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4
Dec

Online Dating Adventure: Dating Profile Headline of the Day

Beginning your online dating adventure

Beginning your online dating adventure

Saturday

Making the most of your online dating adventure is as simple as a few strategic clicks and an updated profile.

The first thing you need to do is start with a membership where the most people are. If you’re shooting fish, the bigger the barrel, the more plentiful the fish and the more opportunities to hit something! Our Top Ten list of recommended dating services should be your first click.

Profile questionaires range from the very basic to the very involved. You should allow yourtself plenty of time to complete the task before you, and remember: be as honest as you can and only answer the questions that you’d feel perfectly comfortable with a stranger knowing the answers.

You have a digital camera, or a webcam. Who doesn’t these days, right? Us eit to take a nice “head and shoulders” picture of yourself to upload to your profile. It’s very easy to do this, all dating services have easy to follow instructions for this step. If there is an extra section for a photo album it’s a good idea to upload a few pictures but unless you have the permission of others in the photo keep the images limited to ones of only yourself.

The “Search” and “Browse” features to find other members is one of the most used and least understood features of any dating service. You want to, at first, browse for people like yourself and read through a few profiles. It’s good to know the “competition” as well as see how others that have similarities to you write their own profiles.

Finally, have fun!

To get you started, here’s my suggestion for your first headline to post with your profile:
“I’m new here, any tips to get a date?”

Have a great day!
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5
Nov

Happiness: Dating Profile Headline of the Day

Happiness is infectious

Happiness is infectious

Friday

Normally I’d TGIF all over this post, you know that if you’ve been here on any previous Friday.

But today I am back at work after the past 4 days of being sick. You’d think that any sickness that kept you off work Monday to Thursday would be nice enough to hang around for a few extra hours and maintain the status quo of one more day off… but no, I’m not that lucky.

I did have some fun, maybe a little too much, at a website called IAmHappyForYou.com, the rudest magic 8 ball game ever online, maybe. If you ask I’d have to say I was there just to see the answers.

Otherwise I am happy and well, thank you. I hope you are too.

This weekend brings us within 7 weeks or so of Christmas. This means your plans have to start being made and any travel arrangements researched so you get the best price. if you’re shopping early for gifts I’d like a new Dodge 1500 truck, but I’m not really hoping too much. Maybe just a new frying pan will suffice.

I’d like to think that the coming season brings us happiness and wealth but the reality is that unless you work hard for happiness and wealth they just won’t happen.

Happiness is not only a state of mind it’s also a matter of health. And of your personal outlook on life. When you look towards nirvana you have hope for a better life and you reach towards it not only as a goal but as a roadmap for your life.

And wealth? You can buy all the lottery tickets you want, and leave wealth to chance, or you can build your own stack of one dollar bills one week or month at a time, and celebrate having some money when you really do have some money.

What does all of this have to do with dating? Everything. When you are happy you will infect others with happiness. When you have a few extra dollars your stress levels will decline and you’ll have even more happiness.

When you take that step to join an online dating service you are showing that you are ready for happiness and that you have wealth, even if it’s the wealth of spirit.

With your online dating profile you’ll want to catch that special someone’s eye with a happy headline too. Sharing is caring and caring is knowing that your future is bright. Let your personal ad headline shine brightly too, with this headline suggestion:

“This is how we’ll tell friends everything got started.”

Have a great day!

12
May

Dating Tips for Nikki Cox

Nikki Cox

If you’re Nikki Cox, (best known for her TV roles on Unhappily Ever After and Las Vegas) then I have some great dating tips for you.

It’s not enough that people think you should be “Daphne” on the next Scooby-Doo movie, or that your plastic surgery did you bad, as in puffy cheeks and lips.

I think you look just fine, sweetheart.

But all this pressure certainly make sit hard to keep your dating calendar open to offers, you’re so busy fending off the sharks, so to speak.

So Nikki, I want to help, here’s some dating tips for you:
- Born June 2, 1978, this Gemini should work harder at her alter egos. Nikki, put on a happy face and when you start looking again at possible date choices, choose them from within your industry but not anyone that is in front of the screen, the competition to show each other up will be too great. (Despite current status, next.)

- Don’t let your hubby, Jay Mohr, know what you’re up to, he might not be as open-minded as most. Have a second email account to hide your messages from his view. And, well, you’re a start that travels, so you’ve got some excellent cover stories.

- Don’t include a picture of you and your baby on your profile page, turns guys off real fast, even if you are a hottie.

Well, Nikki, I hope this helps and I’m glad to offer these dating tips too because we all need a helping hand sooner or later in life.
-RL

2
May

Dating Tips

Having a conversation

Having a conversation

You know, I really don’t mind sharing my best ever dating advice tips with you (how’s that for descriptive?) but you and I both know that no matter what I say, if the dating advice I have to offer you isn’t applicable to something that happens to you, if you aren’t somewhere with someone that does prompt you to wish you knew what to do, then they’re useless tidbits of advice that only wasted your time. And if there isn’t one thing more that I hate is wasted time.

