How to get a first date with a girl

I’ve been asked many times how to get a first date. The easy answer is to do it naturally and in three easy steps: Approach, Talk, Exit.

Approach:
Your approach starts with eye contact, after all, you have to see her to know where she is, right? Eye contact, then smile. Shyly, not a complete clown smile, a rather sly smile… a shy smile, then look away. Eye contact, 2 seconds. More and you’re treading on freakish ground. Less and you’re saying that you’re not interested or that, again, you’re a freak.

Talk:
You do have to speak, you know. Body language that says “I’m interested” isn’t enough. But make life easy on yourself and when you talk the first words should be like this “Hi, do you remember me from about two months ago?” Sher will say no, of course, then you can be cocky and funny and say “I was the guy that saved you when this place caught on fire” or some other nonsense about the place. The beauty of this is that today is not likely the first time she’s been there and you can be the hero of the story you start with.

Exit:
The most important part is getting away from her. After all, this isn’t the only place you can meet women, right? This isn’t the only place you know that women come to, right? And she isn’t the only woman you’re going to get an email address and phone number from, right? So, when you have her name, when you’ve been her hero, when you’ve interacted for a minute or two you say to her: “Can you write down your email address (phone number) so we can talk tomorrow?”
And say “Thanks” and walk away. You are done. Don’t blow it by hanging around, forcing more inane small talk and possibly talking yourself out of her attraction for you.
“Thanks, can I call you (email you) tomorrow? ” and walk away.

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