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It's a crime that
somehow, even in this information age, so many guys are still living
without a clue as to what is really going on in the world of women. As
always, my primary goal has always been discovering the truth about
dating, attraction, and women.
So let's get to some of the main points:
The reality today is that most young women have FAR LESS INTEREST in
relationships than men.
That doesn't mean it has to be this way, and yes, by being THE MAN you
will be triggering far more attraction and have a damn good chance at
a relationship, but knowing the following information will help you be
The Man. The REASON women have far less interest in relationships than
men is because young women have not EVER even KNOWN a time that women
were NOT considered superior to men.
Think about that:
A typical young woman today was raised SINCE BIRTH in a feminist
culture that said ALL men are total JERKS who will dump you and not be
faithful, a culture that said men are STUPID. If this stuff weren't
for real, it would make for a great science fiction horror movie.
This culture also said that equality for women had only ONE meaning-
that women should basically go out and just try to have no holds
barred sex with endless partners in the stereotypical way that men
were SUPPOSEDLY, I repeat SUPPOSEDLY, having sex- i.e. cheating and no
commitments, etc.
Women were being told that the IDEAL, that the NATURAL standard, was
for women to go all out on total INDIVIDUALITY AND COMPLETE
ABANDONMENT OF ANYTHING ELSE.
Forget family, forget community, forget children, forget anything but
SELF.
As if the SELF needs no OTHER.
At the same time, the REALITY is that MOST MEN were ACTUALLY treating
women FAR BETTER than they had EVER done as a result of men trying to
PROVE that in fact they were NOT JERKS.
Or men were being
pathetic creatures who could not NOT turn down an opportunity for sex,
which just goes to show how desperately pathetic some men are and how
that damages men's reputations. So TONS of men started to feel guilty
for being men, while women were bashing men on the head and men were
saying "Please bash me some more, I deserve it."
Do you see where this is leading?
Women were getting the impression that they SHOULD abuse guys and that
they COULD. So, basically, on one hand you have women being PISSED OFF
at men, due to feminist lies, and on the other hand, you have MEN
behaving as total WUSS nice guys in their impossible goal of trying to
prove they are not jerks, thereby setting up men to get MAULED and
MOWED DOWN in the real world of women.
Or you have pathetic men that pay women to have sex with them. All
this stuff made men look weak and/or evil.
Do you understand what this means?
THIS is the reason that
SEX is easier to get than ever IF you just make it clear that you are
NOT desperate and that you are NOT going to become this nice guy who
loves to cuddle and will start thinking about marriage and all that
stuff. In other words, that you will not stifle their OPTIONS for
"fun". An EXCELLENT article that elaborates on this point, which was
pointed out to me by a very helpful guy, can be read
here.
Am I saying that ALL women are like this? NO, I am NOT. I AM saying
however, that most women are.
Ah, but I can already hear guys arguing, "But how about the fact that
all these girls keep saying they wish they could find a good guy, and
all these girls who want a committed relationship from me?".
To which I respond: They are seeking your VALIDATION, and once you give it to them, it's
GOODBYE CHARLIE.
The fact of the matter is that women LOVE to blame men for everything,
because THAT way, they can have their cake and eat it too. You see,
that way they can have 5 boyfriends at once and tell the guys that
they are faithful and blame it all on the guys and not themselves one
bit. ESPECIALLY when those guys are CLUELESS and have been HAD by the
feminist myth that all guys are bad and all women are immaculate.
The truth is that TONS of women are just RARING to go for sex, IF you
come across as a cool guy, with ZERO expectation of commitments. And
when women test you on wanting a commitment, the moment you fall for
it, it's goodbye. I'm also fed up with feminist arguments about this
guy or that guy who is jerk, yes sure there are guys who are jerks,
but I can PROMISE you that on average, in my experience, far more
girls are into drugs, lies, cheating, and casual sex and party style
living than guys are.
In fact, women are AMAZED at how clean cut so many guys are compared
to them, but of course they are not going to go full public on this
one.
Like I said once in a previous newsletter, the worst insult a fellow
man can give you in front of a woman is to say what a good guy you
are, and the greatest compliment he can give you is to tell her that
she should stay away from you because you are a real bad guy. Now you
might think that all this is reason to get down or miserable. It
isn't, because in fact the greatest victims of all this are not men,
it is women.
Women are confused as hell these days.
It's like "Okay, so I rebelled against men, I'm having endless sex
partners, but now what?"
There's no where else to go except more drugs, more partying, more
cheating, more lies. And more psychotherapy. All relationships are
only given a half-assed effort, so there is no real commitment in the
first place which means any little thing and boom goodbye Charlie.
This is an ARTIFICIAL situation where things are out of balance
because nature does not normally turn men into WUSSES. In fact, it was
men who first started the whole problem with an excess of liberalism
in their philosophies. There is no moral clarity in ANYTHING anymore-
everything is supposedly relative these days. Total chaos. This is why
the most common comment among young people regarding relationships
these days are that they are "totally disillusioned".
