The 20 Words to Use in Your Profile to Be More Attractive
Eharmony.co.uk has released a survey by scientists that reveal the top 20 words that you should use in your profile answers to be more attractive to the opposite sex.
While the words in and of themselves don’t change your match worthiness, they certainly add to the attraction factor that will help you receive more responses to your profile.
Using these “date factor” words will help you to be more attractive, even beyond your profile picture, although you till need to follow the rules for proper, effective profile pictures.
Women that use these words get better responses:
Sweet +46%
Ambitious +39%
Thoughtful +30%
Spontaneous +30%
Physically fit +22%
Funny +21%
Outgoing +19%
Optimistic +17%
Hard working +17%
Passionate +16%
Men that use these words get better responses:
Physically fit +69%
Ambitious +64%
Perceptive +63%
Passionate +53%
Optimistic +44%
Funny +38%
Spontaneous +33%
Thoughtful +21%
Affectionate +17%
Outgoing + 17%
Just keep in mind, it’s not enough to “say it”, you have to “be it”.

Making The Most Of Your Free Communication Weekend
With just a couple of days left in Canada’s May Free Communication Weekend (the USA Free Communication Weekend is coming soon) I thought I’d share a few tips for getting the most of the time you have to use the guided communication this dating event offers.
While it’s true that you are using eharmony’s preset questions to discover possible matches, there is a lot to learn about your possible match within this promotion.
You’ll want to complete your profile as much as possible, even though only premium members will see your photo or be able to email you and call you within eharmony’s safe messaging system.
Start by sending out smiles to members that catch your interest. Click on their name and then click the right arrow on the screen to read their profile. Not everything is revealed but there is enough to help you learn more about them and begin the guided communication to learn even more.
This system of contact, although limited and quickly exhausted, does give you great insight into the person you are messaging and whether or not the upgrade to premium is worth it at this time.
You’ll want to send out about 10 smiles to get started and answer a whole lot of questions too.
Prepare to spend a few hours throughout the free communication event to use it to your best advantage.
I’d be really surprised if you didn’t find at least 4 or 5 members out of the 10 you send smiles to that are worth a couple of dollars to contact further.
It’s an exciting time to date online. Plenty of active members and learning about the potential for love that you are not aware of if you don’t take part.
These AREN’T The Pickup Techniques Your Looking For
If you’re a hard core nerd that has a hard time finding his dream girl… then this is a must read message.
My friend Mehow was one of those guys who was so obsessed with Star Wars he’s seen every motion picture at least 10 times.
He’s one of those guys that just looks too old, and too dorky for women to be into him … and his vintage “Return of the Jedi” T-Shirts from 1983 don’t help.
Yet he figured out a real ‘jedi mind control’ trick that works incredibly well on women in this video.
(and it too works in under a few seconds… especially on getting the younger-than-you, and hotter-than you women into bed)
-This video isn’t about a ‘pickup technique’ you can use only once in an interaction.
(it’s something that lasts and lasts … and lasts)
-It’s not about ‘key words’ that turn her on. In fact, in fact you can totally forget what you thought you were gonna say to her, and still turn her on.
-This isn’t about how to dish out money on girls, so your galactic credits stay in your pocket.
(but you WILL have plenty of occasions to whip out your ‘light saber.’)
AND …
-This isn’t about wearing any fancy clothing to get her into you.
So you can leave your Jedi robe’s at home after you watch this video.
And you will be pulling more girls then Darth Vader in his younger Anakin Skywalker days.
-Rob
p.s. Mehow’s ‘force’ techniques work incredibly well on women and 1.3 million people have watched him do it on Youtube. But he doesn’t reveal his tricks on Youtube.
His ‘Jedi Women Tricks’ are only in this video.
Stop Wasting Time With The Wrong Guy
Maybe you’ve been through this before and maybe you’re just begging for it to happen again… but you can learn to avoid the guy’s that waste your time… that can’t commit… that are just big kids without an adult bone in their body.
You don’t have to change what you do or who you are… you need to change how you approach the whole dating adventure and really, truly decide if you want more than just a casual relationship.
Understand that men and women see romance as two distinctly different things… when they are at different places in their life but still together.
Knowing this will help you to stop wasting time with the wrong guys and be able to find a man that adores and respects you.
Just answer this question: Are you ready?
