Boundless Possibilities: Dating Profile Headline of the Day

Is the sun setting or smiling on you today?

The feeling of being let down keeps many people from trying to date at all, whether online or by trying to meet people in the physical world.

This is wrong because we cannot control how other people will react to us and by trying to avoid disappointment we invite it all the more into our lives.

Life is full of disappointment. We can go to the “glass half full argument” but when you’re disappointed in a person the world becomes a very hurtful place, regardless if the “other half of the glass” is happiness waiting to shine on your face.

We live in the moment and it’s in the moment that we judge and will be judged, that we rejoice in happiness and cry in disappointment.

It’s only the strong that will survive these muddy waters and if you don’t have the strength now you’ll have to find it later or perish into an unknowable hell of your own creation.

If the responsibility of your disappointment was 100% due to someone else then wouldn’t you feel no disappopintment at all, just that other person would feel the disappointment that should be felt? Indeed, it’s only because of your unreachable expectations (reasonable or not) does unhappiness and disappointment enter the picture at all. And it’s your disappointment, not theirs, that is felt.

That being said, it is your disappointment and your responsibility to feel this emotion or not.

So if you can control whether or not you will allow yourself to feel disappointment then you should have no fear of it.

With no fear comes boundless possibilities.

So, then, you should date. Click on that person’s profile, send that email, make that call and say hello to that stranger. Everything is possible for you and nothing wil disappoint you, unless you let it.

This, naturally, brings us to today’s dating profile headline suggestion:
“Boundless possibilities start with a simple hello.”

Have a great day!

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