Duh. Zero commitment + infinite lies + zero moral clarity = total
disillusionment.
It is CRUCIAL to realize that the feminist view REQUIRES the "evil
men" myth to sustain itself. For if men are not these evil creatures,
then there is no moral license to mow the down.
So what is the answer to all this?
The answer my friends is to figure out what you want: If you really just want sex, then you're in luck, because women are
almost obsessed with it these days. Of course, you have to learn how
to be a cool guy or you still won't get anywhere, and I explain and
demonstrate in my eBook, seminars, and workshops how to pick up women
easily.
There is an inverse relationship between how easy it is to get sex in
a society and how strong the relationships in that society are. The
easier it is to get sex, the weaker the relationships usually will be,
because the value of sex plummets, "it is just sex after all" the
culture says. So sex in terms of being meaningful sacred element of
relationships becomes almost a joke. That is bad news for
relationships.
If you are looking for an exclusive relationship, you are going to
have to be very SELECTIVE in the women you date AND you are going to
have to also convey that you are one hell of a guy.
The problem is that it is incredibly complex to find a woman with good
values, since many women will put up a good front that they have these
values when in fact they don't. Remember, girls have learned to lie in
order to manage the FLOOD of guys hitting on them since they were 13.
It's not women's fault that they were born into a society where guys
seem to be ASKING for abuse. The best way to judge a woman is based on
her actions and the actions of her friends over the long term.
Regardless of whether you want a relationship or are just dating,
women will always want the guy who comes across as the overall
superior, and that includes superior in his presentation, be it his
clothes, his looks, etc, his social skills, his voice tonality, his
confidence in his humor, ad infinitum.
In fact, the reason why women cheat so much is because they have THE
OPTION to cheat since men are SO EASY and basically THROW themselves
at women and there is so little a woman has to invest in them.
Overall, what guys have to learn is to not be needy, because then,
they will be on the same powerful wavelength that women are in this
sense. You see, when you KNOW you can have tons of women for sex, it
makes you less needy for sex or for a relationship, which does not
mean you don't WANT a relationship, just that you will not get into
one out of desperation.
That way, you can date until you find the RIGHT woman who has got the
winning personality and who does desire a faithful relationship. One
thing that a lot of guys don't realize is that many women jump from
one partner to the next as a way of avoiding having to deal with the
consequences of their own personalities- it is much easier to jump and
run to some new guy who will kiss her butt than to have to GIVE
something in a relationship- by jumping from one guy to the next,
there is always some new guy who will do all the giving.
Now if you are just looking for sex, this might not matter to you, but
if you are looking for the potential for something more, be on the
alert for the character of a woman, i.e. does she take responsibility
for her actions? I don't believe the answer is for men to take
REVENGE, because women are NOT THE ENEMY, they are our partners in
humanity and of course they are our sexual mates.
However, I DO believe 100 PERCENT in men taking back their DIGNITY,
their CONFIDENCE, their SELF-RESPECT, and their ability to ATTRACT
women.
These days, that requires some courage, confidence, and some know-how.
That first courageous step has to come from you, you have to make the
decision that you are worth more than feminism has made you think you
are worth. You have to realize that the truth is not only do women not
like it when you act like a wuss, but women are ONLY attracted to
confident men.
The next time you see a woman you'd like to approach, set things off
in the right frame from the VERY START.
Instead of waiting there for a few minutes staring at her, just GO UP
TO HER and IMMEDIATELY start the pick up. And don't chat with her
about boring stuff like the weather. Trust me, women KNOW you are
chatting them up, and they are sexual beings just like you, they don't
mind. What they mind is if you seem to be inferior somehow. So use the
chat to convey that you are cool, by not acting all serious and
desperate.
Instead, either tease her on something she is doing or wearing or just
have a playful conversation with her about anything from popular
culture that just about anyone could relate to.
And do all this as if you've done it a million times and it's NOT A
BIG DEAL. That means not having a facial expression that looks like
you have just launched a thermonuclear war. If you'd like to be able
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These skills will give you the confidence that will not only help you
initially attract women, but also will help you in relationships
because women can tell when they are with a guy who knows how to
attract women and it is a huge turn on for them even while being in a
relationship with you.
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I explain all of this stuff in detail in my book, The Dating Wizard:
Secrets to Success with Women. it’s jam packed not only with the specifics
of what to do to approach women and bridge into getting physical, but also
with how to get into the right mind frame and keep your mind that way.
Remember, the greatest gift you can give a woman is the feeling of POWER
that you will resonate as THE MAN. And that’s all in the brain, so watch
what you feed it.
You can download the book right now and be reading it in just a few
minutes. Go to:
The Dating Wizard: Secrets to Success with Women book page
Till next time, Michael W.
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