Tricked By An Impersonator: Online Dating Scams
This can happen to anyone on any social site, it doesn’t have to be a dating service!
Bad people will use pictures of others to bait you into contacting and possibly meeting them. A picture can be copied from anywhere and reported to any site that wants photos or images.
Match.com has come under fire recently for such abuses by members and they say that they use special algorithms to detect such image fraud even being sued for $1.5 billon dollars.
Take this story published by Rawstory.com as an example and what you need to do when you find out the truth.
“New York man arrested for impersonating dead soldier on dating site”
It was the dead soldier’s sister that notified the police about the image theft and impersonation.
There is a level of trust between people that honesty is the best policy. Those that break this trust will take advantage of those that give this trust willingly.
Remember my Golden Rule: you don’t really know someone until you’re close enough to smell them.
Hacking Your Online Dating Profile
The big news for today is how one guy hacked OKcupid.com to better his odds of finding love online - and it worked!
Chris McKinlay, a professed math geek and programmer, wrote a script, and several fake profiles on OKcupid.com to make his efforts of finding love easier. He managed to get 80+ dates in a short amount of time, after months of being unsuccessful prior to creating his bot-dating helpers, and even find true love, popping the question over Skype while his love was working far, far away (this wasn’t a long-distance affair to start with, it should be noted).
You can read the in-depth details on Wired.com here and maybe be inspired to work a little harder on your own methods.
But using fake profiles and automated systems on OKcupid.com is against policy and could get you banned before you find love. You’ve been warned.
Someone visited your profile: The Next Step
So someone finally visited your profile… that’s great news.
But they didn’t message you… are you not worthy or were they not interested?
Or maybe they just don’t want to speak first.
That happens a lot, more than you’d think.
It doesn’t hurt to be the one to send the first message.
But what do you say?
I’ll make it easy for you, say this (feel free to copy and paste it as is):
Hi, I noticed that you stopped by for a peak at my profile but didn’t send me a message. Just in case you’re shy I thought I’d send you a friendly hello and get the ball rolling.
Hello!
That was easy and painless…. honest.
I’m sure we share enough in common to at last hold a conversation for a while and I hope you’ll message me back soon.
Hope to hear from you soon.
You can just copy and paste the whole message above and use it as is, or change it up a bit to me more your own style.
The key is to send the message, without commitment or clinginess.
Who knows, this person could become a great friend or the next true love of your life!
Good luck.
When He Doesn’t Want To Get Serious
Here’s a recent article to help you move your relationship in the right direction:
When He Doesn’t Want To Get Serious This Is What You Do
Excerpt:
This isn’t a rare thing that’s happening to you. Most women deal with this because the guy they’re dating doesn’t understand your view of your being together.
And it doesn’t really matter that you’re not alone in this, most women have gone through it too.
You can’t trick him into changing his attitude and you can’t offer an ultimatum because then you’re being bossy and controlling.
And you might push him away which is the opposite of what you want to do anyways.
Why VERY INTELLIGENT Men Fail With Women
The Ten Reasons Why HIGHLY INTELLIGENT Men Fail With Women… AND WHAT TO DO ABOUT IT…
By David DeAngelo
I’ve been teaching men how to become more successful with women and dating for a several years now… and one “problem scenario” just keeps coming up OVER AND OVER… and OVER
and OVER and OVER again…
…and it’s really amazes me.
I’m going to refer to it as “The Genius Failure Paradox”.
“The Genius Failure Paradox” is the tendency for UNUSUALLY intelligent men to have very LOW levels of success with women and dating.
After contemplating this particular paradox, discussing it, and working on it for an awesome amount of time, I’d like to share my thoughts about it with you.
I assume that if you’ve read this far, then you see probably yourself as smarter than the average guy.
You know that you’re a little different than other guys.
You probably realized at a young age that you saw things differently, and thought differently than others in school…
And you’ve probably realized that your smart mind gives you an advantage over others in many areas of life…
Your smart mind gives you a particular type of advantage that can be very, very powerful in life: YOU’RE USUALLY RIGHT.
Smart people get used to being “right”, because they usually ARE right.
And when you’re RIGHT more often than others, you can get ahead in many situations.
But unfortunately, this smart mind of yours can actually be WORSE than USELESS when it comes to a key area of life:
WOMEN AND DATING.
By the way, I did say WORSE than useless.
