Don’t Let Dating Pressure Mess You Up

Meeting new people?

Having people being judgemental about you?

Being disliked by others?

Or just having too much free time and not enough people to fill the time you have?

We find the people in our lives because we make choices to have these people in our lives. Most are acquaintences and friends, a few are close friends and there might be one or two that we have even closer relationships with.

This is a natural part of life and the “elimination process” that we have that invites people into the several circles of relationships we have. Some closer and some farther away.

At this time of the year, this time being Christmas time and the holidays, it is often the most stressful time because family and friends might put expectations on you that you feel, deep down, are unreasonable and unwarranted.

Being single is not a curse or disease!

Being single is not a holding pattern or a detriment to self-achievement.

If the right person does not instantly appear when you think they should, then think for a minute about the pressure you’re deciding to put on yourself.

When you decide to let life unfold it’s mysteries as it will you will find yourself more at peace with your life and more open to the people that enter your life.

Stop and “smell the roses” and you might find someone else in the garden with you.