Stay with me on this one!

You’re out today, doing your weekly chores and you meet a handsome/pretty stranger. You get to talking over the checkout line and there is an instant attraction.

You chit-chat about work, long lines in grocery stores, how life is still easier with the Internet to order most things online with, and you get their email address.

Good for you!

Now, continuing the conversation in your first email to them, while it seems to be a no-brainer, is not the way to go here.

Instead invite them out for a coffee and a dessert soemwhere to continue your fun conversation from before. Face-to-face.

A coffee date has less pressure than a regular date and it gives you a change to be friendly without an of the “date” pressures being there with you.

Your online profile should reflect this type of attitude: I want to meet you and hang out before I want to date you.

This is fair, honest, direct and with less pressure of a formal date.

To start this series of events with your online dating personal, you’ll want to use this as the headline that attracts:
“Let’s start with fun, meet me for coffee!”

Have a great day!