Serious Daters: Dating Profile Headline of the Day
The Final Day of The Month of Love
This is the last day of what I designated “The Month of Love” but that doesn’t mean love no longer needs to be celebrated. How many relationships have you had because they went stale? Broken into a day-to-day routine the love that was there seemed to have evaporated into a boring daily schedule.
When this happens it’s easy to blame your partner for not being more loving, for putting down the torch that was once held high for you. But what’s really going on isn’t you being taken for granted, it’s a breakdown of communication.
We’re not effectively taught communication skills, it’s just something that we’re just supposed to “pick up” in our teens and twenties. So if you see your relationship going sour, before you start an argument about why the relationship is now horrible and you’re sure you’re just being taken for granted, take some time to give a serious look to your complaints. Often the root problem is the lack of communication. (You can find some communication skills books here.)
You and your partner have fallen into a rut and, without discussing it this, blame eventually get’s laid on someone and a fight starts, which is not only the wrong thing to do, it’s pretty hard to take back as a complaint against your partner.
Communication skills can be learned at any phase of a relationship and are at the core of all marriage and relationship counselling sessions. When you can communicate effectively with your partner all of the small problems disappear and the big issues become small ones.
I say this because love needs to be celebrated every day. From a hug and a kiss first thing in the morning to a hug and a kiss at night time. Maybe some special acknowledgements throughout the day, now and again (which has been discussed in other posts and articles here).
Today’s personal ad headline is a serious one, for serious daters:
“Only the serious and qualified should apply.”
Have a great day!
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