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June 21, 2010

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Why Does He Call If He’s Not Interested?

Catch Him & Keep Him

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I was recently asked this question from a woman in her 20′s: Why does a guy call me every night if he’s not interested in dating me?

The simple answer is often the hardest to accept, but here it is:
He’s trying to wear you down, so that you will go out with him, without him directly asking you to go out and risk rejection.

Guys are stone-cold afraid of rejection from women. And if they can “ambush” you into going out with them, without ever having to directly ask you, then as they see it, there is no fear of rejection.

It’s a sad state of affairs when a guy is so scared of you saying no that they’ll never ask the question “Will you go on a date with me?”

But, on the plus side, once you know this fact you then have the “Power of Rejection”.

When you can get a guy that you like to date you, and he’s using this ambush tactic, you can use the power of rejection to keep him under your thumb.

You tell him what you want to do, when and where. If he hedges and starts to say no, then you say to him “That’s OK, I’m sure I can find someone else to go with me.”

Plain and simple, you run the show. He’ll never know when the collar was placed around his neck but you’ll easily have him barking like a dog whenever you call his name!

[This is, in part, interpreted from the ebook "Catch Him & Keep Him" which you can preview here.]

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