Roadkill on the highway of life

I recently received an email and I want to share it with you,and my reply. Read on:

Subject: how can men today overcome a wimp image without becoming a bully?

Hi Robert, David Cunningham often says men need to strip themself of all wussifaction programming, yet he also warns men must not be bullys either. ok so I ask you how can men not act like a wimp without acting like a bully? George Bush sr. often acted like a wimp one time and a bully another, so how can men not act like a wimp and not act like abully but show leadership and attract women? Hope to hear from you soon

Hi,
I think that you confuse being a bully and being a wimp with something other than what attracts and disinterests women.
A bully hurts people, a wimp walks away and doesn’t try to stand up for himself.
A bully doesn’t stand up for himself because he acts outwardly hurtful so shields himself from needing to explain his actions.
A wimp doesn’t even try, so there are no actions to explain either.

What you want to concentrate on is being a “positive guy” not a bully or a wimp.

A guy with confidence neither bullies or backs off when challenged.
A guy that is confident with his own abilities attracts women naturally because women can sense success in a man and successful men are inherently confident.

I don’t know who David Cunningham is, but bypassing being a wussy is always the right road for guys that want to enter relationships with women successfully.

No one likes roadkill on the highway of life.

I hope this helps,
Rob.

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