It can actually be like having a hammer when you need to tighten a bolt. If you use the tool you have for the job, you’ll most likely make the situation WORSE.
Of course, it’s hard for a smart guy to even IMAGINE a situation where his smart mind could HURT his chances for success…
But trust me, this is one of those situations.
So relax, open your smart mind, and let me share with you the ten reasons why smart guys fail with women… and what to do about it.
REASON #1: THEY’RE WRONG, BUT THEY CAN’T OR WON’T SEE IT OR ADMIT IT
I mentioned that smart guys are used to being RIGHT in most situations.
And what do most smart guys do when they come across a situation where they’re WRONG?
They find a new situation… one that fits their strength. They know they’ll be right next time, so they just walk away… knowing that it won’t be long before they’re right again.
(OR they let the “problem situation” destroy them… more on that later.)
Well, the BITCH about being wrong when it comes to women and dating is THERE’S NOWHERE TO RUN AND HIDE.
There’s no quick “I’m right” around the next corner to make you feel better.
It only takes “failing” with a few women in a row for a smart guy to see the pattern… and realize that something isn’t working.
Solution? Think harder.
A smart guy just assumes that his logic must be good… so he just keeps thinking harder.
But when no success comes, it really starts
to become mentally difficult.
Accepting that you’re wrong is a VERY hard thing for a “smart guy”.
Accepting that you’re not only wrong, but you have NO CLUE WHERE TO EVEN START is even more difficult.
Ultimately, many smart guys come up with the following logical conclusion:
I AM A SMART GUY, THEREFORE IF I CAN’T FIGURE OUT HOW TO BE SUCCESSFUL WITH WOMEN AND DATING, THEN THE PROBLEM MUST NOT BE SOLVABLE OR WORTH SOLVING.
Try that on for a self-defeating idea.
REASON #2: THEY’RE BLIND AND ARROGANT
In short, many smart guys refuse to accept that a good, solid, workable answer could come from someone “dumber” than them, so they discount any idea that comes from an “obviously less intelligent person” before trying it.
Let me ask you a question:
If you were going to be walking across Africa on foot, would you rather have your guide be the guy on this planet with the highest I.Q., or a caveman who lived a million years ago that had an I.Q. of about 50… but who grew up being chased by lions and all kinds of animals that wanted to eat him all his life?
It’s an interesting question.
Now, hopefully you’d like to have the guide who isn’t the smartest guy around… but who has escaped from many, many dangerous situations with deadly animals…
But now let me ask you:
If you’d like to learn how to be more successful with women and dating, would you take advice from a guy who isn’t very intelligent, but who knows how to attract women?
There’s something about being smart that makes some guys unwilling to accept input, ideas, or instruction from anyone who isn’t either as smart or smarter than them.
Well, any SMART GUY can see the folly in this particular approach… once it’s examined closely.
If you’ve been making this mistake, then you need to STOP IT. Stop being an arrogant bastard, and open your eyes.
Look around.
Learn from some “dumb” guys… and let them teach you how to get what you REALLY want.
REASON #3: POOR SOCIAL SKILLS
It BLOWS MY MIND how many smart guys I meet that just don’t GET IT when it comes to basic social skills.
It’s as if they have logically reasoned that social skills are for lower beings who need to play games… and not worth the time it would take to learn them.
In fact, I believe that there are a lot of smart guys running around this planet who don’t even have “social skills” and “be a cool guy that people like” in their “MENTAL MODEL” of what it could possibly take to be successful with women and dating.
Social skills are just that… SKILLS.
They’re not social INFORMATION.
They’re not social THEORIES.
They’re social SKILLS.
And you don’t get them by THINKING about them. You get them by GETTING them.
Excellent social skills are the foundation for good communication with other humans… and if you don’t have good social skills, you dramatically lower your chances for success with women.
REASON #4: THEY PSYCH THEMSELVES OUT
Smart guys do something that fascinates the hell out of me…
They come up with all the reasons why everything WON’T WORK when it comes to women and dating.
They actually figure out why what they would like to do will probably fail…
They use their amazing creative imaginations to imagine all kinds of horrible pictures and scenes… and then they use those imaginary outcomes to create negative emotions… which ultimately stop them from having success with women and dating.
THEY DON’T EVEN TRY.
Now, if you’ve thought something through and come up with a good reason why it would fail, it makes sense to not do it, right?
I mean, why would you want to do things that are going to fail?
