinking ahead… and I’m going to show up with the flowers that I KNOW she loves… and she’s going to see them and like me more because of it”.
Makes sense… good math, right?
Well the one teensy-weensy mistake that these “smart” guys make is not realizing that it doesn’t actually take a smart person to think like this!
In fact, ANY jackass can figure out how to kiss a woman’s ass.
And guess what?
WOMEN KNOW THIS!
And guess what else?
EVERY WUSSBAG DOES THIS STUFF.
An intelligent guy, in his proud arrogance, will think he’s being such the charmer by using this “thoughtful” approach…
…and the woman he is chasing will interpret it as just another Wussy who’s trying to MANIPULATE her.
Ouch. Another blow to intelligence.
MISTAKE #9: ALWAYS NEEDING TO BE THE EXPERT
Have you ever met a smart guy who always needed to be “right”?
Have you ever met someone who would actually argue with you about something they knew nothing about… and make a fool of themselves because they just couldn’t shut their “smart mouths”?
Over the last few years helping guys improve their success with women, I see this one pattern over and over again…
Smart guys don’t like to be “beginners” at ANYTHING.
They don’t like the idea of screwing up… especially if others are watching.
They want to maintain this “smart guy” image of themselves… so they try to always be “The Expert” at whatever they do.
Instead of saying “Hey, you know what? I’m a beginner at this… how do I do it? What should I do first? What next?”… and instead of being totally OK with screwing up, making mistakes, and making a fool of themselves in front of others in order to LEARN…
…they won’t risk embarrassment, failure, or others thinking that they’re beginners… so they wind up ultimately FAILING.
MORE NEWS JUST IN: It’s OK to be a beginner.
MISTAKE #10: THEY CAN’T DEAL WITH FEAR AND OTHER EMOTIONS
A smart guy’s STRENGTH is his MIND.
His WEAKNESS is often his EMOTIONS.
Smart guys are often IMMOBILIZED by FEAR.
Totally stopped.
FROZEN.
And since many smart guys aren’t comfortable dealing with things they’re not good at, they just repress or RUN away from fear.
Many men would rather DIE in lonely isolation than admit that they don’t know how to deal with their emotions… or, GODFORBID, ask for help!
Hey, I went for YEARS like this.
I know what it’s like.
But the reality is that any guy can learn to handle and even MASTER his emotions (even fear)… if he just takes the time and effort to learn HOW to do it.
If this is you, then do yourself a big favor… take the time. Take the effort.
Don’t worry about what anyone else thinks of you… it doesn’t matter.
What matters is you doing the things that YOU need to do FOR YOU.
…I think the reason why I’m so fascinated with “The Genius Failure Paradox” is because I have had to struggle with all of these issues for a lot of years of my life.
Now, I’m not saying that I’m the smartest guy on the planet…
But I don’t think mamma raised no fool.
And it always bothered the hell out of me that even though I was so good at figuring things out, I couldn’t figure WOMEN out.
Something tells me that you know what I’m talking about.
Well, after beating my head against the wall for a few years… trying all kinds of crazy “logical” stuff… I finally got the “bright” idea to start studying guys who were “naturally” good with women.
Of course, I found out that you could be both NOT SMART, and VERY SUCCESSFUL WITH WOMEN at the same time.
I also learned that you can be SMART and VERY SUCCESSFUL WITH WOMEN too.
By carefully studying what the “naturals” did with women… and learning how they “thought” about the topic, I began to realize that success with women wasn’t entirely LOGICAL.
Much of what I learned was very tough for me to accept… because my logical brain just didn’t want to buy into it.
One thing I saw was guys pushing women away from them… and having the women then chase them in response.
Made no sense at all.
I saw guys tease beautiful women and make jokes about them to their faces… and then watched those women become “little girls” in response… unable to maintain their composure, and therefore unable to maintain their manipulative power…
It took me quite a long time, but I continued to learn, test, and refine what I was learning until I personally figured out how to approach women in any situation… get any woman’s number I wanted anytime I wanted… date any type of woman I wanted…
…and most importantly, GET RID of that “empty” feeling that I carried around my whole life because I didn’t know how to attract women.
And once I got this area of my own life together, I decided to help other guys get this area of THEIR lives together.
The ultimate result of all this time, effort, and energy is my free Dating Tips Newsletter.
And I’d like to invite you to sign up.
