might not know is that, unlike men, it is not difficult to give a
woman an orgasm from stimulating these non-genital erogenous zones.
In this article I'm going to give you 3 erotic hot-spots
that are extremely powerful, and a few tips on how to use
them to drive your woman absolutely crazy in bed."
Have you ever wished that you had some secret weapon up your sleeve
that would make her go "whoa! what the heck was THAT?!"... something
that would really turn her on in a way that no other man had ever
Something that would set you apart in her
mind as her most amazing lover?
Well, that's one of the
really cool things about finding a few of her "secret spots".
See, first of all, most guys just don't know about this stuff-- they
pretty much follow the same old routine every time-- the breasts and
the bits between the legs.
In fact, they'll basically
follow the same pattern every time-- kissing, then feeling her
breasts, then mouth on breasts, then maybe using their fingers, oral
sex (either giving or receiving), then intercourse.
wrong with that... but there is so much more you could do to drive
her wild. And when you do these other things, you light her
imagination on fire-- she immediately knows that she is dealing with
a man who understands sex at a higher level.
And THAT is
thrilling for her.
Second of all, believe it or not,
MOST WOMEN DON'T EVEN KNOW about the secret spots that are
on their OWN bodies.
Sounds crazy, I know, but that's the
way it is.
Part of the reason for this is that no man ever
touched them in the right way before.
When you are the
first to do it... believe me, she will DEFINITELY remember you for
Let me very quickly explain that the "paying attention"
that I'm talking about is much more than just listening to what she tells
you or noticing what she likes.
It's about tuning in with your
entire body to her entire body.
Every woman is
different-- and, more to the point of what I'm talking
about, every woman has different ways she likes to be touched,
different things that turn her on, and different things that bring
her to orgasm.
When you tune into her entire body and
really start paying attention to what it is telling you, you begin
to uncover all of those things that are specific to the woman that
you are with.
She feels like you are "reading her
mind" in bed. She can't believe how intuitively you know
her body. She has orgasms with you on the very first time you are
with her that are so powerful, that previously only men who had
dated her for years had been able to achieve with her.
also, when you tune in like that, something more subtle happens...
not a physical thing, but a "feeling" thing. She feels a bridge of
intimacy with you-- an emotional connection that
allows her to unleash her most powerful orgasms.
attention like this will let you discover many secret spots on her
body that she never even knew about... until she met you.
Okay, as promised, here are 3 of the
best places on her body to drive her wild that most guys completely
ignore-- or are just too insecure to take their time exploring.
-->Spot #1: The Back Of Her Neck
It's funny to me
that so many guys KNOW about the fact that women like it when you
kiss or bite the back of their neck... but so few guys actually do
it for more than a quick thrill.
Some women may find the
sensation a bit ticklish-- that just means that she's not aroused
Once she is turned on, the back of
the neck is one of the most sexually powerful spots on a woman's
I have no idea if this is related... but in the
world of cats-- from house cats to lions, when the male cat mates
with the female, he bites her on the back of the neck to put her
into "sexual paralysis" so that she'll be still enough for him to
mate with her.
Well, I don't know if this works on any
other species in the animal kingdom... but it definitely works on
When your woman is turned on, try gently lifting her
hair and then kissing the back of her neck...
point, she may get goose bumps or make a little sexy noise... and
this is when most men stop and move on to her breasts or whatever...
Instead, linger there at the back of the neck.
Let her feel
the breath on the soft skin there. tease her with your tongue, then
Now she may not go crazy right away. Just
stay there holding the nape of her neck gently between your teeth.
She may start to giggle... just stay for another moment...
It may take 10, 20, or even 30 seconds of continuous, light
she will very suddenly become incredibly aroused.
Some women can be brought to orgasm from gently biting and licking
just the back of their neck. It may take some time, but the results
This is also an incredibly powerful thing to do when you are
already having sex with her from behind. Just lay your body across
her back and bite as you continue to make love to her...
And then hope the neighbors don't call the police from all the
--> Spot #2: Inside The Elbows and Knees
soft, sensitive bits of skin are PG enough for any public place, and
gently running the finger tips on them is a good way to give her the
chills and set some anticipation for later in the evening.
But when "later in the evening" comes, they are so often neglected.
As foreplay, or when making love, gently trace your tongue around
and over them, kiss, or even gently bite.
For some women,
when highly aroused, a rhythmic motion with the tip of the
tongue can lead to orgasm.
--> Spot #3: How To Find The Spot Of Your Own
Welcome to the advanced class.
Today's subject: How to find
a secret spot that drives your woman wild in bed that nobody else
The skin is the largest organ of the human
body. It breathes, it has tiny muscles that allow it to get firm or
soft, or covered with goose bumps. It protects us from the
outside world, and it is laced with a mesh of nerves that allow us
to sense what the world is doing-- from temperature, to wet or dry,
rough or smooth, to hard or soft, from tickle to sharply painful.
But also the skin, in some areas, is capable of delivering a mind
blast of sexual pleasure.
For guys, that mostly
means the nerves in and around the penis and anus.
women it can get much more... exotic.
Think of her body as
a map where the lines of nerves intersect like rivers and
road-ways-- and in some areas these lines intersect in mysterious
ways that can produce incredible sexual power.
How do you
find which spots?
This is not a 100%
method, but it's darn close.
Any spot that is ticklish on
her body when you are just kidding around, is
very, very likely to be powerfully erotic when she is
So, where is your girl ticklish? The
bottoms of her feet? Her belly? The space behind her knees? The
small of her back? The side of her neck where it meets the
I'll tell you what... try out each one of these
in the paragraph above. Most women are erotically sensitive in all
But REMEMBER: She may be quite used to this spot
being unpleasantly ticklish... if you just "go for it" it is likely
to shock her right out of her sexual mood.
You have to
approach it slowly. Think of it less like ambushing a wild animal
than very slowly approaching and making friends with a frightened
Approach the area slowly with flat
palm, just held steady, then maybe the finger tips...
maybe a gentle kiss.
If she can handle that, you might go
for a flick of the tongue.
To maintain her aroused state,
especially if you are already in bed, it might be a good idea to do
this while you are actually making love.
Build it slowly.
Eventually, if you are patient, you will build up to the point where
you can lick it or bite it gently as if it were a "second clitoris".
And as crazy as this sounds, with practice, this new spot might work
every bit as powerfully as her clitoris.
In other words,
it is not impossible that she will have orgasms from stimulating her
new secret spot.
And if she does, you will be absolutely
floored by the intensity of the orgasm she will experience.
Because it is a completely new experience for her it will be like
taking her virginity, like she has come for the very first time.
It's a completely amazing experience to share with a woman.
I strongly encourage you to try the first two spots first and then
begin gently experimenting with the third.
that you might not get right away. Don't be discouraged. It's worth
playing with for a while until you find your way.
better yet, it's a great, fun way to build physical intimacy and
sexual trust in your relationship.