aLoveLinksPlus presents
An interview with Adrian Tomole about his new book 'Approach Anxiety Cure' - a great book that helps men with this "first step" in meeting women.
Q. Is it only an ebook?
A. It is a system that contains two parts:
1. The actual Approach Anxiety Cure - 2nd edition
ebook.
(Approach Anxiety = The Fear/Anxiety to Approach Women)
2. Ongoing personalized feedback via email until you totally eliminate your fear to approach women. It will be truly beneficial for you because we will address all the emotional problems in this area until they are entirely eradicated.
Q. How long did it take to write?
A. It took me around 1 year to develop the process for myself, 2 months to plan and write the first edition of the "Approach Anxiety Cure" system and another 4 months to evolve the system to what it's now.
The first edition contained mostly my personal experiences with these techniques. The second edition was born from helping guys all over the world. I'm truly grateful for learning a tremendous amount of experience by helping them on their particular emotional issues in this area.
Q. What makes this
the right way for guys to get the dating information that is really
relevant to their dating success?
A. Either if you want a high quality woman or lots of women around you, you need first to meet these women somehow. You can either hope that they will come in your life (by introductions or chance meetings) or you can actually approach them confidently.
The purpose of the system "Approach Anxiety Cure" 2nd Edition is to help you get past the fear of rejection, past your negative emotions and to become more and more who you truly are.
This will be done with the help of techniques and methods that you can apply on your negative emotions until they are out of your system. Next, you go out and you realize that you don't feel any more these emotions and that the old negative inner dialog is gone.
I believe, based on my experience of helping myself and other guys, that we are all born naturals with women. It's only these negative emotions, old patters of thinking and behaving and social conditioning that are holding us back.
Once you let go of all these limitations you become more and more of your real self. Your real self is who truly know that you are deep in your heart. These techniques and methods will help you uncover it again.
I also choose to help guys eliminate the fear to approach women because it's so provable. You can instantly prove it to yourself or to any other person if you still have anxiety when approaching women or not.
Q. How does it stand out from other available materials?
A. Most of the materials are too complicated and they contain too many steps and rules.
This makes you over think it in your head too much instead of being in the moment and enjoying the interaction between you and women. They mostly focus on a complex method or a system of beliefs that worked for someone in the past. As a result they are making you rely too much on external constructs rather than on yourself.
Ultimately you need to become self reliant.
If you believe that you cannot attract beautiful women then no amount of faking it, techniques, what to say, how to say it will NOT work. When they work it's temporary and only because you believe they will.
Also, if you have nervous vibe & energy and you talk with a girl, she will become also nervous and she will be turned off by it. This will happen regardless of what words you use. (Don't take anything that I say for granted. Think about your past experiences and test everything in the real world.)
They focus too much on changing with your conscious mind unconscious and automatic behaviors.
Humans are in proportion of 95% creatures of habit. This means
that most of the things that you do, feel and think daily happen
unconsciously. Trying to change first your conscious mind in order
to change yourself requires a lot of will power, time and energy.
Changing your conscious mind in order to change yourself looks like: trying to look and behave more alpha, using routines and patters instead of being yourself, doing 1000 approaches in order to eliminate approach anxiety instead of changing how to think it in your head and changing your emotions etc.
I don't say that this doesn't work at all. I say that it is much slower and less effective.
Changing directly your unconscious mind looks like:/ identifying the causes of your emotional problems and eliminating them, changing how you feel in the the moment, identifying what makes you sabotage yourself and getting rid of it etc.
Changing directly your unconscious mind is about becoming a confident man rather than trying to behave like a confident man. If you are a confident guy, you automatically behave like a confident guy.
You feel, speak and you have the body language of a confident guy. Once you became one, everything else takes care of itself. It becomes effortless.
The Approach Anxiety Cure system helps you remove your issues at the core so they will never bother you again.
You simply find what's really holding you back (the emotions and beliefs) and you eliminate their influence by applying certain techniques.
A couple of them you can find for free on the site.
Q. What type of guy will find this information useful?
A. The Approach anxiety cure system is specially addressed to people that want to be able to approach any women anywhere by being relaxed, confident and in the moment. When approaching women, if you still have any have negative emotions, hesitation or you unconsciously sabotage yourself, then this system is made EXACTLY FOR YOU.
This may help you also in other social areas where you feel negative emotions and the focus is on getting rid of approach anxiety. After you get past approach anxiety with this system then you have the tools to get rid of any other emotional issue that is bothering you.
Q. How easy is it to get started understanding the concepts in the book?
I think that the best way to answer this question is to actually show you a sample of the system. You will immediately know that it works for you. Read and apply "Eliminate Any Anxiety with this technique".
All the techniques and methods in the Approach Anxiety Cure System are just as easy to implement like the previous one.
Q. If a guy gets this product and starts using it, and he really follows what to do in his encounters with women, how long before he can see results?
If he applies the system directly on the issue of approaching women he will be able in a couple of hours to make a positive change that will be obvious to him. This change will be reflected immediately when approaching women.
A couple of hours may sound too quickly if you haven't yet experienced the techniques.
I helped for example one guy over a msn chat and he got over approach anxiety totally and in less than 2 hours.(He prove it to himself the next day when he did around 30 approaches in a couple of hours.) Just try out a couple of the free techniques and experience it for yourself.
I believe that anyone who applies the system daily for about a 2 weeks period will get rid of this fear in most if not all the situations. (You also get a *14 Days Free Full Trial* of the system during each you have full access to the system and I'm also helping you via email.)
Q. If a guy was in place "A" as an individual, unsuccessful with women, shy, introverted, nervous around women, etc., when he's through the material and using it regularly, what will he look like in "Place B"?
A. In "Place B" he will be able to approach women without any fear of rejection or hesitation. He will be able to approach women by being totally relaxed, feeling great about himself and in the moment.
He will never ever have to worry about how to start a conversation.
This is because he knows that what he says is always good enough. He believes in himself and this is why women believe in himself as well.
He will have great and positive energy when talking with people. They will feel inspired by him because of his presence and positive energy.
This positive energy will be easily achieved when there will be no more negative emotions triggered automatically.
Check out right now *FREE Techniques*
from the system *Approach Anxiety Cure* 2nd Edition by
clicking here.
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