It’s free, there’s no obligation, I’ll never share your email address with anyone, and you can easily remove yourself anytime with no hassles (and no, I’ll never pull any of these tricks where I send you a bunch of unwanted junk email when you try to remove yourself).
Of course, it even gets better than that…
In addition to my free Dating Tips newsletter, I also have a killer downloadable eBook that you can download right now and be reading in literally MINUTES from right now.
It’s JAM PACKED with dozens and dozens of specific strategies for overcoming fear, approaching women, getting phone numbers and email address from women quickly, great inexpensive or even free date ideas, and how to take things to a “physical” level smoothly and easily.
To sign up for my free newsletter AND download your copy of my online eBook, just go here.
And I’ll talk to you again soon.
Your Friend,
David DeAngelo
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Sylvie Deluxe: Hump Day’s Motivational Picture
Meet Akoute (Sylvie Deluxe) photographed by Luca Helios courtesy of Met Art.
You CAN make it through this day!
Sex In The Kitchen: Tips for Men
Alex Allman touches with curiosity this great motivational sexual encounter idea. Spice up your sex life and watch what to do to get started!
Don’t miss out on more of what Alex can tell you, visit his website here!
Finding Her G-Spot: Being A Great Lover
My friend Alex Allman shares a great video for those of us curious enough to want to know more about being a great lover. These techniques, and a lot more, are available at www.revolutionarysex.com.
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The Alphabet of Foreplay
Gabrielle Moore writes:
If you don’t know the ABC’s of truly great sex, this article will come in handy.
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Having sex is one thing, great sex requires a skillset that is part intuition and part instructional.
To WOW your lover with techniques that will keep both of you happy in bed, read Gabrielle’s article here.
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Dating in the News
The best way to learn about dating is experience, jump in and get your toes wet while having fun with someone that could become “The One”. Experience comes in many ways but doing is the best. And you need preparation too, reading is a great way to prepare yourself for what comes next. Enjoy!
Dating in the Office: Ten Do’s and Don’ts. ABC News (blog)
From flirtations in the copy room to after-work drinks that lead to a walk down the aisle, office romances can be an exciting, if risky, proposition. Some bosses say they’re not worth pursuing at all. “It’s always better, if you can fall in love with …
This is your brain on speed dating: Study reveals which parts decide. Daily Mail
They were then introduced to each other in the speed dating scenario which, like any typical such event, involved them rotating around the room and chatting with one and other for five minutes. After the event volunteers filled out forms to say which …
Dating: Women Prefer Looks Over Personality. FemaleFirst.co.uk
When it comes to dating, women are now being rather blunt about the fact that they want a good looking man on their arm. Women are even willing to shun a man with a steady income or a bubbly personality and a good sense of humour for a man with good …
Men’s Stamina Questions Answered
Shawna (of 2 Girls Teach Sex) has recently sent out a newsletter detailing the most common questions men have about lasting longer in bed.I’m going to share the questions with you, but since the answers can be somewhat explicit, you’re going to have to go here for the answers.
>>QUESTION: I Have Trouble Lasting Even 5 Minutes Now… Will This Help Me Cure My P.E.?
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Online Dating in the News: Joys and Failures
Online dating offers it’s own set of special circumstances, many that are not apparent to first timers. To brace yourself for unexpected experiences we offer this semi-regular post of news items specific to online dating and it’s joys and failures.