It’s sound logic, but HORRIBLE thinking when it comes to the REAL WORLD… and success with women.
Because smart guys don’t UNDERSTAND women, and they don’t UNDERSTAND what it takes to be successful with women, they are working with bad figures. They’re wrong before they even start figuring!
Using your mind to come up with all the reasons why things won’t work in this area of your life leads to ULTIMATE FAILURE.
You must learn to overcome this habit if you have it.
REASON #5: THEY SEEK ONLY “INFORMATIONAL SOLUTIONS”
What does a smart guy do when he runs into a problem… or he needs to figure something out?
He looks for INFORMATION to help him solve the problem.
MORE INFORMATION is always the answer.
Information is the friend of a smart guy.
Got a strange virus on your computer? Just hop on the internet and search for how to eliminate it.
Don’t know how to change the alternator on your car? No prob. Just buy the manual and turn to page 147.
Don’t know the definition of a word? Open up your dictionary.
MORE INFORMATION solves the problem.
So what do smart guys do when it comes to overcoming a problem with women?
They want MORE INFORMATION.
They think the answer lies in learning just ONE MORE TECHNIQUE… or one more magic concept.
Well what if there were a situation in life where the “get more information” strategy actually made things WORSE?
How would you even know that it was making things worse?
Now, I don’t want to suggest that learning more about how to be successful with women is a bad thing. It’s not.
But if you have a problem that is EMOTIONAL or PHYSICAL in nature, then reading five million theories on it probably isn’t going to help you very much.
You need to get out in the real world and try some stuff!
You need to look at the REAL problem… the ROOT of the problem.
When it comes to women and dating, there’s a very good chance that you have MORE than enough “information”.
Smart guys often use “more information” to distract them from TAKING ACTION.
I’ve heard this referred to as “Creative Avoidance”.
Nod silently if you’ve ever figured out a creative way to avoid facing something in your life.
Good, thank you.
REASON #6: THEY FOCUS ON LOGIC INSTEAD OF EMOTION
NEWS JUST IN: Women don’t feel ATTRACTION for men who make them THINK.
Women feel ATTRACTION for men who make them FEEL.
So what do most smart guys do when they first meet a woman?
EXACTLY!
They get into a LOGICAL CONVERSATION.
I’m shaking my head right now…
Smart men try to engage women in LOGICAL conversations and interactions because that’s where THEY feel comfortable… not knowing that they’re SHOOTING THELSEVES IN THE FOOT by doing it!
Get this: A monkey sitting at a typewriter will type the collected works of Shakespeare before you will make a woman feel ATTRACTION for you by engaging her in logical conversation.
When you start a logical conversation with a woman you’ve just met, you are basically taking out a NEON SIGN that says “I don’t get it when it comes to women” and putting it on your head.
Typical “logical” conversations include talking about work, family, school, and jobs… discussing politics, religion, weather… and anything that has to do with math, science, or INTELLIGENCE.
On the other hand, if you start talking to a woman and you say “OK, so tell me something… Why is it that all women say that they want sweet, nice guys… but they all date sexy, selfish bad boys?” (and then make fun of any answer she gives) you’re having an EMOTIONAL conversation.
If you don’t know what I’m talking about, keep reading. You need more help than I thought.
REASON #7: THEY’RE NOT USED TO THE CHALLENGE OF THE MOMENT
Smart people usually have time to THINK about things.
If you’re taking a test, you can sit there and work out the answers.
If you have a math problem, you can work on it until you’ve figured it out.
If you’re trying to fix something, you can keep working on it until it’s fixed.
Smart guys are used to being able to take at least a LITTLE bit of time to prepare and show off their “good sides” in most situations.
Not so with women…
If you don’t know what to do at every step along the way, you’ll be shut down very quickly.
Women have an AMAZING “He doesn’t get it” radar system.
Women have all kinds of subtle and ingenious tests that they throw at men to separate the “get its” from the “don’t get its”.
And if you don’t get it, then you’re going to fail one of these tests VERY quickly.
But the worst part is that you won’t ever KNOW that you were being tested… OR that you failed.
Smart guys aren’t used to dealing with complex EMOTIONAL and COMMUNICATION challenges in the moment… and especially the “women and dating” kind.
One of they keys to becoming more successful with women and dating is learning to handle all of the tests that women throw at you effortlessly.
