How To Get A Woman Back
Give her flowers
Some will say that it’s easy to get a woman back. Others will tell you to just let it go. Of course, it all depends on the situation and both of your personalities but in general, with a bit of instruction and dedication, you can have your woman back in your arms again.
There are many reasons why a woman leaves a man but most of the time, it boils down to two main causes. Either the woman doesn’t feel appreciated anymore or she is bored. If you’ve cheated on the woman you want back, of course she doesn’t feel appreciated and you have broken (maybe permanently) the trust she once granted you.
Women can get bored when there is too much predictability in the relationship. This doesn’t mean that you have to constantly be going on trips or surprising her with flowers or gifts. It just means that you yourself don’t have to do exactly what you’ve always done. Sometimes when men are aiming to please, they go too far by buying expensive gifts, calling too much or saying the phrase “I love you” constantly. This can actually backfire and scare women off.
Or, it could be the opposite. Maybe you’ve barely shown any affection at all for the woman in your life and she’s had enough. Maybe you’ve started breaking your promises. Even simple little promises that are broken can start the decay in a relationship. For example, maybe you didn’t call when you said you would. Maybe you called off some date that you had with your ex at the very last minute and didn’t give a reason. A Woman will not let this type of behavior go on too long - she will leave you. And chances are, she’s spoken to you about it already and you just brushed it off.
Before you decide how to get a woman back, you need to take a look at yourself. What are the mistakes that you made? Do you still have feelings left for your woman or do you just want to get back into your old routine?
When a relationship has been broken, you need to take some time to step away from it and look at everything objectively. It might not be what you feel like doing, but it is what you really need to do if you plan on winning her back. Precisely because relationships vary significantly from one to the next, men should take some time to analyze the situation (as most women do).
While doing this, make sure you are taking care of yourself as well. After a while, you will come to some clarification and you will be able to see whether you really want to try “how to get a woman back.”
This topic and more is discussed in the Magic of Making Up ebook. Learn the right and wrong things to do to get your ex back here
3 things you need to know about Match.com
Online dating is hard enough, with all the personal details revealed to perfect, or rather imperfect, strangers.
When you’re searching for that perfect mate remember to stretch your 100% perfect match compatibility into the low 80′s so that you’re more open to meeting people and beginning new relationships.
Even diamonds start “in the rough”.
View Photos of Singles Near You
1) Login often, once a day at least. Active members, even free members, show up higher in the members search results.
2) Have several photos uploaded to your profile and make sure that your primary photo is only you, and no one else, in it. Profiles that have photos are searched through much more often.
3) It’s free to send winks to other members, so send them and hope that your profile is interesting enough that those you wink at will show mutual interest. At Match.com you can wink at 50 members every 24 hour period and only at the same member once every 30 minutes. But you wouldn’t ‘cyber-stalk’ someone using winks, would you?
Now you’re ready to join Match.com - see you there!
MeetMoi Text Based Dating
MeetMoi.com
Need company fast? This is one avenue to check out.
These are the three things you need to know about MeetMoi.com a new text based dating service:
1- This is location based, so when you’re using your phone people know, relatively, how close you are.
2- It’s free to join but premium membership is about ten dollars a month, and your phone carrier charges may still apply, on top of the monthly membership fees, for each message you send/receive depending on your plan.
3- This is for USA members right now, but International members (outside of the USA) can still be members but messages will only be sent via email, for now.
How to have a coffee date
Rules for your first coffee date
When you make the first date, it’s obvious that no matter how much you have talked with the person through email, instant messenger, skype, phone, you really don’t know much about how they are “in person”.
And I’ve heard all the “I met my soulmate” stories and a lot of them fall apart after the first meeting, leading to very hurtful and awkward feelings later.
My rule is that you don’t really know the person until you’re close enough to smell them.
So your first meeting should be an afternoon date, set to last no longer than 30 minutes.
