Freedom From Marriage. Really?
What does “freedom from marriage” actually mean if you’re in a long-term loving relationship?
I mean, sure, half of all marriages end in divorce according to recent stats, but all couples living together are always separated, because of no marriage.
Marriage means:
- common long-term goals
- dedication to loving each other
- agreement of common property
- relationship bonding to support a healthy environment for children
The “freedom” to stay unmarried in a long-term relationship, or in a relationship that you want to grow in love, without limits, seems like a great path for committed relationships to keep two people single, a gulf between them.
I might be a romantic but I think most women appreciate (to say the least) the idea of having that “special day” of walking down the aisle, towards the man they love, and saying their vows before family, friends, and maybe God too, to live happily in marriage.
How does that same woman decide to “stay single” but in a committed relationship?
Does she hope to play this game until her man changes his mind about marriage?
And how long should she hold out her heart waiting to be proposed to?
And this woman, what if she could learn how to “behave” and approach the subject of marriage with caring, understanding and fortitude. With the absolute ability to be able to decipher her man’s meanings when the subject of a stronger commitment to each other comes about.
Most men are naturally afraid of marriage but when the decision has been made they become enraptured of the new life that is unfolding before them.
Where does this fear of marriage come from? Everywhere. Movies, books, TV shows, magazines… we are living in a socially weak society that has taken the joy away from marriage, the joy that couples have shared for time immeasurable.
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