But before you can learn how to deal with the tests, you must first learn how to communicate on an emotional level, how to demonstrate that you have fundamental social skills, and how to keep your cool in the moment.
REASON #8: THEY THINK THAT DOING “NICE” THINGS IS THE “SMART WAY”
OK, let me ask you a trick question:
If I told you that you were going to have a date with the supermodel of your choice, which of the following would you choose as a “smart” way of preparing:
1) Find out what her favorite type of flowers are, and show up with a dozen of them so she would be “wowed”.
2) Learn about her favorite travel destination so you could discuss it with her.
3) Find out what her favorite type of food is so you could take her to dinner… and she could see that you cared enough to choose something that she enjoyed.
OK, time’s up. Which did you choose?
Now, I already mentioned that this was a TRICK question.
The answer is NONE OF THE ABOVE.
But WHY?
These three options all seemed logical, right?
I mean, why WOULDN’T you want to show up with her favorite flowers?
Why WOULDN’T you want to talk about her favorite places to travel?
Why WOULDN’T you want to take her to eat her favorite foods so she enjoyed herself?
Go with me here…
Smart guys think that they’re being CLEVER when they do things like buying a woman her favorite flowers… and bringing them to the FIRST DATE.
Right?
In their minds, they’re thinking “I’m going to be the guy who is thinking ahead… and I’m going to show up with the flowers that I KNOW she loves… and she’s going to see them and like me more because of it”.
Makes sense… good math, right?
Well the one teensy-weensy mistake that these “smart” guys make is not realizing that it doesn’t actually take a smart person to think like this!
In fact, ANY jackass can figure out how to kiss a woman’s ass.
And guess what?
WOMEN KNOW THIS!
And guess what else?
EVERY WUSSBAG DOES THIS STUFF.
An intelligent guy, in his proud arrogance, will think he’s being such the charmer by using this “thoughtful” approach…
…and the woman he is chasing will interpret it as just another Wussy who’s trying to MANIPULATE her.
Ouch. Another blow to intelligence.
MISTAKE #9: ALWAYS NEEDING TO BE THE EXPERT
Have you ever met a smart guy who always needed to be “right”?
Have you ever met someone who would actually argue with you about something they knew nothing about… and make a fool of themselves because they just couldn’t shut their “smart mouths”?
Over the last few years helping guys improve their success with women, I see this one pattern over and over again…
Smart guys don’t like to be “beginners” at ANYTHING.
They don’t like the idea of screwing up… especially if others are watching.
They want to maintain this “smart guy” image of themselves… so they try to always be “The Expert” at whatever they do.
Instead of saying “Hey, you know what? I’m a beginner at this… how do I do it? What should I do first? What next?”… and instead of being totally OK with screwing up, making mistakes, and making a fool of themselves in front of others in order to LEARN…
…they won’t risk embarrassment, failure, or others thinking that they’re beginners… so they wind up ultimately FAILING.
MORE NEWS JUST IN: It’s OK to be a beginner.
MISTAKE #10: THEY CAN’T DEAL WITH FEAR AND OTHER EMOTIONS
A smart guy’s STRENGTH is his MIND.
His WEAKNESS is often his EMOTIONS.
Smart guys are often IMMOBILIZED by FEAR.
Totally stopped.
FROZEN.
And since many smart guys aren’t comfortable dealing with things they’re not good at, they just repress or RUN away from fear.
Many men would rather DIE in lonely isolation than admit that they don’t know how to deal with their emotions… or, GODFORBID, ask for help!
Hey, I went for YEARS like this.
I know what it’s like.
But the reality is that any guy can learn to handle and even MASTER his emotions (even fear)… if he just takes the time and effort to learn HOW to do it.
If this is you, then do yourself a big favor… take the time. Take the effort.
Don’t worry about what anyone else thinks of you… it doesn’t matter.
What matters is you doing the things that YOU need to do FOR YOU.
…I think the reason why I’m so fascinated with “The Genius Failure Paradox” is because I have had to struggle with all of these issues for a lot of years of my life.
Now, I’m not saying that I’m the smartest guy on the planet…
But I don’t think mamma raised no fool.
And it always bothered the hell out of me that even though I was so good at figuring things out, I couldn’t figure WOMEN out.
Something tells me that you know what I’m talking about.
Well, after beating my head against the wall for a few years… trying all kinds of crazy “logical” stuff… I finally got the “bright” idea to start studying guys who were “naturally” good with women.