The date should be in a public place, a coffee shop, donut shop, places that do not serve alcohol and that are not in any hotel restaurant or bar that you or the person you’re meeting is staying in. You don’t want to feel pressured into anything or drinking alcohol that will affect your decision making.
You should have a friend at the ready to either ‘shadow you’ or call you at the thirty minute mark to help you end the date.
You can always extend the date but you should not feel pressure to do that and you should feel safe enough to walk away from the date at any time.
Most people decide within the first minute or two whether what they thought of the person is the same of what they think of them when they meet face-to-face.
Remember to have fun and to decide on the second date, should you have one, the things you really want to do with the person.
How to reply to an online personal ad
It’s a truism that your first impression is the most important one. This truth is the same for face-to-face meetings and your first email to a posted personal ad.
If you don’t capture the reader’s interest you just might not get a reply, no matter how much interest you have for the other person. (BTW, it’s quite rude to email someone more than twice before they reply to you, if they do at all. Keep your emails at least 3 days apart too.) Here are three things you need to know about replying to someone’s online profile.
1. What you should say is “Hi. I read your profile and I hope you’ll check mine out too”
2. You could say something funny like “I’m going to fire my psychic if you don’t email me back” and add a smiley wink 
3. Share a hobby you have and explain in less than twenty words why you like that particular hobby. For instance, I collect stamps so I would say “My hobby of stamp collecting keeps me busy counting pennies nickels and dimes and is rarely finger licking good”.
Bonuses:
- if your dating service has voice messaging, leave a message that is specifically for that person and keep it up for a day or less (don’t keep it up longer, voice messages usually are not private)
- tell a joke, a clean joke, “knock knock” jokes are great to encourage several messages back and forth, just start off with “Knock Knock…”
- be a critic and discuss why you like/didn’t like a movie you recently saw, a book you read, a game you played, that coincides with what the person has in their profile
Things not to do:
- don’t ‘photoshop’ your images together to make it look like you’re a couple already
- tell the person that “I prefer the right side of the bed”
- send graphic pictures of yourself, even if you’re a member of an adult dating service, keep your pictures to the point of what you would want any stranger to see (within semi-nude limits) and recognize you on the street from
Mate1.com - Three things you need to know
Three things you need to know about the dating service Mate1.com
1. When you first arrive you will start on a page that uses sophisticated geo-targeting so you can begin your tour with a search of local profiles. Along with the search results, and you should get several hundred profiles of local singles in your area at the minimum (if you don’t then comment on this post and let’s take a closer look). You do have to become at least a free member at this point. Bet you didn’t know that!
2. I highly suggest the 72 hour $1.95 membership. This will give you 72 hours to start messaging dozens of interesting members before you decide to become a monthly premium member.
3. Besides having more than 18 million members (this total includes all members that have logged into their accounts at least once in 60 days) the biggest feature Mate1.com is their instant chat. But, you have to be a premium member to chat, so you can still send free flirts to women or men members you like.
Why would I suggest Mate1.com as a great dating service for you to join?
Simple: With 18 million members many will be local to you and meeting interesting members is almost guaranteed, it’s worth the $49.95 a month to send messages to the friendly members that you find interesting as well as spending some time in some one-on-one chats with online members. Get dates here, because this is where men and women find themselves online meeting and moving quickly to real world dates!
Three things you need to know about 2010
Three things you need to know about 2010, that likely only I will bring to your attention.
1. The Winter Olympics will be hosted in Vancouver, Canada, this year, starting February 13. Unfortunately, I have to be in Vancouver on February 8. I am very hopeful (foolishly so, possibly) that traffic will be light and I will get in and out of the city with customary ease.
2. Climate change and global warming will lose focus as the weather begins to return to 1950 norms.
3. 2010 is not the beginning of a new decade, as has often quoted in recent news. Since there was no Year 0 (zero) 2010 is the tenth year and 2011 will strat the next decade. The people that get this wrong also beleived that 1999 ended the last century, which is wrong. Again, since there was no Year 0 (zero) 2001 actually started this new millenium.
I hope I have cleared up some 2010 trivia for you.
