Does your life have a consistent flow?
This is your life, happening right now.
How much of it have you anticipated and how much has been a surprise?
When you consider the question carefully the answer is often very much unexpected. We have dreams and we the have paths that our life is hopefully aimed to take but the real journey is made up of hills and valleys, the ebb and flow of the tide that is our life.
The successful among us can alter their course as life throws them curves. The rest of us learn to adjust usually after the life-changing event has made it’s impact but before it’s too late to let that impact take us down.
Online dating offers a lot of quick changing circumstances. Sometimes the people that you exchange messages with can turn creepy or weird very fast and you have to react quickly, either with the delete key on your computer, or the block control in your membership panel. The quicker the better, certainly.
You also have to be quick to reply to messages as, usually is the case, you’re not the only person being messaged by the sender of the message you get so you want whatever lead time you have to allow that person to give you more attention, if you do want more attention, that is.
You want to keep your profile fresh too, because what might be missed in the member search results today might be magic tomorrow because of a chnage you make, like a great headline to your personal ad like this:
“The only surprise is how much we have in common.”
Have a great day!
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19th Sep 10. Posted in Dating Profile Headline of the Day.