Dating Tips

You know, I really don’t mind sharing my best ever dating advice tips with you (how’s that for descriptive?) but you and I both know that no matter what I say, if the dating advice I have to offer you isn’t applicable to something that happens to you, if you aren’t somewhere with someone that does prompt you to wish you knew what to do, then they’re useless tidbits of advice that only wasted your time. And if there isn’t one thing more that I hate is wasted time.

When you think of time, despite all the fictional “Back to the Future” jazz, you really only limp along one moment to the next hoping that the sky doesn’t fall.

Time is not fluid, it runs in one direction and that is forward. And to keep moving forward, and stop making the dating mistakes that actually does seem to make time stand still, then pay attention, because this is worth remembering. There will be a time when these dating tips are going to be important to know.

Dating Tip #1 - Don’t talk about yourself. The best conversationalist is a great listener. When you are asked a question about yourself try to answer with some detail but not too much. And always end with “Have you ever been in the same situation?” or something like “I’m sure you’ve met many people that share that opinion”. Always try to turn the question around so the other person ends up answering what they just asked you a moment ago. And you can practice this conversation twist almost everywhere. try it for the next few days and you’ll be amazed by how much you learn about other people and their estimation (and possibly attraction) about you will increase dramatically.

Dating Tip #2 - You’re always dating. If we remembered this simple fact we’d be at our best all the time, for every person we encounter. Now, this doesn’t mean sexually flirting with every person but it does mean is that we save our crappy times to the times we are alone. Do you remember the ‘law of causation’? Every event has an affect on everything else in contact with that event. Your smile can change someone’s day every time it’s seen. Always be at your best, you never know when courtesy, politeness and friendliness will make your day a little more positive.

Dating Tip #3 - You have the power to say no. Being aggressively positive does not mean that we have to agree to everything that is asked of us. Knowing when to say no is just as important as knowing when to say yes. Just don’t use your power to say no in a way that could cut you out of some positive experiences. If you need help with this, the toughest advice in this article, you can always contact me.

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