What to do when a guy asks you…

What to do when a guy asks you to be a “friends with benefits”?

First off, an explanation: friends with benefits, FWB, means that he wants to have sex with you without the commitment of a formal relationship.

Hell, it even means that if you’re both at the same party, if he thinks he’s going to get lucky with another girl that he can ignore you all night but if you hook up and he doesn’t that he has the right to complain about it.

FWB = SEX

If you like a guy, and it’s more than a casual-sexual thing, then don’t start a friends with benefits entanglement because where it starts is where it will end.

Do you want to be a scheduled one night stand?
Or a waiting-for-him-to-want-sex-from-you-as you-sit-by-the-phone-waiting-for-him-to-call type girl?

If you think you can sleep with a guy to make him your boyfriend then you’ve never been more wrong about men in your life.

Sex is an end-game for guys… it’s not something that happens along the way to a more fulfilling relationship.

If a guy asks you to be FWB then ask him this back:
- why don’t you want to be dating me?
- will you pay for my birth control prescription?
- when I’m on my period will it be ok if we just cuddle?

And, as well, ask yourself this?
- do I want just sex or am I really hoping to turn him into my boyfriend?
- if I think of him as anything other than a friend is sex really a good thing between us?

Overall FWB tends to hurt, more than help, your self-confidence.

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