Of course, I found out that you could be both NOT SMART, and VERY SUCCESSFUL WITH WOMEN at the same time.
I also learned that you can be SMART and VERY SUCCESSFUL WITH WOMEN too.
By carefully studying what the “naturals” did with women… and learning how they “thought” about the topic, I began to realize that success with women wasn’t entirely LOGICAL.
Much of what I learned was very tough for me to accept… because my logical brain just didn’t want to buy into it.
One thing I saw was guys pushing women away from them… and having the women then chase them in response.
Made no sense at all.
I saw guys tease beautiful women and make jokes about them to their faces… and then watched those women become “little girls” in response… unable to maintain their composure, and therefore unable to maintain their manipulative power…
It took me quite a long time, but I continued to learn, test, and refine what I was learning until I personally figured out how to approach women in any situation… get any woman’s number I wanted anytime I wanted… date any type of woman I wanted…
…and most importantly, GET RID of that “empty” feeling that I carried around my whole life because I didn’t know how to attract women.
And once I got this area of my own life together, I decided to help other guys get this area of THEIR lives together.
The ultimate result of all this time, effort, and energy is my free Dating Tips Newsletter.
And I’d like to invite you to sign up.
It’s free, there’s no obligation, I’ll never share your email address with anyone, and you can easily remove yourself anytime with no hassles (and no, I’ll never pull any of these tricks where I send you a bunch of unwanted junk email when you try to remove yourself).
Of course, it even gets better than that…
In addition to my free Dating Tips newsletter, I also have a killer downloadable eBook that you can download right now and be reading in literally MINUTES from right now.
It’s JAM PACKED with dozens and dozens of specific strategies for overcoming fear, approaching women, getting phone numbers and email address from women quickly, great inexpensive or even free date ideas, and how to take things to a “physical” level smoothly and easily.
To sign up for my free newsletter AND download your copy of my online eBook, just go here.
And I’ll talk to you again soon.
Your Friend,
David DeAngelo
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Dating Online in the News
Another wild ride for many online daters is about to be revealed to you. Hold tight!
One-third of US marriages start with online dating: Study. Times of India
However, some experts took issue with the findings because the survey was commissioned by eHarmony.com, the dating site that attracted one quarter of all online marriages according to the research…
Logging on to love: online dating is a hit. The Times (subscription)
Relationships that begin on the internet can lead to longer and happier marriages than those which start in the real world, according to research. The stigma of online dating has faded as millions have turned to the web in search of romance …
Is online dating the key to a happy relationship? Yahoo! Lifestyle UK
While many still shy away from online dating, new research suggests that finding The One on the internet is more likely than through a chance encounter. Yup, that’s right; a relationship started in cyberspace is apparently 25 % less likely to end in …
Hint: Guys like women who are fun to talk to. Seacoastonline.com
I’ve been trying to start dating, but the individuals I have approached are either seeing someone else or are not interested. I tried online dating sites, but the men who responded all live far away, some in other countries, and I’m leery of proceeding …
What to do AFTER Sex. . . What Every Man Needs to Know
Check out this video from sex expert Alex Allman and find out his conclusions after working with thousands of men, women and couples. . .
I guarantee it’s not what you think. . .my reaction to this video was WOW!
If you’ve ever wondered what you really should do after sex, you need to hear what Alex has to say about it.
If you liked this video. . .you will want to pour yourself a cup of coffee, grab a pencil, get comfortable and take notes on this one.
It’s packed with important tips and techniques you won’t find anywhere else.
You’ll discover all of Alex’s stuff is top-notch. . .and if you want to be the only man in her life, the one who erases the memory of every guy she’s ever been with in the past, I highly recommend you buy some of his advanced programs.
- Robert
Are You Your Own Dating Mentor?
The man that serves as his own lawyer has a fool for a client.
It’s a pretty honest saying meaning that taking your own advice, without seeking the counsel of an expert, could be your downfall.
Not that your own advice might be all that bad but when you’re doing things that aren’t working out so well should you really try to fix things without getting the best possible advice you can?
How are your efforts going for meeting women? Striking out a lot?
A dating mentor could help you develop new strategies, new ways to not only introduce yourself but to be able to bring out the natural in you that really attracts women.
It’s something that you might not even be aware you’re capable of, until a mentor points it out to you.