10 Biggest Lies On Online Dating Profiles. WhatCulture!
Up until this point, I’ve only had two lasting relationships, one of which I have a dating website to thank for. It regretfully ended, but I got a best friend out of it, as cheesy as that may sound. Simply put, there are worse ways to get out into the …
Tandem, The Online Dating Site That Helps Wingmen Pair Their Single Friends. Huffington Post
If your best friend is single, doesn’t want to be but refuses to date online (despite constant badgering), thanks to Tandem, you can finally do it for her. Tandem, which launches on Wednesday, is bringing the concept of the “wingman” and “wingwoman” to …
Protecting Yourself in the Online Dating World. PsychCentral.com (blog)
Last week in this space I wrote about ways you can successfully date and even meet that special someone via online dating, provided you understand from the start that successful Internet dating can often be more like a part-time job than a recreational …
Shooting Suspect Accused of Creating Fake Online Dating Profile for Sheriff. WSAV-TV
A tow truck driver accused of shooting and killed another man is back in the spotlight after he allegedly created a fake online dating profile for Beaufort County Sheriff P.J. Tanner. Preston Oates is accused of shooting Carlos Olivera after a parking …
Knox Lovemaker: On-campus online dating gets personal. The Knox Student (blog)
For some Knoxians, the dropping temperatures and brisk autumn breezes of fall term come with a sense of longing — one that simply cannot be satisfied with late-night Broadview hash browns or a rousing Senior Meeting. The young woman in the Ford …
Do online marriages increase the chance of divorce? bdaily
Although times are certainly changing, the world of online dating has yet to leave its history of suspicion and stigma behind. Where once the world of online dating was seen as a last resort for those who had little hope left to find a relationship, we …
Dating in the News
New study reveals blondes are more likely to cheat. Examiner.com
The Dating Examiner says that anyone under 30 isn’t going to have a clue what “Veronica vs. Betty to Ginger vs. Mary Anne” is. And since the Dating Examiner is a natural brunette, whose bestie is blonde, I wasn’t about to pass up on this “study.” Have …
Jessie J Doesn’t Like Dating Men Because Of Stubble Rash. PopDash
Singer Jessie J has admitted that the downside to dating men is getting a sore chin after making out. “I get really bad stubble rash so any guys that I’m seeing or whatever have to condition their beards so it’s soft”, she told Radio 1. The 24-year …
A Cat Person’s Guide To Dating | Thought Catalog By Brian Donovan
It’s a difficult predicament, walking into a party where you know no one. We all handle it differently. Some of us pretend to read the longest and most fascinating text message in the history of phones. Others power-drink Jack and Cokes until the …
Dating Tips For Men are a Lot Like Dating Tips Women Use, Expert Says. Equities.com
“The most solid dating tips for men are essentially the exact same advice someone would give a woman,” says Carlos Xuma. “Of course, there are some subtle differences that come into play when you look at primal, biological responses to certain …”
Man fakes plane crash to make surprise proposal. YouTube
She thought we were dying and ended up with a ring! Video.
Dating in the News
A new website launches…
Single Women Dating Announces Website Launch to Help Single Women. By Single Women Dating
New York City, New York - The phenomenon of online dating has come to be an integrating part of the American culture, much like the internet itself.
Watch your back online, scams do happen!
Glamour Magazine Covers Military Dating Scams | A Soldier’s Perspective. By CJ
It is estimated that one in ten guys dating online is a fake and a fraud. Personally, I think that number is too low based on my experiences investigating these. Most sites don’t seem to be doing enough to catch frauds, but they appear to be …
Vin DiCarlo is one of my favorite writers…
Dating Mistakes to Avoid at all Cost. By Vin DiCarlo
Men seem to know what turns a woman on, but it’s what turns them off that can ruin a date in a heartbeat. Included are the top 10 turn offs that can turn any date into disaster.
Dating in the News
There are dating rules then there are Dating Rules…
Daddy’s Dating Rules. | The 36th AVENUE By Desiree
Years ago when I was pregnant with my first child a co-worker gave me a set of dating rules. Looking perhaps to the surprise on my face as I read the title he added: “The day will come when you’ll want this list, your daughter will need it, and …
You have to be careful and sensible to not get caught in an online dating scam… and yet…
Los Gatos Woman Loses $200K in Internet Dating Scam. Patch.com
An Internet dating relationship ensued, according to Los Gatos-Monte Sereno police and during the next few months they had online and telephone conversations, but never met in person. In June, however, the man asked the woman, who wishes to remain …
You’re never too nervous to start dating again…
Andie MacDowell: ‘Dating at 54 is daunting’. Hollywood.com
The Four Weddings and a Funeral star, 54, admits she hasn’t been out with many men since divorcing her second husband, businessman Rhett Hartzog, in 2004, and the thought of stepping back into the dating circuit is a daunting one. She tells America’s …
It’s the latest dating adjective… yea…
Move over cougars - nougars are in town!. NEWS.com.au
Typically in her early to mid-30s - so about ten years younger than your average cougar - the nougar (which stands for new cougar, also known as cougarettes or pumas), refuses to grow up, take dating too seriously and thinks that because she’s still …
Never lose sight that you can find love online!
Online dating ‘does help people find love’. forcespenpals.co.uk
Writing in the Worthing Herald, Ms Bravo observed she finds it incredible “that there is still a stigma surrounding online dating”. The main reason to get involved with this type of courtship is because it “makes such good sense”, she added. Too many …
