I have to ask “Do you use internet chats as a type of psychologist’s couch?”

That is, do you meet people online, through chat sites and self-help forums, and explain your life’s ills to them, offering excuses and looking for sympathy for how your life is turning out?

And the advice that is offered to you, do you take it to heart, or is this “in the moment” and in the next moment you feel much better, maybe your outlook has changed a bit but your situation hasn’t.

And in a day or two later you’re again in the same funk, surfing around looking for sympathy and offering excuses about your life once again.

It’s time to stop the cycle isn’t it.

I suggest you browse some of the ebooks I’ve read and see if there is something that will provide a grounding for your life’s next steps.

You have value, you are loved, you just might be reaching out the wrong way, so it’s time to change things around starting today.

My suggestion for your online personal ad headline today is this:
“I am happi, looking for ness = happiness.”

Have a great day!