Being able to better understand women, and change your losing ways, makes sense if you really want to date, if you really want that girlfriend.
Learning from someone with the experience and willingness to share can make all the difference to your future success with women.
Maybe you’r doing OK with your introduction and you’re meeting a lot of women. How many call you back and how many really do want to talk to you the next day? Are you doing that one little thing that turns women off without knowing it?
It’s time to change the game and understand the rules of play.
It’s time to get a dating mentor.
And it all starts here.
Dating in the News
Another day another round-up of the dating stories making their tracks across the web.
Australia is the world’s most expensive country for dating. The Australian
IF you’re looking for romance, arm yourself with extra cash because Australia has been ranked the most expensive country in the world when it comes to the cost of dating. According to research released today by Deutsche Bank, Australian cities are the …
Poll: What are top dating deal breakers? Not race. WWL First News
Most men I talked to in the CBD about it agreed, the mustache doesn’t work, but one man said “A dating deal breaker for me is bad teeth. Jacked up teeth just isn’t going to cut it. They got to have a nice smile, something pleasant to look at across the …
Women Over 40: How to make a dating profile attractive. Muncie Free Press
NEW YORK, NY - According to a survey by DateAfter50.com, the most frequently asked questions by over 50 female daters are: How to make their dating profile attractive? And what do men want from women when they are dating after 50? Below are some …
Adventures in Online Dating: The Delusional Personal Space Invader. By Sara Fry
Sara Fry lives in Los Angeles and is the girl behind the blog Guide to Being Awesome. Over the years, she has realized that the number one way to be awesome is to give zero shits about anything. So far, it’s working. Let me preface this by …

Online Dating Tips
We all want to find the right dates when we look for dates, right?
Here are some tips to help you get started with dating online and making lasting friends and even finding lovers.
27 Words That Should Never Ever Be a Part of an Online Dating Username. Glamour (blog)
I once had a guy ask me, in my professional opinion, if profile names mattered when it came to online dating. Whether my opinion was sought as a professional dating blogger or just a professional single person (ouch), I told him it didn’t really …
Single Christians experiencing ‘anxiety’. ChristianToday
Online dating service Christian Connection has spent the last few months surveying thousands of single Christians on their experiences in the church. The decline in younger people attending church means many single Christians are struggling not only to …
Digital Get Down: Perfect your profile. Daily Northwestern
What’s one of the most obvious advantages of online dating? You have the chance to tell people all the wonderful things about you before they even meet you. You can put your best (virtual) foot forward and create a profile that will show off how unique …
How to look for love and companionship online. Edmonds Beacon
Dating sites have become enormously popular among the older generation in recent years. In fact, boomers and seniors make up about 20 percent of online daters today, and the numbers keeps growing. Here’s what you should know. If you’re interested in …
First Date Tips
Need a little help with your first date jitters?
We all feel some nervousness when we want to be at our best and want to be impressive too. Read on to make your first date a success.
12 first date do’s, don’t’s. Bend Bulletin
Last week, I watched an episode of “Everybody Loves Raymond” called “The Sister-In-Law.” What a funny show that depicts so well what goes on conversation-wise between a man and a woman. It begins with Raymond having the house all to himself and he …
16 Great Non-Drinking Dates. Babble (blog)
Dates for drinks are easy, yes. But maybe first dates shouldn’t always go straight to the comfort zone. Don’t be lured into believing you need the warm, slow buzz of booze to get over the first-date jitters. Or that the pub she picks or the cocktail he …
Two First Date Crimes to Warn Your Friends About NOW
Glamour (blog)
Ugh, sometimes first dates can be an absolute nightmare. Recently, one of. my friends went on two dates that, well, won’t become second dates for very specific reasons, both involving money. Let’s decide which one of these dating crimes was the biggest …
19 bad date pics that will make you laugh and cringe. msnNOW
It’s one thing to not have much to talk about on a first date, but it’s an entirely different thing for her dad to show up with a machine gun, or your Romeo to puke on you during the Monster Drop. These tragically hilarious couples’ pics are the gems …
Facebook stalking is in and the ‘three-day rule’ is out: The new dating rules. Daily Mail
When my now-husband and I went on our first date, he sent me an email as soon as he got home from the date saying he had a wonderful time. I thought this was wonderful, and reassured me that he liked me and that he was not a game-player, making me …