When you think of time, despite all the fictional “Back to the Future” jazz, you really only limp along one moment to the next hoping that the sky doesn’t fall.

Time is not fluid, it runs in one direction and that is forward. And to keep moving forward, and stop making the dating mistakes that actually does seem to make time stand still, then pay attention, because this is worth remembering. There will be a time when these dating tips are going to be important to know.

Dating Tip #1 - Don’t talk about yourself. The best conversationalist is a great listener. When you are asked a question about yourself try to answer with some detail but not too much. And always end with “Have you ever been in the same situation?” or something like “I’m sure you’ve met many people that share that opinion”. Always try to turn the question around so the other person ends up answering what they just asked you a moment ago. And you can practice this conversation twist almost everywhere. try it for the next few days and you’ll be amazed by how much you learn about other people and their estimation (and possibly attraction) about you will increase dramatically.

Dating Tip #2 - You’re always dating. If we remembered this simple fact we’d be at our best all the time, for every person we encounter. Now, this doesn’t mean sexually flirting with every person but it does mean is that we save our crappy times to the times we are alone. Do you remember the ‘law of causation’? Every event has an affect on everything else in contact with that event. Your smile can change someone’s day every time it’s seen. Always be at your best, you never know when courtesy, politeness and friendliness will make your day a little more positive.

Dating Tip #3 - You have the power to say no. Being aggressively positive does not mean that we have to agree to everything that is asked of us. Knowing when to say no is just as important as knowing when to say yes. Just don’t use your power to say no in a way that could cut you out of some positive experiences. If you need help with this, the toughest advice in this article, you can always contact me.

I know these three dating advice tips will help you. You might want to print this out or save this page as a favorite and read it again every once in a while. Click the link below to share it with your Facebook friends.

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Have a great day!

21
Apr

New article published today: Why Girls…

Why Girls Aren't Attracted To You

Why Girls Aren't Attracted To You

Why Girls Aren’t Attracted To You

When you ask yourself why you’re not attracting any women, are you ready for the truthful answer?

Surprisingly enough there are really only three reasons why you can’t attract a girlfriend. They are:

Read the complete article on this page.

19
Apr

The First Date Drive: 3 Things You Need To Know

There is going to be opportunity

There is going to be opportunity

There has been an abundant amount of articles published about how men and women should behave on the first date.

Everything from what to wear, where to go and what to say has been explained, tweaked and analysed ad naseum.

Very little, however, has been written about getting there and then going home again.

Someone has to drive, whether it’s your car, their car, a taxi, a limo, or a subway.

At some point in the travels, when together, there is going to be the “opportunity” for contact. What should you do?

Here are the three things I need you to know about cars and first dates:
1) Keep it clean. If you have three seconds to clean your car out, and it really needs it, then it’s already too late. You should have cleaned it yesterday.
2) No contact allowed. Whether driving, riding or just hanging on for dear life, no contact is allowed, either above or below the shoulders. This is very important.
3) Stay within the driving laws. “The Fast & The Furious” might be your favorite movie but let’s face it, arriving home safely and without a speeding ticket, rates very high when the date is discussed the next day.

And remember (not to put any pressure on you or anything), your first date is when the door either opens or closes on any continuing relationship. Be cool.

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Fast & The Furious (2001)

An undercover cop gets pulled into a gang that gets off by racing cars late at night through city streets. The gang leader is suspected of stealing high-end electronic equipment and the cop is sent in to investigate. In the process, the cop is swept up by the adrenaline rushes of the race and falls in love with the gang leader’s sister.


16
Apr

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Lavalife Dating Coupon Code

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If you’re not yet a member, why not?

It’s free to reply to messages, there’s three great dating communities to belong too and there might even be some fun local speed dating events in your area.

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2
Apr

Do men like to be teased?

Men do like to be teased

Men do like to be teased

I get a lot of dating advice questions emailed to me every day. It’s all good, I like to help people out wth this ever-dangerous game of dating and relationships.

One misstep and you’re on your own, alone, again.

This question “Do men like to be teased” is an all-important one because it impacts your friendships and relationships right from the beginning.

There are three things you need to know about teasing men:

1. Men do like to be teased. You can be verbal, kidding aroun with them, or you can be physical, poking at them with our fingers into their ribs or arms… just not too hard.

2. You can use compliments in your teasing, such as calling him “cute as a button” and comparing him to cute little animals, like koala bears and little Mexican Chihuahuas Description here.

3. Don’t be mean. Remember that teasing is the same as flirting wih men. And if you tease a male friend he just might want to ask you to be his girlfriend, so beware the consequences of teasing guys that you might not really want to date romantically.

Read more about teasing men in these articles:

Questions to ask a guy

How to control your man